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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Katyk1974 on 04 December 2017, 10:34:41 pm
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Had a nice client last week who was rather lovely! Yes they exist!!
Anyway we got talking and he said his did you get into this.
I said I was a charity worker before but really got shit on by them and I've been swinging for 10 years off and on and thought why not try this.
It's not made me mega rich but comfortable. I earn lots more money than I could anywhere else, so maybe greed is a factor.
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My ex was a sub. I got into domination then webcammed for abot then this
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My ex left me homeless, in a shed-load of debt with very young kids. He actually spent a lot of my money seeing working girls and that gave me the idea So I gave it a shot and took to it like a duck to water. I discovered sex could be fun, and gross, and very profitable. ;D
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I like your story hippy dippy, made me smile :) i hooe you and the kiddies are comfy now x
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I had a responsible job dealing with aggressive twats all day , punched,threatened all sorts so this so far is much , much better.
I'm used to people flipping on the toss of a coin and I watch for that daily now but much more chilled ,
I smile lots and give an illusion , but that's all it is , I'm v formidable really and love my job now :)
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I was backdated with rent and looked around on sugar daddy websites and went on Facebook looking for one too. Then an add came up saying ?Don't Escort, be a sugar baby instead!?
Hmm Escorting ey? Didn?t think about that, Let?s go for it!
Never looked back :)
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Skint arse student living a champagne lifestyle on a Buck?s Fizz budget! ! Running into heaps of debt debt, and not being able to find a job which fitted in with my studies and paid well enough.
I?m pretty open minded and had also dabbled in swinging and also attempted sugar daddy dating!
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I slept around and experimented through swinger sites etc, also skint at the time, I think I kept getting pop-ups about meet local escorts and got the idea in my head. So I googled and the rest is history.
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I started stripping at 18. I am worked as a pastry chef before that and was struggling to help my mother who I was Ill run the home and provide for my younger sister on the wages. We used to have a big house lots of money etc until my parents broke up and it's all went wrong :( My mother was signed off work due to unless mentally and physically and was very traumatised from the nasty break up with my father. My sister didn't have what she needed and I hadn't for years either, I have been with my partner since 14 (first boyfriend) and he has always been supportive of me and as he's quite a dirty bastard he liked he idea of me stripping and we found it quite horny. He used to work and make good money but it wasn't what we found to be enoug to get everyone by. So I worked in a small club in my new town to start with then went on to all Of the big clubs in London and got really good at pole dancing. It was one night at spearmint rhino an older girl came up to me and asked me if I wanted to make more money and join her working at her escort agency so I accepted her offer. First ever job I did double penetration with two guys at the same time. WAS I INSANE? Probably lol! The money was so good and I quite liked the whole lifestyle I then decided to strip part time and escort mostly. I didn't tell my partner about the escorting at this stage but when he found out he was cool with it pretty understanding if a little upset I hadn't told him sooner as we tell eachother everything and are best friends. As soon as I told him I started using adultwork instead and even doing couple bookings with him and we really enjoyed exploring! He's also working in the adult industry now. Life's a big fun journey for both of us in terms of exploration! It's so exciting! It's not only funded my mother to have a new lovely home with my sister and be happy again. Is also allowed me to travel to visit places I could only of dreamed of and for me to invest money into another business financially and start anew chapter of my life.
I have been brandished a whore, I have been slut Shamed, I have been treated like shit in my time doing this but one thing for sure if I didn't do this my life wouldn't have been like it is now and I wouldn't be so sucessful.people make assumptions about me of all sorts but they don't know me and all I can say is this shows me the kind of people they really are and I just choose not to mix with them. I was very naive when I started this as I had the sheltered upbringing so it's also taught me many a lesson not just about life but about people also that I wouldn't have learned otherwise and that I am greatful for. I am utterly greatful for everything I have and now 1 week away from the birth of my first child in my own lovely home with my partner sitting on my massive plush sofa with my cute doggies and my Christmas tree twinkling in the background it's all so worth it.
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You have no idea how nice it was to read this. Thank you for sharing your story.
How I got into escorting - I quit my job, then tried to set up my own business which was fun, creative and bonkers and not successful.
I really hated the idea of working for someone or a job in general plus I didn't have experience/ qualifications.
I was broke.
