I have never enjoyed it either work or private life. I have never offered it but guys just automatically go for it. Some look at me with hurt eyes and say they will be gentle, I couldn't care how gentle they will be I don't do it end of. My fairy is very sensitive inside and one dirty finger inside I automatically get a UTI. I have painful kidney stones which have been caused by UTI infections (not calcium or diet related ones). I had so much time off work last year due to pain and surgery to get stones removed several times.
What amazes me is, once they know its off limits some then go for my bum hole lol. If I don't allow fingers up my fairy do they really believe I going to let them stick it up my bum! I don't offer bum fun of any variety. My service is vanilla and I enjoy it like that.
The amount of clients who arrive at my door freshly showered are fab, but look insulted when I ask them to wash their hands, so now I taken to doing it for them. No washy handies, no touchiest fanny end of lol.