Dear Jasmine,
I deal with that with my job (out of escorting) and the gym.
Escorting is a kind of hobby for me, that why I like it.
The gym gives me a lot of satisfaction because I have the opportunity to learn new things and having more relax.
I have a degree so whatever I do it is continuous improvement to my self-esteem.
In this way I do not even feel the need to mention about escorting, I just say to everyone about my job and at the gym I have also opportunities to know other people.
I suggest you to go to some gym and/or to find some part time course at the college such as photography, painting, or something you like. The part time courses take usually 4-6 hours a week.
I am sure that you will enjoy them
xxx