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Gypsy

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Squeezing boobs
« on: 22 October 2017, 12:55:50 pm »
I had a client on Friday who I've seen several times before. He comes across as very respectful, but I had to tell him he was squeezing my boobs too hard. He apologised and then did it a few times more so I mentioned it again. He apologised and I originally thought it wasn't intentional. Now I've had time to think about it I wonder do men like this give any thought whatsoever on the strength of their grasp and it seems to be middle aged to older men who do this. It wasn't as if he was rough, I've had plenty of people on the rough side and yet I haven't come out in bruises. I haven't bruised this time, but it is still very painful and despite the occasional PSE style of young guys, they don't treat my breasts as a stressball!

Sometimes my revulsion of these men is palpable!  :FF
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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #1 on: 22 October 2017, 01:02:27 pm »
Squeeze his balls or pinch his nipples every time he does it, he will soon learn.

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« Reply #2 on: 22 October 2017, 01:20:53 pm »
I've had the same, the guy's touch was too firm and was quite unpleasant. He wasn't rough per se but each touch was a bit too firm and made me nervous. A couple of days later I had fingermark bruises on my inner thighs where he had held my legs open with too strong a grip. It's really not nice at all.

Gypsy

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #3 on: 22 October 2017, 01:48:38 pm »
Why do they do it? I've had fingerprints too! Not from latest one, but they must think Well, I'm not being all round rough so what's the problem?

I don't advertise myself as sub, so I could understand it more if I did. I make it clear that I'm a domme and even do domme sessions! But these so called 'GFE Experience' men clearly think that GFE = Piece of meat!
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Gypsy

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #4 on: 22 October 2017, 01:55:45 pm »
It may be a coincidence but this type of man isn't interested in your 'pleasure' either. The gentle guys love RO  and making you happy but the former books an hour and it's all about them  ::) I'm not complaining, he's paying! So he can do whatever he likes within reason. I don't enjoy it at all anyway, but it's nice when you get a nice guy willing to do some work  ;)
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chocoholicgirl

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #5 on: 22 October 2017, 02:01:21 pm »
It may be a coincedence but this type of man isn't interested in your 'pleasure' either. The gentle guys love RO  and making you happy but the former books an hour and it's all about them  ::) I'm not complaining, he's paying! So he can do whatever he likes within reason. I don't enjoy it at all anyway, but it's nice when you get a nice guy willing to do some work  ;)

No not at all. The guy I met put me on edge from the start and I think I was a bit tense. Halfway through he asked me to leave because there was 'no chemistry'! Damn right there wasn't!

It doesn't happen often but it's horrible when they are too firm with you, it's hard to tell if they are doing it on purpose because they are paying or if they are like that anyway. I will always tell them though, they need to know. I bruise easily too so I don't like to be handled roughly, have some respect eh guys!!

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #6 on: 22 October 2017, 02:38:22 pm »
Sometimes there just thick and dont have a clue how hard there doing it...but in a small percentage they do it on purpose to hurt and leave a few marks those ones have a hang up about using us in the first place.

sweetmilf

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« Reply #7 on: 23 October 2017, 06:13:40 pm »
but in a small percentage they do it on purpose to hurt and leave a few marks

I quite agree.  Squeezing someone's boobs until it hurts isn't normal.  Some men do get off this way, I doubt they choose someone, who advertises as a sub for his boob squeezing/you look in pain scenario.  To some people, we are just prostitutes, who put up with things for money. 


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« Reply #8 on: 23 October 2017, 06:28:15 pm »
I quite agree.  Squeezing someone's boobs until it hurts isn't normal.  Some men do get off this way, I doubt they choose someone, who advertises as a sub for his boob squeezing/you look in pain scenario.  To some people, we are just prostitutes, who put up with things for money.

I have actually had a couple admit to this when things got heated and words exchanged so i know that some get off on hurting us and think in there warped mind that were just whores so deserve it all. Sad but true

sweetmilf

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« Reply #9 on: 23 October 2017, 06:36:21 pm »
Yes, and they tend to have a lengthy list of positive feedbacks, too.   ::)

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #10 on: 23 October 2017, 11:45:59 pm »
I've stopped all breast touching or nipple sucking since being pregnant. But I still get guys all the time that give them a cheeky lick  and then the cheeky lick turns into a suck  and I have to have a go at them. I had to throw out a client not so long ago because he bit down on my nipple and sucked very hard and when I slapped him and pulled him off me he said what are you doing I'm milking you (like what th fuck?!?!) I went mad and kicked him out but was very shaken up! Before I was pregnant I used to hate it when guys with tough callousy hands would grab my boobs it feels like sandpaper and it's awful! Also sometimes if guys have Sharp nails and they grab your breasts it's horrible too but many men don't realise they are doing things that hurt as many men are clumsy and don't know anything but hand Cock vagina poke vagina cock hand blah blah. Sometimes I have to tell my partner don't squeeze the boob. I think it's just men being men more than anything and being clumsy and not thinking (which is done a lot) I do also understand from reading online though some guys like to hurt women if they don't do what they want as I have experienced it first hand and it's been terrible. Like they try Cum in your eyes and hair on purpose slap your breasts and twist your nipples or even spit in your face. The guys that do things like that or purposefully try and hurt you should all be given negative feedback possibly even safety alerts as they are lose cannons and In my own experience these type of guys are just waiting to explode on one person as they are so full of pent up anger and negativity. Which is why the warnings and wasters sections is great as we can help eachother avoid this type. And rough guys that do hurt us belong on here.
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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #11 on: 24 October 2017, 12:09:51 am »
Yes, and they tend to have a lengthy list of positive feedbacks, too.   ::)
Yes, I agree with this. Are they rough with other girls?  I would definitely leave negative if a guy was too rough with me to warn others.
I give them one warning now on pushing boundaries. They only need to be told once if something they are doing is hurting.
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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #12 on: 24 October 2017, 08:32:33 am »
This is awful and I'm so sorry it happens to you.

Nothing like this happens to me, which could be because my boobs are very small but also I won't tolerate any roughness. I also make it clear in advertising and when taking enquiries that I'm only offering a gentle service.  I have had a couple of men put their hands around my throat or shove fingers in my mouth pulling it back and I stop it immediately, even rough or slobbery kissing I won't tolerate. Some men don't realise they are being rough, sometimes it's eagerness after not having sexual contact for a very long time. I always stop in politely but firmly. I have come across this in personal life partners so know it's not a paying for sex thing, some men do think women like rough sex. I don't ever want to feel revulsion.

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Re: Squeezing boobs
« Reply #13 on: 24 October 2017, 11:13:02 pm »
They only need to be told once if something they are doing is hurting.


Exactly!! And if they do it again after being told to stop its a sneaky form of abuse.


A client the other day literally got his thumbs and attempted to press them against my nipples  ??? immediately I moved his hands and said "Don't do that" He was all apologetic and said he was glad I told him as he wouldn't want to do anything I didn't like, fair enough. Another one 'in the heat of passion' slightly bit me on my neck, again straight away told him don't bite me, don't ever bite me, he came out with some stupid remark about how of course he wouldn't do anything to hurt me and in his words "But other men would just ignore and carry on"  Fucking really  ::) ::) ::)

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« Reply #14 on: 25 October 2017, 12:03:19 pm »
Yes, I agree with this. Are they rough with other girls?


I tend to think they do, or at least they'd try.