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youngescort

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Nervous about review
« on: 15 March 2016, 05:34:09 pm »
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does anyone else get nervous about reviews? I still do, i can't say ive ever had a complaint about my service or what ever and guys usually come back so i have regulars. But you know when someone is looking to review you it makes me feel sick with nerves lol and ive no idea how to overcome it.
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Fabulassie

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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #1 on: 15 March 2016, 05:36:05 pm »
Quote from: youngescort on 15 March 2016, 05:34:09 pm
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does anyone else get nervous about reviews? I still do, i can't say ive ever had a complaint about my service or what ever and guys usually come back so i have regulars. But you know when someone is looking to review you it makes me feel sick with nerves lol and ive no idea how to overcome it.

Try to not think about it. Don't go looking for your reviews.

And if someone tells you that they're going to write a review, be suspicious of why. If it's after the booking you can just say "I'm not interested in reviews so don't post one for my benefit." If the hint or tell you before the booking then you can expect them to be a boundary pusher.
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Nia Hope

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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #2 on: 15 March 2016, 07:04:27 pm »
I have had reviews and was a little nervous I must admit but they've all been good so far. I agree that if they tell you at the start of the booking that's weird, I think I'd ask them to leave. It's best as Fabs said not to get obsessed with looking for them and just be yourself in bookings, oh and make sure your towels are always soft and fluffy x
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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #3 on: 15 March 2016, 09:30:33 pm »
Yes don't go looking for reviews, what you don't know can't hurt you.

I recently had my first non aw review and it actually wasn't too bad, wasn't negative at least although he did mention that I say I am size 18+ but I'm clearly like 20-24 (thought to myself 'Umm yes that is 18+), plus I actually do say I am 24/26 on my profile, obviously this guy had only looked at the aw size which only gives you 18+ as the largest.

Apart from that the only other thing I didn't like was he was way too detailed about my security procedures.

But as I said it wasn't negative so that's something.
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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #4 on: 15 March 2016, 11:00:26 pm »
"No publicity is bad publicity."

"There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about". Oscar Wilde


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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #5 on: 16 March 2016, 12:54:13 pm »
Quote from: Cat_BBW on 15 March 2016, 11:00:26 pm
"No publicity is bad publicity."

"There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about". Oscar Wilde


Free advertising. See here also: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=30005.0

Oh god yes, no matter what they say about you, there are level headed clients out there who see through the bullshit and read past the crappy feedback.

Even prostitutes have off days.   Like they say don't sweat the small stuff.
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annabellexoxo

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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #6 on: 21 March 2016, 10:58:54 am »
Quote from: youngescort on 15 March 2016, 05:34:09 pm
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does anyone else get nervous about reviews? I still do, i can't say ive ever had a complaint about my service or what ever and guys usually come back so i have regulars. But you know when someone is looking to review you it makes me feel sick with nerves lol and ive no idea how to overcome it.

It is not nice when you discover somebody might have written bad things about you or worse, even if you did not meet that person.  Probably trying your best to make sure that person will not write bad things will help you more and not think about it much: especially if you offer him much more than a glass of water.  Personally I like treating every single person as if is a friend I know well and if they write nasty things, at least I can say: I tried. 

But if he is so bad with people who make the effort, can you imagine how bad he can be with a person who does not make the effort at all? 

Not everyone is nice, so better let them be: you cannot change bad people.
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Missindependant2076

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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #7 on: 25 March 2016, 03:31:59 pm »
Fully agree with "don't look for them" completely drove me up the wall! I got a horrendous one (none of which was my fault) and I can honestly say I'm still busy, it never affected business so if i could go back I definitely wouldn't have looked at all xx
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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #8 on: 25 March 2016, 05:25:46 pm »
Quote from: Cat_BBW on 15 March 2016, 11:00:26 pm
"No publicity is bad publicity."

"There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about". Oscar Wilde


Free advertising. See here also: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=30005.0

^^ Absolutely, if you happen to encounter a moron/bully boy who is intent on leaving you a negative wherever that may be AW or some small member Forum, let it go and be thankful for the publicity, these types do not realise that any sort of exposure will bring you business ! 

They never learn.
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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #9 on: 26 March 2016, 07:36:33 am »
I had a negative review last October from you know where site and business was booming by November.
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MandyVine

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Re: Nervous about review
« Reply #10 on: 26 March 2016, 01:52:55 pm »
If you read enough reviews you'll find that it's common to see clients write "saw she had a few negative reviews but liked her pics so decided to see for myself" which tells you that a negative review is NOT going to dry up your business.

Many clients realize that the punter may have had something to do with the situation and/or you just can't make some people happy.

Try not to worry about it.  Hugs.
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