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trashbaby

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #270 on: 06 February 2016, 11:24:18 pm »

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #271 on: 06 February 2016, 11:52:52 pm »
Yesterday a guy rung asking for 2 hour booking  (always a red flag) He didn't want sex (another red flag)  wanted to know if I would shave him as he 'saw that I was shaven so thought it only fair that he be the same (another red flag) He asked if I had ever shaved anyone before, I replied course I have I wouldn't offer something if I hadn't already done it many times before, then he asked if I'm very good at hand relief...Well at that point all the flags were at full mast so I said "Well even if I wasn't any good I would say yes I'm great at it wouldn't I?!" I think he clicked on then that I had him sussed, he said he would confirm at 7pm (for a 9pm booking) surprise surprise he didn't! lol

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #272 on: 16 February 2016, 01:21:10 am »
Red flags & the things they say
Do u fancy a coffee today?
If he pays in pounds
We'll go with these hounds
Otherwise i'll say be on ur way

Love do u take a cheque?
We say do we fecking heck
It'll likely bounce
After u've had ur pounce
Well do u do a reduced fee?
Listen c***t stop taking the pee
Well how about tick?
How'd u like a poke in the eye with a shitty stick?

They go & make a new profile
Then email u back after a while
Act all cool
But we're no fool
He's caught bang to right
I could't give a shiny shite
He's not happy cos it's not his day
They prefer everything to go their way

« Last Edit: 16 February 2016, 02:51:30 am by Nomercy »

Miss Carolines secret

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #273 on: 19 February 2016, 08:01:05 am »
Email texts or calls stating it's their first time and they have never done anything like this before  ::)

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #274 on: 19 February 2016, 09:59:44 am »
Email texts or calls stating it's their first time and they have never done anything like this before  ::)

Oh yes then start on about OWO, GFE and when they arrive say "lets sort out the paperwork" and pay straight off (which is good, but not the sign of a newbie!)

Not a red flag as much as one of those things that make you roll your eyes and wonder what goes on in men's heads!


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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #275 on: 19 February 2016, 04:36:41 pm »
"I'm looking for a regular"

"this is my first time"

I feel like these things are always said with some sort of intent behind them(If they aren't jerking their cocks off as mostly timewasters say this).
The regular one is because they think as soon as I hear the word regular I will see pounds signs and therefore maybe offer a better service/do something I normally wouldn't do/ give him a discount etc/give him bb etc.

Ditto with this is my first time ::)


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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #276 on: 22 February 2016, 08:25:34 pm »
My Number One Red Flag - The Dick Pic!!

If I'd saved every Dick Pic I've ever  been sent I could stage an exhibition. Actually, I'd probably be in the running for the Turner Prize. Forget the Tracy Emin style art installation - The Dick Pics would be in the running for the prize. Dick pricks from a real prozzy.

Seriously, why on earth do men send us these pics??? - Do they ever get a positive reaction???
The  dick pick I got sent I replied  with oh you've sent a blank message to wind them up  then tried and did  it again  I repeated the blank message then ignored him  then got  have you got it yet to which I said what was it you sent me anyway !!!!!

katrina

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #277 on: 22 February 2016, 08:33:27 pm »
My Number One Red Flag - The Dick Pic!!

If I'd saved every Dick Pic I've ever  been sent I could stage an exhibition. Actually, I'd probably be in the running for the Turner Prize. Forget the Tracy Emin style art installation - The Dick Pics would be in the running for the prize. Dick pricks from a real prozzy.

Seriously, why on earth do men send us these pics??? - Do they ever get a positive reaction???
The  dick pick I got sent I replied  with oh you've sent a blank message to wind them up  then tried and did  it again  I repeated the blank message then ignored him  then got  have you got it yet to which I said what was it you sent me anyway !!!!!


One guy said he was a photographer and he wanted to take some photos for me, I asked him to send me some examples of his work by email as my phone doesn't send or receive pics, he sent one of his cock then kept emailing saying "what do you think to it?" I replied after several hours "No I don't like it, its an odd shape I prefer them short and thick"

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #278 on: 22 February 2016, 10:03:10 pm »
If I reply to dick pics at all I either say 'I'd go to your doctor with that' or 'It looks like a penis...only smaller' then block!

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #279 on: 22 February 2016, 11:09:27 pm »
I had a guy tonight start off with a very polite text of the sort that usually means a good booking. But then he said that his phone was acting up - he could receive calls but it cut off when he made calls. I called him. He had the slightly campy/breathy voice of a timewaster.

He said, "I'm a genuine guy - not a timewaster..."

uh-oh!

Then he said, "I used to see a girl regularly but she retired so I'm looking for a regular thing."

I knew I needed to get off the phone but I'm not good at hanging up on otherwise polite people and so he got as far as asking if I had a Dorothy from Wizard of Oz uniform before I could disengage.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #280 on: 23 February 2016, 06:48:06 am »
When a guy emails saying 'I would first like to get to know you'  - I emailed him explaining that isn't our role - surprise surprise he hasn't emailed back!

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #281 on: 23 February 2016, 03:57:56 pm »
When a guy emails saying 'I would first like to get to know you'  - I emailed him explaining that isn't our role - surprise surprise he hasn't emailed back!

Why do lots say this? It's really strange. I just wonder what is motivating them? They know it's not dating so why approach an escort like that?

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #282 on: 23 February 2016, 04:18:11 pm »
When a guy emails saying 'I would first like to get to know you'  - I emailed him explaining that isn't our role - surprise surprise he hasn't emailed back!

Why do lots say this? It's really strange. I just wonder what is motivating them? They know it's not dating so why approach an escort like that?

My theory is that they expect us to be flattered and grateful for a man such as themselves who wants to know us personally and not just as a fuck object, possibily leading to us letting our guard down, becoming friends or more and ultimately resulting in free sex.
God I sound cynical!!
They tried to bury us.
They didn't know we were seeds.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #283 on: 23 February 2016, 04:20:19 pm »
You're right though.

But if they had any brains they would know that trying to get free sex out of an escort is a hiding to nothing. She is just not going to do it because she has got used to the wads.

hahaha x

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #284 on: 23 February 2016, 05:22:37 pm »
When a guy emails saying 'I would first like to get to know you'  - I emailed him explaining that isn't our role - surprise surprise he hasn't emailed back!

Why do lots say this? It's really strange. I just wonder what is motivating them? They know it's not dating so why approach an escort like that?
I don't even think it's about dating or trying to get a freebie it-s purely to get us to play email or text ping pong with them and they are not genuine clients.