So, question guys. I'm a fairly newish escort, and do only outcalls in hotels. Every time I'm walking through a hotel lobby, or whenever a porter opens the door for me, they always give me that look of "ooh hallo there lady, I know EXACTLY what you're up to tonight" *subtle wink*
Or when I meet a much older gentleman in a bar for my booking, and I can just see that look of disdain/amusement/annoyance on the staff's faces.

This morning I was coming out of my overnight booking at 7.30am and this porter (bastard) as I came through the door and was already walking away, practically yelled behind my back "Good morning Madam!"
I almost spontaneously self combusted. It's amusing on one hand because you know that you've just made almost as much in a night as they've made in a month, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable.

Mind you, I always dress very classy, no excessive make up, nothing trashy, but still, is there a way to attract less attention? How do you deal with it? How do you think people who work in hotels/bars feel about people like us?

They are trained to greet the guests they all say it and have eye contact with you when opening doors etc even when you are not escorting  ........

I think because we now what we are doing we assume everyone else does ...they maybe admiring your shoes  or looking at the person behind you ... i still can get paranoid years later it is just that guilty feeling

People socialize in bars/hotels  of various ages together ...it is quite common in the world so dont over think it ...when i have met a older work collegue in a hotel or family member i have never felt guilty for one min.

in my previous job we would have a team  ( mostly guys) staying in a hotel and i could have had about 9 different guys come to my room for paperwork or a piece of equipment or just to chat and i never once thought anything of it or once asked what i was doing/asked to leave .....

1. If it's during the day wear sunglasses when you enter and exit. When your eyes are hidden you generally give off the message of not wanting to be disturbed and doormen are less likely to give you enthusiastic welcomes. Wear a long nondescript black coat and flat shoes.

2. Fiddle with your phone/ipod. Pretend you're on the phone/texting etc. when you go through the door so you have an excuse not to talk to them. They probably won't say anything if they think you're focused on something else anyway.

3. It's all about body language, if you give off the vibe of normalcy people won't have a reason to think you're doing anything strange. Walk into the hotel lobby briskly and confidently as if you're familiar with the place. Along with covering my eyes I stick my hands in my coat pockets which sends the signal that I don't want to talk to anybody. When you meet your client at the bar be aware of the vibe you're giving to other people. Try to look like you're comfortable and familiar with him, like he could be a family friend. Of course that's more difficult if your client wants to be all over you.

The staff probably don't know you're a WG, at my first booking I was certain everybody in the lobby from the concierge to the doormen knew but it's just the paranoia taking over. It's possible the porter was just trying to be friendly or chat you up. I don't know if there are lots of WGs where you live but London's full of them so most hotels/restaurants don't bat an eye. They're more focused on their jobs anyway. 

I just act normal as I would if meeting a person who wasn't paying me.

I stay in hotels for a sorts of reasons, with/without partners, friends some of whom check in before I get there. Years ago I've also met affairs in a hotel room. No one in my experience has ever given me any sort of look.

What's wrong with saying 'good morning madam' I would be annoyed if he didn't say anything and just stared. I always smile at them and say hello, 99% of doormen are super polite, and most likely they don't give a shit that *yet another* hooker just walked in.

I've never noticed any looks. I could be going to see anyone & have stayed in lots of non escorting situations as well as being booked too. Staff are always friendly as they are to anyone. I don't know of your exact experience but I think there could be a possibility there might be a small amount of paranoia because of the fact you're thinking of your exact arrangement going on.

The only time I have noticed some looks was out of town for a week with a client...but I think it was more looks at the age difference, I just ignored it and acted as if I would if I was his girlfriend or date or something. It's no ones business remember but always just smile, be polite, discrete where you can and move along.