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mm_reading

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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #15 on: 06 December 2017, 01:21:42 pm »
I was working 2 full time jobs (about 80hrs a week) when the manager from one said he'd up my hours if I quit the other job - I preferred this job so I did just that (naive I know). Only to go to work and find a notice on the door the next day saying it had gone into liquidation - he destroyed all my employee forms so there was no evidence of my having worked there and the liquidation team couldn't pay me anything (reminder to self - always keep a copy). I was doing interviews for graduate jobs in london but the travel & costs wiped out my overdraft and the pay wouldn't even leave me breaking even. My mental health got really bad a result, I made a bit off of cheap sugar daddies but not enough to live off of - and I just thought "why not I've got nothing to lose", as soon as I did my first booking it was such a relief - felt completely natural and happily been full time escorting since
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #16 on: 06 December 2017, 02:00:57 pm »
Quote from: mm_reading on 06 December 2017, 01:21:42 pm
I was working 2 full time jobs (about 80hrs a week) when the manager from one said he'd up my hours if I quit the other job - I preferred this job so I did just that (naive I know). Only to go to work and find a notice on the door the next day saying it had gone into liquidation - he destroyed all my employee forms so there was no evidence of my having worked there and the liquidation team couldn't pay me anything (reminder to self - always keep a copy). I was doing interviews for graduate jobs in london but the travel & costs wiped out my overdraft and the pay wouldn't even leave me breaking even. My mental health got really bad a result, I made a bit off of cheap sugar daddies but not enough to live off of - and I just thought "why not I've got nothing to lose", as soon as I did my first booking it was such a relief - felt completely natural and happily been full time escorting since

life look so unfair sometimes...happy that exist escorting and you found out your balance and good income!
very hard what you lived, i completely understand that affect your mental health..but you were so strong!
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #17 on: 06 December 2017, 02:06:20 pm »
i was working in corporate and in the weekend i was stripper in a club in the city!
always clients asking me to go after in hotel and i always say no...i really didn t like the idea to be a prossie!
one night..a client bought i do not remember like 10 bottle of crystal in the club, he was french and really sexy to die!
he asked me to go in his hotel...my shift is finishing at midnight that day...i say to him yes..(after 2 years as dancer and always refused)
...so i followed him...and the manager of club followed us...LOL take picture of me and him!
next day i was fired..
the client give ?500 for the night with champagne, breakfast...

so i loose a job and i found another one!
be fired was a good thing! i changed my life since
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #18 on: 06 December 2017, 02:51:11 pm »
A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.

My story: I was working in a corporate career on a decent salary (high 30s), on track to move up the organisation. A family member had a financial crisis and I started doing webcam to get a bit of cash so I could help them out. A lot of guys were asking "do you meet?" and eventually I thought fuck it, why not try? If I hate it I never have to do it again. Put my number up, had my first booking within 6 hrs :D I was a bundle of nerves but he was lovely and I walked away with ?120 in my hand.

Carried on doing outcalls and some weekend tours around my civvy job, but the company was becoming more and more corporate-speak and americanized - loads of bullshit about "owning your own engagement" and oh we didn't employ people any more, we were just a "resource". I decided to go full time escorting and I've never regretted it for one minute.
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #19 on: 06 December 2017, 03:11:06 pm »
Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #20 on: 06 December 2017, 03:29:56 pm »
Quote from: amy on 06 December 2017, 03:11:06 pm
Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???

OP finished with her story about how she started, so that was my assumption.
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Katyk1974

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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #21 on: 06 December 2017, 03:33:08 pm »
Quote from: amy on 06 December 2017, 03:11:06 pm
Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???

Yes it was like that for me, he asked why I did this, met a few times so I told him why and what I did before.
I remember saying to him we are not all here working for a pimp and drugged up! Me personally I enjoy my job 80% of the time, I can get by working only 5 hrs a week and I'm happy.
The only part of this job I hate is the loneliness and not having anyone I can talk to and then I found you lot!!!
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #22 on: 06 December 2017, 04:27:02 pm »
I've always been into casual sex and on sites to meet guys. The first time I did it for money, an old guy contacted me and offered ?500 for an overnight. I had just moved to the UK and as I didn't know about council tax I had just received a letter from the council that I owed them about that much in back payments. So I went for it. He was really gross though and I really struggled with being stuck with him for so long, so I didn't do it again for 5 years. He was the most repulsive client I've ever had.

Then I had this hot fuck buddy who escorted. He told me about Adult Work, I had always thought that you needed to be in an agency to escort. I signed up and have been doing it on and off ever since. It makes sense since having sex with random people doesn't bother me and the extra cash really helps out.
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #23 on: 06 December 2017, 04:48:22 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 06 December 2017, 02:51:11 pm
A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.

My story: I was working in a corporate career on a decent salary (high 30s), on track to move up the organisation. A family member had a financial crisis and I started doing webcam to get a bit of cash so I could help them out. A lot of guys were asking "do you meet?" and eventually I thought fuck it, why not try? If I hate it I never have to do it again. Put my number up, had my first booking within 6 hrs :D I was a bundle of nerves but he was lovely and I walked away with ?120 in my hand.

Carried on doing outcalls and some weekend tours around my civvy job, but the company was becoming more and more corporate-speak and americanized - loads of bullshit about "owning your own engagement" and oh we didn't employ people any more, we were just a "resource". I decided to go full time escorting and I've never regretted it for one minute.

thank you Vc! sometimes i forget! xx
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #24 on: 06 December 2017, 05:39:31 pm »
The recession was when i started. I was a lap dancer before which i much prefered.
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #25 on: 07 December 2017, 02:53:15 pm »
My dad had gotten himself into some massive finacal trouble and asked for my help. I had a good job but not good enough to make the payments on the loan I took out for him. SW probably never occurred to me and don't laugh too hard but I had been watching the show "shameless" and it had changed my outlook on sex work. So I went online and placed my first ad :)
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #26 on: 07 December 2017, 04:48:48 pm »
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #27 on: 07 December 2017, 05:56:34 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 06 December 2017, 02:51:11 pm
A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.

THIS.
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Re: Where did it begin?
« Reply #28 on: 07 December 2017, 07:26:47 pm »
At the ripe age of 17 I watched Secret Diaries of a Call Girl and I just remember thinking that was the best job to ever have! And I couldn?t wait to turn 18 and start. I was obsessed with the idea. I used to daydream about it while at college (seriously, what a nutter haha).

As soon as I turned 18 I signed up with an agency and started. Found it a little odd at first but then I just loved it. Then, stupidly, I fell madly in love with a boy and spent the next 4yrs being loyal to him and treating him like a King.
Once we split, I was like ?IM GUNNA GET MY HOE PANITIES ON AGAIN? haha, I was so excited.
Found AW and the rest is history.

I was never in debt, I was doing well with college. I continued to train as an Accountnat while escorting as I thought I should get a ?real job? one day..... but that day hasn?t come yet. I love escorting. Just this year I turned down a Finance Managers role to go full time whore.

What I?m trying to say is, since finding out about escorting it?s all I?ve ever wanted to do and I?m still loving it now  :) ;D ;D

PS. Sorry if the OP wasn?t directly asking for our ?where did it begin? stories  ???
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