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sexy scottish nina

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Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« on: 31 August 2015, 02:34:15 pm »
I rented my apartment to this girl, up untill now she has paid rent in full etc, this time ripped me off by ?200 . I just want to warn others to what she is like etc so that it doesnt happen to them.

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #1 on: 31 August 2015, 02:51:30 pm »
Unpleasant! Yes it happens.
I used to let my place too.
I always got  payment up front for this reason.

One girl used it a couple times fine then third time said she had
to make the money first in the bedroom then pay me, and got nasty
about it.

So I felt if she was living so hand to mouth she may do a
runner...so insisted on payment first. (She had it in her purse lol)
Then banned her.
« Last Edit: 31 August 2015, 05:11:24 pm by cheesypeas »
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sexy scottish nina

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #2 on: 31 August 2015, 03:54:31 pm »
I had rented it out to her 3 times, I trusted her to pay as requested, now im blocked and can't contact her etc, my thoughts are if she can do it to me, 4hen who else is she doing it too.

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #3 on: 31 August 2015, 04:35:57 pm »
Guess the lesson here is clients are clients, always get the money upfront
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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #4 on: 31 August 2015, 05:30:44 pm »
That's appalling. Sorry that happened to you Nina. I wonder if this (with more info) should go in the Warnings & Wasters section?

I've read enough posts to know that WG ripping off other WGs isn't uncommon but it always really saddens me to hear. While I can understand the necessity of never trusting a client that same mentality wouldn't naturally transfer to WGs I met (though i know it should!) I suppose it's because I expect there to be a sense of camaraderie. Girls looking out for girls! So disappointing when people ruin that to the point where so many girls here don't trust others in the profession   :(

Hope you have more success with the next girl if you choose to rent out again!

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sexy scottish nina

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #5 on: 01 September 2015, 10:57:44 am »
Exactly Elisabeth, I gave her the benefit of doubt that she would pay her way. I have used many different numbers to contact her, she just hangs up. I have even had friends call her and she does the same. Obviously this girl has no conscience.  I have contacted as many landlords as I know in Scotland, England,  NI &Ireland giving photos and description and number. I know its highly likely thatbher number and profile will change but not her face lol

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #6 on: 03 September 2015, 10:52:19 pm »
Sorry that this happened to you.  It always really disappoints me when I hear of girls ripping each other off, we all know what the business is like, do we not have enough to deal with without scamming each other too?

I guess I always think there should be cameraderie or something, it's sad when it turns out not to be the case.

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« Reply #7 on: 03 September 2015, 11:37:53 pm »
Sorry that this happened to you.  It always really disappoints me when I hear of girls ripping each other off, we all know what the business is like, do we not have enough to deal with without scamming each other too?

I guess I always think there should be cameraderie or something, it's sad when it turns out not to be the case.

This is my thoughts every time i hear of some thing like this just so disapointing
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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #8 on: 07 September 2015, 10:58:03 am »
Hi ladies, if anyone needs this parasites number details etc please send a wee pm. Try and keep it to a minimum of how many of us girls she can rip off.

Nina xx

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« Reply #9 on: 07 September 2015, 01:23:30 pm »
I'd put this in warnings & wasters. How rude of her to treat you like that. It just goes to show, give people an inch & they will take a mile.

I have been lucky in the past with ladies helping me out for free but I bought them stuff & drove for them. We used to recommend one another too to clients. Although recently I have had a couple of women  try to rip me off in regards to using their place. I didn't know them very well I must point out.  One wanted to take 50% of my money for using a bedroom in her house, another was in the run up to asking for more money & playing power games. It's doesn't surprise me to be honest, lots of bitter, selfish, jealous & unscrupulous people out there.

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #10 on: 08 September 2015, 12:04:30 am »
was this in scotland nina?  if so, can you say which area?  pm me if you don't want to say xx

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #11 on: 08 September 2015, 12:31:29 am »
I'd put this in warnings & wasters.

And it would be removed.

The SAAFE warnings section is for posts about individuals and organisations that pose a threat to sex workers, not landlords. The fact that the OP is also a sex worker isn't relevant here, since she was ripped off in the process of letting a room rather than as a result of her sex work activities and as much as a pisser as the situation obviously is, it's nothing to do with the forum remit or the rest of us.

Anybody wanting further information, please contact the OP by PM as she suggests.

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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #12 on: 08 September 2015, 07:24:07 am »
Exactly Elisabeth, I gave her the benefit of doubt that she would pay her way. I have used many different numbers to contact her, she just hangs up. I have even had friends call her and she does the same. Obviously this girl has no conscience.  I have contacted as many landlords as I know in Scotland, England,  NI &Ireland giving photos and description and number. I know its highly likely thatbher number and profile will change but not her face lol

It's a disappointing thing to have happened, sorry to hear it. There will always be people who behave as badly as they can get away with, whether they're male or female, sex workers or dentists or taxi drivers or bankers. Usual rules of business apply - money first, unless you know you're going to have recourse to the law if things go tits-up.

I hate to say this, but it's "only" ?200 - hardly a life changing amount for most of us. Maybe it would be better to let it go now, instead of spending more time, effort and money on trying to go after her, and recruiting your friends to boot? It's an annoying matter, but you're letting it f*ck with your head. I don't want to belittle what's happened to you, but every business incurrs the odd bad debt, and it may be more productive to focus on your marketing and your business going forward, instead of obsessing about this person who has ripped you off. If someone feels the need to con you out of such a small amount of money it's probably because their back is against the wall financially for some reason or other, not because they're trying to upset you or take the piss. This person is burning bridges, which is never smart, and eventually it'll bite her in the ass.

Don't allow her to drain your energy and cost you even more money by spending time chasing after her - I would just focus on my business, put it down to experience, and in future treat tenants like any other punter - money first.
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Re: Raging mad, ripped off by a fellow working girl.
« Reply #13 on: 08 September 2015, 09:20:41 am »
Sour grapes,  the money part is irrelevant,  the fact that she gook advantage of my kind nature is the point, using all my products in the flat and deliberately doing so. The fact that she left a bin bag full of takeaway boxes that she had during her stay, would suggest her back was not up against the wall. The fact that when I xall or text on different numbers she answers and pretends she cant hear me etc, would suggest she pre planned to do it. I rarely rent my place out as I dont wish to have it abused . The only reason I posted on the forum is purely to let others know so as they are not ripped off.

As for getting friends onto her, far from it.

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« Reply #14 on: 08 September 2015, 09:35:08 am »
Sour grapes,  the money part is irrelevant,  the fact that she gook advantage of my kind nature is the point, using all my products in the flat and deliberately doing so. The fact that she left a bin bag full of takeaway boxes that she had during her stay, would suggest her back was not up against the wall. The fact that when I xall or text on different numbers she answers and pretends she cant hear me etc, would suggest she pre planned to do it. I rarely rent my place out as I dont wish to have it abused . The only reason I posted on the forum is purely to let others know so as they are not ripped off.

As for getting friends onto her, far from it.

Trust me with you find people take the proverbial mickey, the best thing is to just walk away, get over your anger, give it a few months and then you will have the opportunity to confront them, calmly.