And then I read an article about an escort making 130 per hour. It was an eureka moment.
Anyway, prostitution was something I've always wanted to try at least once in my life to know how it feels.
I thought that sex industry was very attractive. Money. Glam. I wouldn't have to try to fit in to society.
So I gave myself a month to thinks things through, I did my research, watched all episodes of 'Diary of a Call Girl', found a mentor who was a gay escort in the past, found Saafe :)
And at the beginning I set an intention for myself that it will be a journey of self-discovery.
Hehe.
Your very lucky you found saafe so early on as it must have helped you so much! I actually also did the same with watching secret diary of a call girl when I started! Xxx
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Well I only discovered saafe yesterday and so glad I did.
You sometimes think your the only doing this and going through this so seeing others that do really is a great support.
I sometimes look back and think what else could I do after my crap job and there is nothing. Like everyone I have good and bad days but on the whole I can say I'm glad I did it. I chose my hours etc I've met some amazing clients and I have regular work because of them.
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Skint arse student living a champagne lifestyle on a Buck?s Fizz budget! ! Running into heaps of debt debt, and not being able to find a job which fitted in with my studies and paid well enough.
I?m pretty open minded and had also dabbled in swinging and also attempted sugar daddy dating!
similar had a sugar daddy but he started getting jealous of me going out so ditched him and tried working in a parlor, didnt get into swing until i started escorting
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I was swinging too & a guy I met through that started talking about AW, I'd never heard of it but gave it a go and voila! I mean I was giving it away for free, why not get paid well for it?
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I met a guy through ashleymadisson the time when it used to be so good before the stupid but hurt dicks decided to that leak cyber attack of all info exposed. Anyways I met an older vanilla guy on there and he booked an escort for us to play with but he would pull me to the side and firmly insist be careful don't get sucked in or exchange numbers ( Now its like a parent saying to a child don't touch them toys) Of course I would want to go and see what its about (Also I don't like anyone telling me what I should or should not do) me and the girl got on well and I joined her agency I liked the instant cash in hand for making guys buss quickly. Hey bobs your uncle now I am independent escort ;) ;D
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I was working 2 full time jobs (about 80hrs a week) when the manager from one said he'd up my hours if I quit the other job - I preferred this job so I did just that (naive I know). Only to go to work and find a notice on the door the next day saying it had gone into liquidation - he destroyed all my employee forms so there was no evidence of my having worked there and the liquidation team couldn't pay me anything (reminder to self - always keep a copy). I was doing interviews for graduate jobs in london but the travel & costs wiped out my overdraft and the pay wouldn't even leave me breaking even. My mental health got really bad a result, I made a bit off of cheap sugar daddies but not enough to live off of - and I just thought "why not I've got nothing to lose", as soon as I did my first booking it was such a relief - felt completely natural and happily been full time escorting since
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I was working 2 full time jobs (about 80hrs a week) when the manager from one said he'd up my hours if I quit the other job - I preferred this job so I did just that (naive I know). Only to go to work and find a notice on the door the next day saying it had gone into liquidation - he destroyed all my employee forms so there was no evidence of my having worked there and the liquidation team couldn't pay me anything (reminder to self - always keep a copy). I was doing interviews for graduate jobs in london but the travel & costs wiped out my overdraft and the pay wouldn't even leave me breaking even. My mental health got really bad a result, I made a bit off of cheap sugar daddies but not enough to live off of - and I just thought "why not I've got nothing to lose", as soon as I did my first booking it was such a relief - felt completely natural and happily been full time escorting since
life look so unfair sometimes...happy that exist escorting and you found out your balance and good income!
very hard what you lived, i completely understand that affect your mental health..but you were so strong!
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i was working in corporate and in the weekend i was stripper in a club in the city!
always clients asking me to go after in hotel and i always say no...i really didn t like the idea to be a prossie!
one night..a client bought i do not remember like 10 bottle of crystal in the club, he was french and really sexy to die!
he asked me to go in his hotel...my shift is finishing at midnight that day...i say to him yes..(after 2 years as dancer and always refused)
...so i followed him...and the manager of club followed us...LOL take picture of me and him!
next day i was fired..
the client give ?500 for the night with champagne, breakfast...
so i loose a job and i found another one!
be fired was a good thing! i changed my life since
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A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.
