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Emma_C

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Re: Clients who adore you until they have come.
« Reply #30 on: 23 May 2016, 01:50:12 pm »
I can understand how's that's coming across as rude. It's like idealisation then devaluation. He's probably exhausted himself by the end with all the over the top behaviour & then maybe has no energy to even speak after. I'd mirror him & ignore with just a brief smile whilst holding the door open when he leaves & get on with brushing my hair or something whilst he's dressing, not even looking at him. Treat 'em like they treat you & they'll soon take the hint.

Maybe if he lives at home with Mummy he wants to be told off & scolded afterwards but he doesn't know how to ask for that!? Next time try saying " now get lost you dirty boy" & see what he does lol 

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ladyinred

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Re: Clients who adore you until they have come.
« Reply #31 on: 23 May 2016, 02:34:39 pm »
Don't bother.
I have those clients too, some of them ask stupid questions afterwards, but before they come they are sweet as pie.
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darkchocolate

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Re: Clients who adore you until they have come.
« Reply #32 on: 24 May 2016, 10:00:44 am »
 ;D . men in general are like . i had this conversation with a regular of mine and his response was epic ;D . They feel like you are just a piece of shit once they have nutted and you are pretty much useless to them after wards. don't beat your self up about it , it happens most times and i don't bother my self because am only there to entertain for a certain period of time and not to make you happy or like me forever  ;D
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fancypants

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Re: Clients who adore you until they have come.
« Reply #33 on: 24 May 2016, 12:12:39 pm »
Try not to take it personally  Jill although it can be difficult. I had a client who was exactly like this.

So I asked him what the issue was in a very diplomatic way and he said " I've always been like this after sex, I tend to fall into a deep depression and just want to be left by myself".

The condition is actually quite common it's called Post-coital tristesse or post-coital dysphoria (PCD)  which " is the feeling in humans of melancholy, anxiety, agitation or aggression after sexual intercourse".


Hope that helps  :)
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