Quote from: Pink~Princess on 18 March 2014, 02:27:03 pm

Yeah I am sure they can be cancelled. Tell him you'll see him providing his PayPal payment is paid and received BEFORE you give him any service same as with any other booking x

Why ask for PayPal though? And the 'pay lots extra' bit. Could be a scam of sorts 

It is. See above.

Quote from: happyhappyjoyjoy on 18 March 2014, 03:21:09 pm

Quote from: Vivienne on 18 March 2014, 11:52:25 am

I saw your profile on AdultWork.com and ...Wondered whether you might be free in an hour or two? After 9am? Lol

ummmm whats with the LOL what's funny, have I missed something?

he could be from an older generation who thinks lol means lots of love

I think it could be that too but then it brings up the issue of clients saying things like "lots of love." That's what you put on a text to your aunty or something, not a stranger you're paying for sex haha I really don't like it! Same with "- Love from Client" on the bottom of emails - ehhh!!

If the client is a younger man, maybe he was trying to write you a message, wasn't really sure what to say and put the 'lol' out of awkwardness? Hard to explain but people around my age often say 'haha' or 'lol' when they're not laughing, partially because they think it sounds unfriendly to not put some slang like a smiley face or a laugh in. Just my 2 cents

I agree with this too actually x

I woke up to a text sent at 6.36am this morning saying.........

You look nice but reading your profile you don't seem it!!!!

Well thanks for the input you moron, only a narrow minded, ignorant fuck wit would read my profile and think so. At the end of the day, my profile is assertive!! I've made it clear the types of clients I seek out, I've made my working hours clear so NOT to phone me during the nite for a booking and I've made reading my profile clear to ensure the person reading is happy with what I offer!!!

If I offered most or all services then there would be no need for me to be quite as assertive, all I am trying to do is save the client the wasted time and disappointment and myself the wasted time and awkwardness/intimidation of meeting a complete stranger who's unhappy with me even although it's his own fault for not reading. If I worked along side another escort with added security then again I wouldn't need to be quite as assertive about which type of client I seek out and if I worked 24/7 then I wouldn't give a shit about people phoning me at ridiculous times!!!!!

My profile has got more assertive as I have went along with the amount of bad things that's happened to me in this business.

I am not desperate for money so I am not gonna put a whole load of shit on my profile just to lure them in, they either accept what's on my  profile or they don't and find someone else. Almost 300 positive reviews of me online so what more does he want?

All I can say is I dodged a bullet, feel sorry for whoever has to service such an ignorant arse!

Lol but don't they realise that although this business has many, many lovely men in it, it also has the lowest of the low......if you aren't assertive then some people will completely take advantage.

The things on my profile that he's talking about that seem like I have a bad attitude is nothing to do with attitude, I am just telling it how it is. How else can you tell people not to phone you in the middle of the nite or they will be blocked without sounding grumpy? Or texts messages will be ignored or that I am selective about who I meet with?

Absolutely.I once got told some clients don't like me saying thanks for reading my profile.I mean what the feck?!?
I just try and write a profile that sums up who I am,what I offer and what to expect if someone doesn't like it then away you go!
If I took on board every suggestion about profile writing I would go dolally considering every bloke is different and wants different things.

has you profile stopped you getting work? nope. These type of people think they are experts but they really wouldnt have a clue. Keep doing what you're doing as your the one bringing in the pounds

I received a polite email from a guy about an hour or so ago saying that he would like to meet........problem being is that he claims to be a male escort, is bisexual, likes rough sex, likes just about every service possible that I don't offer, is 24 and has hidden his feedback so I politely sent him an email declining his offer by saying that I prefer not to see men of my age group an that I do not like to meet bisexual men, do not like to meet other escorts and that I do not like rough sex. I also thanked him at the beginning of my message for sending me such a nice email......it was the info on his profile that completely put me off. All of the information is what I got from his own profile, he then replies with this....................

Hi

Thanks for your email. Not the nicest reply ever, but at least you've been upfront. That said, I read your profile to the letter and don't recall you stating anywhere that you didn't see guys who were bisexual and/or a similar age.

Perhaps that's something you should update, as my IQ of 131 and 9 years of university education were clearly not enough in the way of preparation to extract this information from your profile.

