Punter emailed asking for a meet today. I declined saying I wasn't given enough notice.
He replies with "Thanks for your reply and sorry I didn’t give you more notice…I had an urge for a big girl ! I will contact you another time if I may…
Perhaps you might send me a nice pic in the meantime to cheer me up…"
I'm 5ft9 and 11 stone. Curvy at best but definitely not "big". Needless to say I have ignored him and gone back to my Netflix show
Youngish sounding man with unclear foreign accent. In such a hurry he tried to skip past my asking what date and time would he like and asked where I was. I asked the question again and he said he wanted me now. "Now" was before my advertised start time and also before my advertised booking start time. I hadn't even had a shower or put my makeup on! He may have been quite nice and just caught up in his own lusts but I said I was declining him as a client and don't call again. I know this was quite sharp and I'm guessing he was on mobile and hadn't read my profile through properly but standards are standards.
The previous two inquiries had been a red trouser type asking too many questions and another who was worrying about his wife catching chlamydia and neither resulted in a firm booking. I also had a thick head over dealing with state bureaucracy this week and "bro" culture on a forum I'm on so not tolerating deviating from what I am used to and happy with. I can be accommodating but that requires corresponding positives in other directions to make up for it which I have not been hearing.
Update:
The one I blocked not only didn't hear this but phoned back the next morning two hours earlier!
I also had one I blocked a year or two ago and had to message to tell him to stop pestering me call today. I didn't answer so he left a message "
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Another one who I have not only blocked but literally asked to leave before even taking the money and not come back trying to call for the past three weeks.
What part of "no" do they not understand?