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Slavetolove

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I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« on: 25 February 2022, 11:33:42 am »
So I incall between my home and travel lodge that’s in the town centre. I work from the hotel when my husband is home (he knows what I do).

It was all going well for the last month until I went to check in last night and they said the manager told them to refuse my booking under the grounds that I’m “running a business” from there. Lol.


Managed to book into a much nicer hotel im the same town that you luckily don’t need to go to reception to get to the room, and no key card access! There’s a restaurant and a bar so lots of people coming and going so don’t think it will be as obvious I hope!

Helen4444

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #1 on: 25 February 2022, 11:54:08 am »
Yes they can do that I also work in the hotel industry

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #2 on: 26 February 2022, 01:58:07 am »
It was all going well for the last month until I went to check in last night and they said the manager told them to refuse my booking under the grounds that I’m “running a business” from there. Lol.

I followed the Australian court case where sex workers sued for discrimination because men conducted business and meetings with clients in their hotel rooms. Sadly they lost. The other one which irks me is "immoral" activities. Oh, but some man in a suit can sign contracts with clients providing supplies sourced from slave labour but women sex workers cannot perform a  natural function?

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #3 on: 26 February 2022, 03:35:38 pm »
Yikes!  I am always nervous about this at my Travelodge as the cleaners clearly know what I am up to but so far they've all been lovely. 

Slavetolove

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #4 on: 26 February 2022, 08:50:52 pm »
I honestly thought it was going to be ok! They always smiled at me, I guessed they knew what was going on but thought just turn a blind eye because I’m professional and respectful looking. All I was doing is going to reception to meet the men and that was it. There was never any staff in reception anyway!

I’m annoyed actually. It’s somewhere safe and secure and why they hell shouldn’t we be able to work there if no one is getting hurt? What if I met up with 7 men off tinder and slept with them at travel lodge, would they kick me out then?

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #5 on: 26 February 2022, 11:03:37 pm »
All I was doing is going to reception to meet the men and that was it. There was never any staff in reception anyway!

Sounds like this was the issue. I havent worked from a hotel in ages but I would never meet a client at reception! If the hotel is keycarded then I would meet them outside - if its not then theres no reason for you to meet them at reception, you just need to direct them to your floor you are on. Even if the reception staff werent there, they have cameras there coz the till is there so I can only assume they saw you on the camera feed meeting loads of guys....

Im genuinely gutted for you but all you can do is take this as a lesson learnt and make changes to try and ensure this doesnt happen again for you in another hotel. Lol
Slow money is better then no money

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #6 on: 28 February 2022, 11:22:22 am »
Reminds me of working in a travelodge years ago, was thrown out at night claiming too many men were coming and going from my room. It put me off working from hotels and started using apartments never looked back I love working from apartments.

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #7 on: 01 March 2022, 12:22:23 am »
That's awful and a fear of mine with hotels,  I did use a few but just felt too watched and paranoid, much prefer serviced apartments but saying that I just booked into one that's got a ring doorbell that they did not disclose, Really got me feeling Anxious so I disconnected the WiFi. I even still feel anxious about using new apartments and stick to the ones I feel most comfortable to get on with work without any nosey people.

I hate how you can be the nicest and a well behaved respectful guest and cause no trouble but be treated like a low life because of sex work stigma....Still prostitution is stuck in the dark ages. I know it makes no sense to get annoyed at this attitude and just enjoy the good money and free time i get and not suffering a boss giving me orders but I get annoyed that we get harsh judgement.

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #8 on: 01 March 2022, 11:00:53 am »
In my opinion too many hotel staff and management are still assuming that guests/visiting clients could be bringing noise and drugs/drunken behaviour etc. which is rubbish. Clients in general just want to visit and do what they came for then leave quickly and quietly.

Most of us will have experienced the stag and hen party disgusting behaviour in the hotels we stay in to discreetly work. Those rabbles are rarely booted out. I was with a client one evening in my hotel room and we were listening to the shrieks of foul mouthed WOMEN in the corridors as they went out for their parties. As I slept a few hours later I was woken up by them returning to their rooms and the noise was even worse.

They are not the evil group labelled prostitutes though. So unfair.

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #9 on: 04 March 2022, 10:12:40 pm »
I hope hen night and stag do guests  trashed the hotels.  sex workers are constantly judged by their staff . Yet most of us are discreet and leave the rooms tidy and clean yet  treated unfairly . :FF

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #10 on: 05 March 2022, 04:53:08 pm »
I hope hen night and stag do guests  trashed the hotels.  sex workers are constantly judged by their staff . Yet most of us are discreet and leave the rooms tidy and clean yet  treated unfairly . :FF

I totally agree with this

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #11 on: 05 March 2022, 06:52:38 pm »
I'm too nervous to work from a hotel. I've done it twice. First time I was so worried they'd know what was going on, I only saw one reg. Second time I saw three regs and was so anxious, I won't do it anymore. I even had a door wedge so the maids couldn't burst in but I was so stressed.

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Re: I was refused my booking at travel lodge 🙈
« Reply #12 on: 19 March 2022, 05:28:34 pm »
My last few visits to hotels have had me an anxious mess where i have had to leave early it has put me off them. I prefer to work from smaller towns but the problem with those is its very hard if not impossible to find serviced apartments or If there are any they tend to be really expensive.