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analuluiza

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How many times can I cum?
« on: 01 August 2019, 01:09:45 pm »
I hate this question and I actually don’t take bookings if someone asks me it. Is it just me or does it piss anyone else off? I don’t have a rule on how many times someone can cum in an hour (i don’t take 30 mins, if I did I would probably let them cum once) but when someone asks me I feel like they are going to take the piss and cum as much as possible. I get the feeling if someone asks me that, they are either young or just want to get their money’s worth which is fine but off putting. But off putting in a sense that they will just focus on cumming and fucking non stop. I work for agencies for double my normal rate and the guys are so easy. I don’t know maybe I am being too harsh and losing potential regular clients ??
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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #1 on: 01 August 2019, 01:19:19 pm »
I usually answer "I don't know, how many times can you cum? It's up to you but when your times up it's up! "

9/10 the ones that ask only manage 1!   ;D

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #2 on: 01 August 2019, 01:20:57 pm »
I put the phone down..same reasons. You're so right SW lol
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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #3 on: 01 August 2019, 01:48:13 pm »
I don't think you are being harsh though, if you are not providing a PSE it does indicate they are not the kind of client you want.
I'm more into my PSE type bookings so I prefer it to be all about the sex so I don't mind those clients...prefer them to the needy older ones with all the chat!  Even if they pop after 10 minutes and spend the rest of the time flogging a dead horse because they over estimated their sexual prowess 😂

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #4 on: 01 August 2019, 02:52:39 pm »
Over time I've changed my approach, initially I'd say it was up to them and ask that they're realistic where as now I'll just hang up or stop responding to messages/emails.

During a booking if I have a starfish client (y'know the type, just lays there spread out in the middle of the bed) and they ask I'll tell them it's just the once, same for clients who ask after the first go and the only time they really have left is for a shower and to put their clothes back on.

I've found that the clients that push for more than one pop don't actually perform all that well the second time around and it ends with a frantic handjob that rarely goes anywhere.

I also cannot stand clients that'll book an hour or longer expecting it to be paced like two half an hours and I know that sounds silly but I can't physically exert myself with oral for twenty minutes and then be expected to do it again ten minutes later.

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #5 on: 01 August 2019, 03:16:37 pm »
If there wanting to go twice because they cum quick then i get why they ask that if they want an hour or more but i do find some are just not the type i want to see. I cancelled someone the other week because he said he likes to make every single minute count and basically wanted not a relaxed session but a bouncing vibrator for the whole time.

I find it even worse if they ask how many times can i cum in 30 mins..it is embarrassing. I know we sell sex but for god sake we are human too not just banging machines.

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #6 on: 01 August 2019, 03:34:43 pm »
My standard answer with an hour bookings is, "You have me for an hour, that's between you & your god."
No one has EVER popped more than twice & interestingly enough, I'd say 90% of them do NOT go for that 2nd pop. I've finally concluded they simply want to know the option is there. Fuck if I know.

30 minute sessions, you get 1 pop, what are you, Superman? GTFO with that shit. You want more than one cum, you're going to pay for more time, the end. That IS just what I tell them if they get fussy, they either agree or hang up *shrug*.
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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #7 on: 01 August 2019, 03:40:47 pm »
I don't mind the question, and it's often asked by men who have been shortchanged by other escorts who wrap the booking up once they've come, no matter how much time they have left. I can understand why some check.
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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #8 on: 02 August 2019, 07:17:34 pm »
i say as much as you can! no many can come twice in 1hr LOL
they are just dreamer and mostly young! and want to feel free! i do not hate the question but i understand and guess that they are young and no so much experience! so this question is not really motivating when i should book in a punter, but i do anyway

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #9 on: 04 August 2019, 08:01:45 am »
It irritates me when I get asked this I tell them how many times do you usually cum with an escort in 30 mins?
 To which I get the reply oh I havnt done it before.
Not one caller who requests that turns up .
So I see it as a obvious wank caller
I'm tempted to say you have to make an hour booking for that request at least or longer then not bother sending the postcode.

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #10 on: 04 August 2019, 08:42:18 am »
What is the correct spelling lol? Is it cum or come? 😂
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Rosesugar

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #11 on: 04 August 2019, 09:04:20 am »
semen, seed, seminal fluid, ejaculate, cum, come(noun)

the thick white fluid containing spermatozoa that is ejaculated by the male genital tract

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #12 on: 04 August 2019, 10:31:07 am »
I am rarely asked this (how many times) prior to the booking but if I am I say sorry I can not give them a booking. Then I end the call. I imagine them having a little wank while asking so they won't be meeting me.

Am more than willing to lose a booking from a genuine man asking that question, rather than give the wankers what they want.

Even when a new client arrives I can not recall the last time they have asked me how many times? It is usually me who brings that one up so I can gauge the pace of the booking etc.

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #13 on: 04 August 2019, 11:17:57 am »
I am rarely asked this (how many times) prior to the booking but if I am I say sorry I can not give them a booking. Then I end the call. I imagine them having a little wank while asking so they won't be meeting me.

Am more than willing to lose a booking from a genuine man asking that question, rather than give the wankers what they want.

Even when a new client arrives I can not recall the last time they have asked me how many times? It is usually me who brings that one up so I can gauge the pace of the booking etc.

It’s written on my AW and website that they can come as many times as they want. So if they ask that question I hang up and text them and tell them to read my profile/website before calling again.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: How many times can I cum?
« Reply #14 on: 04 August 2019, 01:43:24 pm »
I don't think it means they are timewasters, more that they have seen escorts who end the session after they come once regardless of how much time they have had, I think this is more normal in brothels tbh.

I think if they ask the question and if you respond with 'as many times as you like within the hour (or whatever) and they leave it at that then they are fine - the ones that start on about how they can come 8 times in an hour or how they are going to cover you in it etc etc are the TW fantasists.

Saying that, I had one once who told me he was a repeater and boy, did he! Nothing much shocks me but the number of times he came was incredible!