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Hannaah

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15360 on: 08 July 2022, 09:36:47 pm »
Just been asked to do kink stuff without a safe word.  ::)

Wow! Because what would you love more than having no safety measures in place with a total stranger? That's not only a boundary pusher but also not a dom, just someone who thinks dominant means he can do whatever he wants. Arsehole at best, dangerous/abusive at worst. Yuck.

My contribution:
A stupidly long email, that ended with sorry for the long message...that's all I read/skimmed, my eyes glazed over as soon as I saw the length, so I have no idea what he was talking about.  ;D I never read long messages anymore, in my experience I have had 100% timewasters when they have sent a novel!



denise96

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15361 on: 09 July 2022, 10:32:18 am »
Can I do this to you, can I do that can I can I... and the list goes on.

I've replied with : read my profile first and then I've said I don't do this I don't do that 🤣🤣

Oh wow you sound way too restrictive for an escort, I'll look for someone else.

Me: ok, have a good day 🤣
* he has reports and I'm not in the mood to answer all the idiotic questions.

Milf-G

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15362 on: 09 July 2022, 01:30:46 pm »
I state calls only but I get quite a few texts stating 'is it ok to call?'. I mean it's not school, so I don't get why they need permission. Am I being unreasonable?

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15363 on: 09 July 2022, 05:54:19 pm »
Boundary pusher.

Wow! Because what would you love more than having no safety measures in place with a total stranger? That's not only a boundary pusher but also not a dom, just someone who thinks dominant means he can do whatever he wants. Arsehole at best, dangerous/abusive at worst. Yuck.


Absolutely. I'm so sick of men who think kink is just an excuse to beat up women without any consequences. They have no understanding of what kink really is and how much consent, boundaries and care are actually involved. Yes, it can involve me being, but it has to be done in a way I agree to and I always need to have a way out. I don't even play without safe words with actual partners, so why would I do that with a stranger? 😂 I have had some great kink sessions as a submissive, with clients who showed awareness of my limits and ensured I was okay with what they were doing, but some people seem to think me offering submissive services means they can do whatever to me which is so far from the case. Luckily, people like that pretty much always show themselves early so I can avoid them.

Milf-G

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15364 on: 09 July 2022, 08:37:10 pm »
I'm naturally submissive but I won't allow clients to do it with me. Wish I could. I long to be tied up lol

Braziliana

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15365 on: 10 July 2022, 01:27:54 am »
I'm naturally submissive but I won't allow clients to do it with me. Wish I could. I long to be tied up lol
Haha!  ;D

fallen angel

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15366 on: 10 July 2022, 02:44:46 pm »
I state calls only but I get quite a few texts stating 'is it ok to call?'. I mean it's not school, so I don't get why they need permission. Am I being unreasonable?

Yes I get quite a few of those too.
I think they get a kick out of trying to get us to text when we request call only. I assume they are timewasters or just plain stupid and leave them to figure it out for themselves.

Mirror

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15367 on: 10 July 2022, 03:38:50 pm »
I state calls only but I get quite a few texts stating 'is it ok to call?'. I mean it's not school, so I don't get why they need permission. Am I being unreasonable?

I get this too, even when I have said 'You can call me anytime'.

Femme fatale

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15368 on: 10 July 2022, 05:12:21 pm »
They can't be bothered calling or reading your requests. Why because they have no intention of turning up for a booking in the first place.
Occasionally a texter might call eventually but it's often in many of our experiences a waste of our time .
 Block and ignore ..I add as spam

Milf-G

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15369 on: 10 July 2022, 05:16:51 pm »
I haven't responded to any. I feel those who ask permission are probably a little too wet behind the ears for my liking, or, timewasters.

SheffSW

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15370 on: 11 July 2022, 12:45:56 pm »
"Fancy a car meet £50" I don't do car meets, especially not for that price.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15371 on: 16 July 2022, 07:28:29 am »
I have had this email as well, exactly the same wording but from 3 different unlinked accounts all with zero feedback!  ::)

I’ve had this guy try and book me a few times. Tried to book me last week said
Him : “Do you like boxing and fighting ?”
Me: Not particularly
Him: Really turns me on a girl who likes fights.
Me: Maybe you should book someone else hun I’m a lover not a fighter !

Major red flags as don’t fancy getting possibly punched !   

Jadine

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15372 on: 16 July 2022, 03:21:39 pm »
I had one message me a few times wanted wrestling and if I was strong enough to  lift  him over my shoulder not my kind of thing  ::)

Milf-G

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15373 on: 16 July 2022, 08:00:52 pm »
I too have had a request for wrestling.
I also had a request for lift and carry service.

Milf-G

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15374 on: 17 July 2022, 04:50:08 pm »
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My curiosity is running wild... would you like a photo of me? If you like me then let's go for a drink.

Spoke to him once. Sounds mega old....