Thanks,
Steve

P.S. For what it's worth, I am not bisexual. I have had 1 single, fully safe bisexual encounter (and it appears you're open to that from a female point of view too), and simply haven't updated my profile since that one occasion. I do not offer any services out with this single, solitary experience. My profile contained sexually hyperbolic information in order to attract people of a particular sexuality as I was curious at the time. Thanks for making a judgement though. Hopefully you're nicer to the other genuine people that make contact with you.

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Talk about patronising so I sent back this.............................

Lol! My response was polite, I read your profile and thought you weren't the right type of client for me. It's your own fault for taking it the way you have. I didn't judge you, I got the information from your profile. Your profile says you like rough sex which I DO NOT!! Your profile says you are an escort and I don't like to meet with other escorts and your profile says your BISEXUAL, how was I suppose to know how many men you'd been with? Lol! And I do not like to meet with bisexual men if I can help it!! (this is just my personal choice).

I shouldn't have responded at all but then you'd probably have went in the huff over that aswell!

I have my reasons for why I don't have certain things on my profile and that's none of your business, this my my mind, body and soul and I decide who I want to see based on how I feel about that person as an individual. I cannot not judge you as a person because I don't know you, I can only judge you as a potential client and going by the information on your own profile, I realised it isn't for me same as there will be many profiles on here that you don't like for whatever reason.

Despite your so called IQ, your showing your immaturity with your patronising message. Read my message again and you will see I was not rude at all, I simply declined and gave a reason why!

Anyone mature enough would see I am trying to save you from wasting your money on someone who is incompatible with you and I am trying to save myself an experience I wouldn't enjoy because like I said, I do not like rough sex!

I doubt that no matter what way I worded my email, you'd still have taken offence to the fact that I don't want to meet.

I refuse to meet many men based on many different things.

Actually shocked at your response to me saying I don't want to meet, am I not entitled to decline? Very, very odd way to act.

And 9 years at university but your only 24?? Well done you!

Oh and not to mention the fact that you've hidden your feedback which is a caution that any escort would be put off by!

I have many, many reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you and I'm well within my right. Your reply just confirms that I was right to say no!

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Since I have wrote that message he has changed his whole profile from how much he loves ROUGH sex to how much he loves SAFE sex LOL!!! And he is now 31 years old!!

Despite his email being polite, I could still tell he was a wrong yin!!

My reason for leaving out the fact that I don't see guys of my own age on m profile is because that's not completely true. I don't see guys of my own age group if I don't like the sound of them for whatever reason same as I don't see guys of any age that I don't like the sound of. I do see guys of my own age group if they sound decent........I have many lovely clients who are young and that I trust with discretion etc. If I don't like the sound of someone then I may tell them that I don't see guys of my own age group to avoid offending them or to avoid abuse which is what I would get if I told them I just didn't like the sound of them.

So as far as I am concerned my profile is accurate, I have said that I only meet clients that I am comfortable to meet, who have read my profile, who are respectful etc and that applies to anyone of any age, race and what not. The second you start saying I don't see this group of people or that group of people is when it causes problems because then you are NOT judging that person as an individual. Just because one 24 year old is an arse doesn't mean the next 24 year old is an arse. I have had many middle aged men who are complete arses so that would mean I'd have to avoid all middle aged men too but I didn't feel I had to explain al this to that guy. I gave my reasons why I didn't want to see him personally and he hits me with that pathetic message 

Regards rough sex, I enjoy it slow and sensual or hard and fast depending on the mood and the person I am having sex with as sex is all about compatibility in my eyes but the thought of some stranger coming in and being rough with me makes me anxious. I have had guys of all ages come in and almost eat my face off when kissing me, grab my face, fuck me so hard it hurts because I am not turned on by them in the slightest because they have pounced on me the second they walk in, poke my eye out and punch me in the face (by accident because they are getting so carried away with their rough sex) and not to mention the hair pulling when I have extensions.

With him being bisexual and liking rough sex, I had visions of condoms breaking and who knows what he's been doing if he's bisexual? I have to take my sexual health serious.

I had a client the other nite who was as cool as a cucumber, really nice guy and loved his company.......he worked me up gently so I was genuinely turned on and soaking wet followed by a good, hard pounding which I LOVED!! That's the way to do it!