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KittenCandy

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8145 on: 04 December 2015, 05:41:41 pm »
Quote from: lacey666 on 04 December 2015, 12:45:17 am
Last week a guy called me asking it was really me in my pictures ( I don't show my face). I explained it was and said it would be pretty stupid of me to put up fake pictures as that would lead to bad reviews.  He then asked the same question again which really pissed me off so I said it was rude of him to keep asking.  He then asked if I was fat and spotty as he'd been told by his mates that sometimes escorts look nothing like their pictures. I hung up on him.

I would have hung up soon as he asked if that's me in the pic the first time. I do it to them all the time. When they ask that I just know they aren't genuine so makes no sense wasting time talking to them and blocking genuine clients from getting through to me on my phone. I'm surprised as to how many ladies give these men the time in the first place.  ::)
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8146 on: 05 December 2015, 11:41:16 am »
Text came through this morning at 4am saying......

What's your address  ::)

Not even are you available? Can I meet with you? Just a clean assumption that I'm available, all frothed up and ready to go 24/7 and that I give my address out to everyone and anyone who makes contact.  ::)
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8147 on: 05 December 2015, 11:47:41 am »
Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 04 December 2015, 04:36:28 pm
7 missed calls in less than 1 hour from the same person  ::)
I have an auto text that goes out saying I'm not available and my website they can check out for availability. Some of them will still call over and over again. A quick trip to the website would tell them I'm not available that day!
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Kendra Glasgow

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8148 on: 05 December 2015, 12:55:39 pm »
Just had a guy ring me looking for a booking today, doesn't sound like a serial killer so I offer him a time which he seems so unsure of so I just say to him, I'm sorry but I can't take your booking when you seem so unsure since we've never met and due to timewasters! In my experience, those types almost always cancel or don't show.

He turns round and calls me a nutter  ::)

Then sends me a text saying "off you fuck"

Seriously? Lol!  ::)
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8149 on: 05 December 2015, 02:22:15 pm »
Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 05 December 2015, 12:55:39 pm
Just had a guy ring me looking for a booking today, doesn't sound like a serial killer so I offer him a time which he seems so unsure of so I just say to him, I'm sorry but I can't take your booking when you seem so unsure since we've never met and due to timewasters! In my experience, those types almost always cancel or don't show.

He turns round and calls me a nutter  ::)

Then sends me a text saying "off you fuck"

Seriously? Lol!  ::)

You're giving too much of yourself away, Kendra. Just say, "Well, it sounds like you're unsure of the time you want. Would you like to get back to me when you can be certain?" He'll either call back when he's certain or he won't.

If he's just coming across as a dithering idiot and you don't want to see him, tell him that you need to double-check your diary and could he text you in five minutes. Then tell him you're sorry - you can't do it what a shame! Then save as "Don't Want To See."

Don't explain shit to these guys. Always make it smooth and act like nothing is an issue. Then do what you want to do, anyway.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8150 on: 05 December 2015, 02:58:05 pm »
Totally agree with Fabulassie.I just say to the ditherers 'Tell you what,have a think if that time suits you then by all means ring me back in 10 mins.'They either do or they don't.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8151 on: 05 December 2015, 02:59:36 pm »
Quote from: Fabulassie on 05 December 2015, 02:22:15 pm
Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 05 December 2015, 12:55:39 pm
Just had a guy ring me looking for a booking today, doesn't sound like a serial killer so I offer him a time which he seems so unsure of so I just say to him, I'm sorry but I can't take your booking when you seem so unsure since we've never met and due to timewasters! In my experience, those types almost always cancel or don't show.

He turns round and calls me a nutter  ::)

Then sends me a text saying "off you fuck"

Seriously? Lol!  ::)

You're giving too much of yourself away, Kendra. Just say, "Well, it sounds like you're unsure of the time you want. Would you like to get back to me when you can be certain?" He'll either call back when he's certain or he won't.

If he's just coming across as a dithering idiot and you don't want to see him, tell him that you need to double-check your diary and could he text you in five minutes. Then tell him you're sorry - you can't do it what a shame! Then save as "Don't Want To See."