My story: I was working in a corporate career on a decent salary (high 30s), on track to move up the organisation. A family member had a financial crisis and I started doing webcam to get a bit of cash so I could help them out. A lot of guys were asking "do you meet?" and eventually I thought fuck it, why not try? If I hate it I never have to do it again. Put my number up, had my first booking within 6 hrs :D I was a bundle of nerves but he was lovely and I walked away with ?120 in my hand.
Carried on doing outcalls and some weekend tours around my civvy job, but the company was becoming more and more corporate-speak and americanized - loads of bullshit about "owning your own engagement" and oh we didn't employ people any more, we were just a "resource". I decided to go full time escorting and I've never regretted it for one minute.
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Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???
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Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???
OP finished with her story about how she started, so that was my assumption.
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Am I the only person in the universe who read the opening post as being about punters asking nosey or annoying questions, and nothing to do with how or when anybody started in sex work? ???
Yes it was like that for me, he asked why I did this, met a few times so I told him why and what I did before.
I remember saying to him we are not all here working for a pimp and drugged up! Me personally I enjoy my job 80% of the time, I can get by working only 5 hrs a week and I'm happy.
The only part of this job I hate is the loneliness and not having anyone I can talk to and then I found you lot!!!
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I've always been into casual sex and on sites to meet guys. The first time I did it for money, an old guy contacted me and offered ?500 for an overnight. I had just moved to the UK and as I didn't know about council tax I had just received a letter from the council that I owed them about that much in back payments. So I went for it. He was really gross though and I really struggled with being stuck with him for so long, so I didn't do it again for 5 years. He was the most repulsive client I've ever had.
Then I had this hot fuck buddy who escorted. He told me about Adult Work, I had always thought that you needed to be in an agency to escort. I signed up and have been doing it on and off ever since. It makes sense since having sex with random people doesn't bother me and the extra cash really helps out.
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A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.
My story: I was working in a corporate career on a decent salary (high 30s), on track to move up the organisation. A family member had a financial crisis and I started doing webcam to get a bit of cash so I could help them out. A lot of guys were asking "do you meet?" and eventually I thought fuck it, why not try? If I hate it I never have to do it again. Put my number up, had my first booking within 6 hrs :D I was a bundle of nerves but he was lovely and I walked away with ?120 in my hand.
Carried on doing outcalls and some weekend tours around my civvy job, but the company was becoming more and more corporate-speak and americanized - loads of bullshit about "owning your own engagement" and oh we didn't employ people any more, we were just a "resource". I decided to go full time escorting and I've never regretted it for one minute.
thank you Vc! sometimes i forget! xx
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The recession was when i started. I was a lap dancer before which i much prefered.
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My dad had gotten himself into some massive finacal trouble and asked for my help. I had a good job but not good enough to make the payments on the loan I took out for him. SW probably never occurred to me and don't laugh too hard but I had been watching the show "shameless" and it had changed my outlook on sex work. So I went online and placed my first ad :)
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A gentle reminder to all, that the tabloid newspapers are well known for trawling SAAFE and regurgitating posts as "shocking" articles. So if you have/were going to post potentially identifying information you might want to think about vaguing any recognisable details.
THIS.
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At the ripe age of 17 I watched Secret Diaries of a Call Girl and I just remember thinking that was the best job to ever have! And I couldn?t wait to turn 18 and start. I was obsessed with the idea. I used to daydream about it while at college (seriously, what a nutter haha).
As soon as I turned 18 I signed up with an agency and started. Found it a little odd at first but then I just loved it. Then, stupidly, I fell madly in love with a boy and spent the next 4yrs being loyal to him and treating him like a King.
Once we split, I was like ?IM GUNNA GET MY HOE PANITIES ON AGAIN? haha, I was so excited.
Found AW and the rest is history.
I was never in debt, I was doing well with college. I continued to train as an Accountnat while escorting as I thought I should get a ?real job? one day..... but that day hasn?t come yet. I love escorting. Just this year I turned down a Finance Managers role to go full time whore.
What I?m trying to say is, since finding out about escorting it?s all I?ve ever wanted to do and I?m still loving it now :) ;D ;D
PS. Sorry if the OP wasn?t directly asking for our ?where did it begin? stories ???