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Nora batty

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #15 on: 20 March 2015, 05:03:09 pm »
I have never enjoyed it either work or private life.  I have never offered it but guys just automatically go for it.  Some look at me with hurt eyes and say they will be gentle, I couldn't care how gentle they will be I don't do it end of.  My fairy is very sensitive inside and one dirty finger inside I automatically get a UTI.  I have painful kidney stones which have been caused by UTI infections (not calcium or diet related ones).  I had so much time off work last year due to pain and surgery to get stones removed several times. 

What amazes me is, once they know its off limits some then go for my bum hole lol.  If I don't allow fingers up my fairy do they really believe I going to let them stick it up my bum!  I don't offer bum fun of any variety.  My service is vanilla and I enjoy it like that.

The amount of clients who arrive at my door freshly showered are fab, but look insulted when I ask them to wash their hands, so now I taken to doing it for them.  No washy handies, no touchiest fanny end of lol.


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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #16 on: 20 March 2015, 06:59:52 pm »
HATE IT..!! Does absolutely nothing for me. Apart from annoy me  >:(
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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #17 on: 20 March 2015, 08:24:35 pm »
I love fingering, it really does it for me. Most guys can't do it hard enough for my liking  ;D

But the one thing I'm terrified of is sharp nails. Miss K that sounds awful about him scratching you, it made my eyes water reading that.

So when they put their hand down to finger me, I run my thumb over their nails gently and in a subtle manner to check there's no sharp points. If there are then I whip my little nail file out of my bag, and file at top speed furiously until their nails look safe enough to make contact with my foof  ;D

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I have a vision of the guys face when you get your nail file out to do his nails, brilliant  ;D xx

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #18 on: 20 March 2015, 08:44:41 pm »
Absolutely hate it if done vigorously. 

Whilst I am happy to allow a little bit of mild (one finger, two max) play, once they start pushing in like they are plunging a blocked sink, I say whoa!!!!! 

The other day a real arrogant one tried to shove more in there then I allow so I told him, one finger only (even though I do allow two) because he pissed me off so much, I thought right mate, now you getting less then I would normally allow.  If I said I don't allow a bloody four finger pounding, it means I don't! 

Some just don't have a clue do they ?  :FF

This is exactly how I handle it too. 2 fingers MAX and if they get anything more than a gentle fingering I tell them to ease off. If they still don't I just suggest I give them head and move away lol

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« Reply #19 on: 20 March 2015, 09:11:05 pm »
I've had waaaaaay too many painful moments to offer it any more. I'm okay with rubbing at me, but not putting fingers inside me. I'm the same in my personal life, unless I'm in bed with a woman - I've come to think you either need super powers of observation to what you're doing or have a vagina yourself not to hurt someone. To be honest, I've found really small penises hurt in the same way, it's that "something small and pointy jabbing at me" feeling. Last small penis caused a tear just inside the opening. I'm a fan of the wonderfully average cock. Average is the new special in my book.

I once had a client remark "I would love to finger you but I keep that for my wife." I still have no idea what to think of that one!

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #20 on: 20 March 2015, 09:47:26 pm »
I love fingering, it really does it for me. Most guys can't do it hard enough for my liking  ;D

But the one thing I'm terrified of is sharp nails. Miss K that sounds awful about him scratching you, it made my eyes water reading that.

So when they put their hand down to finger me, I run my thumb over their nails gently and in a subtle manner to check there's no sharp points. If there are then I whip my little nail file out of my bag, and file at top speed furiously until their nails look safe enough to make contact with my foof  ;D

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I have a vision of the guys face when you get your nail file out to do his nails, brilliant  ;D xx

Ha!! Yes they're definitely not expecting that  ;D

But I would still rather nail-file them into submission than risk a cut foo xx

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #21 on: 20 March 2015, 11:12:06 pm »
I've had waaaaaay too many painful moments to offer it any more. I'm okay with rubbing at me, but not putting fingers inside me. I'm the same in my personal life, unless I'm in bed with a woman - I've come to think you either need super powers of observation to what you're doing or have a vagina yourself not to hurt someone. To be honest, I've found really small penises hurt in the same way, it's that "something small and pointy jabbing at me" feeling. Last small penis caused a tear just inside the opening. I'm a fan of the wonderfully average cock. Average is the new special in my book.

I once had a client remark "I would love to finger you but I keep that for my wife." I still have no idea what to think of that one!

I'm totally fine with clients touching me down below and rubbing till their hearts content but no fingers inside xx

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #22 on: 21 March 2015, 11:38:17 am »
I tell them "everything that goes in there is covered" and keep a stash of gloves & finger stalls for that.  No grubby mitts that have been all over their genitals before delving into the depths.  Much smoother and safer all round.

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #23 on: 21 March 2015, 11:55:47 am »
Yes I spose as you don't want them wanking and possibly putting precum and whatever inside you.

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #24 on: 21 March 2015, 04:07:11 pm »
I HATE fingering with a passion especially when they just ram fingers up there. I now tell clients from the offset that I don't do fingers right inside, only on the outer part but even then lately i'm getting men who are just rubbing it really hard and it's as if they're pressing a button really hard or something, it's awful. So many are just terrible at fingering  :FF
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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #25 on: 21 March 2015, 05:22:13 pm »
HATE IT..!! Does absolutely nothing for me. Apart from annoy me  >:(
yes me too,  I feel its like a medical examination and I have never been pleasured only in pain by it and they are so unhygienic id probably catch something from their fingernails

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #26 on: 21 March 2015, 06:26:14 pm »
HATE IT..!! Does absolutely nothing for me. Apart from annoy me  >:(
yes me too,  I feel its like a medical examination and I have never been pleasured only in pain by it and they are so unhygienic id probably catch something from their fingernails

Assuming you mean that fingers and nails in general are unhygienic and not just clients becuase fortunately not all clients have such terrible hygiene xx

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #27 on: 21 March 2015, 06:29:18 pm »
HATE people fingering my clip, LOVE internal. Can be as rough as possible and all fingers- nothing gets me wetter! Would love to try fisting but just too scared to try with a client.

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #28 on: 21 March 2015, 06:45:22 pm »
I have one reg who rubs my clit really fast, not hard just really fast and I think on one session I made noises to go with the flow so ever since then when he does this motion, he makes orgasm noises as he thinks I'm loving it but I find it quite funny and stifle a giggle. But as long as it?s not painful then I?ll let him continue doing this and having my orgasms for me  ; :)

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #29 on: 21 March 2015, 10:43:37 pm »
HATE people fingering my clip, LOVE internal. Can be as rough as possible and all fingers- nothing gets me wetter! Would love to try fisting but just too scared to try with a client.

Well I think that if you love fingering like that and don't care how many fingers go up etc and aren't tense about getting hurt then you could maybe try getting one of your trusted regulars to fist you?

I would be too scared that fisting etc would stretch me. I haven't had any kids or anything yet so taking a fist would probably split me in two x