Don't explain shit to these guys. Always make it smooth and act like nothing is an issue. Then do what you want to do, anyway.

+1

When I get guys like that I just ask them to call back when they know a time. I make it sound like its for his sake so he doesn't have to think of a time on the spot. Yeah, probably a time waster since most guys would have a particular time in mind, but some guys just get flustered talking on the phone and need the break to compose themselves. If he calls back, great. If he calls back and I don't want to see him, I'm busy. If he doesn't, someone else will fill the spot.

Just had a guy try to arrange a booking over text. I then missed his calls when i asked him to call (he calls 40 minutes later). I then text him to call if he wants to arrange a booking. He asks about uniforms and tries to book over text again. Sorry, I'm busy. Can't follow instructions, possibly genuine, but I'm currently too tired to take that chance.

Don't let them wind you up, Hun. Our mental sanity is tested enough as it is with the idiots who slip through the net and we meet, let alone giving mental capacity to the idiots on the phone as well
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8152 on: 05 December 2015, 04:36:39 pm »
Well no matter how I handled it, I know I wasn't rude so turning round and calling me a nutter then that I've to take a fuck to myself only shows me that i dodged a bullet.

He just sounded so unsure, when I offered him a time which I think was 2 and a half hours away from the current time, he was humming and hawing then said ok that should be ok. I could tell he was wanting an appointments right away which is something I don't do anyway.

Should be ok from a stranger to me is too uncertain and I haven't got time for it.

Then when I told him I couldn't take his appointment due to timewasters and his uncertainty, he started giving me abuse.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8153 on: 05 December 2015, 05:07:01 pm »
Kendra, he was obviously a jerk, but you do seem to take every single bad interaction seriously and personally. It's eating up your emotional energy! Just follow Fabs' and the others' advice, brush it off, and get on with your day. If I got as wound up as you do over every timewaster, I'd be in the loony bin, seriously. Let it go!
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8154 on: 05 December 2015, 05:11:20 pm »
Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 05 December 2015, 04:36:39 pm
Well no matter how I handled it, I know I wasn't rude so turning round and calling me a nutter then that I've to take a fuck to myself only shows me that i dodged a bullet.

He just sounded so unsure, when I offered him a time which I think was 2 and a half hours away from the current time, he was humming and hawing then said ok that should be ok. I could tell he was wanting an appointments right away which is something I don't do anyway.

Should be ok from a stranger to me is too uncertain and I haven't got time for it.

Then when I told him I couldn't take his appointment due to timewasters and his uncertainty, he started giving me abuse.

We weren't saying you were being rude, Hun. Just that it causes unnecessary stress on yourself because if you had acted differently he wouldn't have turned abbusive and he probably wouldn't have called back anyway. But, ya, know. Just opinions, we're all just trying to help one another.

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Just had a guy call to ask me if I would do an outcall to his hotel. I told him I'm only holding in calls today but he could come see me if he was interested. He sounded very suspicious on the phone. And then admitted that he hadn't booked a hotel yet, he wanted to book one in the area then have me come over.  :-\ why do that when I've just explained that I have a hotel and I'm holding incalls in the same area. I sent him off to read my extensive hotel security checks that I do, I knew that would put him off. Didn't ring back, surprise.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8155 on: 05 December 2015, 05:13:43 pm »
Quote from: KayHerts on 05 December 2015, 05:07:01 pm
Kendra, he was obviously a jerk, but you do seem to take every single bad interaction seriously and personally. It's eating up your emotional energy! Just follow Fabs' and the others' advice, brush it off, and get on with your day. If I got as wound up as you do over every timewaster, I'd be in the loony bin, seriously. Let it go!

I wasn't taking him personally, I wasn't offended cause I'm use to his type throwing a tantrum. I was just posting here since that's what this thread is for and also to show how quickly his attitude changed, we're talking a matter of seconds here. Can you imagine spending an hour with someone who's attitude changes so drastically like that when he doesn't get his own way? I'm just so glad that the vast majority of them show themselves up long before they even get an allocated appointment.

