'Dear Lucie
My name is Paul.
I thought i'd write to you because i'm looking for someone gentle and warm to meet.
Some context: having had a lot of sex in my life, in recent years - after, I admit, a sequence of bad/destructive relationships - i have moved away from casual relationships (IE those primarily motivated by sex). My overall wellbeing is much the better for it, I must admit.
Prior to this, due to issues with nerves, over the last decade I have often resorted to using viagra early in sexual relationships. I know this is all psychosomatic because I have a very high sex drive, have no issues solo, and would always stop using the pills once relaxed with someone. Further, I recently visited a tantric sex therapist to discuss all of this. She explained how important relaxation is for strong, positive sexual experiences. She also spoke about a more gentle form of love making. Less about 'fucking' more about 'synching' --- if u get what I mean.
Anyway (i'll get to my point), given my reluctance to enter relationships just for the sake of sex, and given both the issues that have caused me to turn to viagra in the past, as well as a new worry about PE (after the meeting with the Tantric person I have been practicing seed retention --- which is great, very energising + empowering - but now i'm very sensitive!!!), i want to meet someone empathic enough the understand all of this, someone who can help me to build up confidence and learn to be a healthy, happy lover...
Hope this doesn't sound too bonkers. I guess i'm pretty analytic lol. Anyway, your profile tells me you're smart and, u know, cool. I'm 35, pretty fit/healthy and just started studying for a PhD...
Thanks!
Paul'
wow cool story bro