If you see all my other posts as of late, my attitude towards the morons has completely changed, I just ignore them but it's a bit more difficult to ignore someone who's actually on the phone to you.

Sometimes when your on the phone to someone there and then, it's difficult to think of what to say and how it may be perceived by them so I just say what I'm thinking but I was polite about it.

I'm just getting ready to go out for dinner with friends so believe me when I say, I ain't wound up or bothered about this numpty. I've had 10 million times worse. His abuse was mild.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8156 on: 05 December 2015, 06:53:45 pm »
Quote from: KayHerts on 05 December 2015, 05:07:01 pm
Kendra, he was obviously a jerk, but you do seem to take every single bad interaction seriously and personally. It's eating up your emotional energy! Just follow Fabs' and the others' advice, brush it off, and get on with your day. If I got as wound up as you do over every timewaster, I'd be in the loony bin, seriously. Let it go!

I agree with Kay - it's not a dig; just a 'come on girl; you're better than that' x
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8157 on: 06 December 2015, 09:59:32 pm »
Texts that came through yesterday:

Him: when are you next in ** xx

Me: probably not until the new year

Him: ok bubba xxxxx

Him: also I'm a new escort but with no meets yet so have you got any contacts and I'm also free for gangbangs xxxxx

 ::)
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8158 on: 07 December 2015, 12:03:57 am »
Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 05 December 2015, 05:13:43 pm
Quote from: KayHerts on 05 December 2015, 05:07:01 pm
Kendra, he was obviously a jerk, but you do seem to take every single bad interaction seriously and personally. It's eating up your emotional energy! Just follow Fabs' and the others' advice, brush it off, and get on with your day. If I got as wound up as you do over every timewaster, I'd be in the loony bin, seriously. Let it go!

I wasn't taking him personally, I wasn't offended cause I'm use to his type throwing a tantrum. I was just posting here since that's what this thread is for and also to show how quickly his attitude changed, we're talking a matter of seconds here. Can you imagine spending an hour with someone who's attitude changes so drastically like that when he doesn't get his own way? I'm just so glad that the vast majority of them show themselves up long before they even get an allocated appointment.

If you see all my other posts as of late, my attitude towards the morons has completely changed, I just ignore them but it's a bit more difficult to ignore someone who's actually on the phone to you.

Sometimes when your on the phone to someone there and then, it's difficult to think of what to say and how it may be perceived by them so I just say what I'm thinking but I was polite about it.

I'm just getting ready to go out for dinner with friends so believe me when I say, I ain't wound up or bothered about this numpty. I've had 10 million times worse. His abuse was mild.

I just hang up the phone if I can't be bothered to be honest. They all think there is a problem with the reception or something. But no, it's just me hanging up ;D The end button is your best friend. Sometimes I hang up almost instantly. e.g.

Phone rings:

Me-Hello
Dickprick-you working?
Me-click

For most the conversation would probably be like.

Escort-Hello
dickprick-You working?
Escort- Yes I am
Dickprick-What times are you available?
Escort-from 1pm-10pm
Dickprick-Any chance you can see me now at 12pm?
Escort- (getting frustrated at this point) No you can't I work from 1pm-10pm.
Dickprick-I'll pay you more
Escort- At this point you couldn't take it anymore so hang up.

All i'm saying is you save yourself so much pain by pretending you have lost connection and hanging up from the get go. You can even then send a text saying "sorry bad connection" then save their number as shit stink and ignore.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8159 on: 07 December 2015, 04:16:01 pm »
Phonecall today.

Him, hi is that ****?
Me, yes
Him, I'd really like to visit you on Thursday afternoon, are you around?
Me, yes is 2.30 ok?
Him, yes that's perfect,
Me, what type of service would you like, etc etc etc
Him, very politely describes what he would like......
Me, ok no problem, confirm with me on Thursday by 10am
Him, oh by the way I have a very sick mother that frequently becomes unwell so might not make the booking but I'll let you know by 1pm if anything happens.
Me, forget it then, call me Thursday if you're around.
 :FF

He was also clearly after a free phone wank, talking all sexy and sleazy, saying he's a very naughty boy, yuk
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