Also, you mention you are with an agency, so if this was an agency job there's a chance you may have not been his first choice. If he wanted a size 8 blonde/brunette (whichever you aren't) and there weren't any available they may have done a good sales patter about you so he decided to go and see you anyway. So, that means you're already a little bit doomed before he arrives. Just thought I'd put it out there, as I'd later learned some of my negative feedback whilst with an agency were when they'd wanted to see very different ladies to my specification! I had a friend who had a scathing review on a website, and he stated in it he wanted to see xxx who was a very tall, slender, large enhanced boobed blonde and PSE, yet my friend was 5ft, brunette and small natural boobs and very girl next door type - of course he wasn't going to be happy! He also mentioned that he'd had the meeting planned a week prior and that xxx had cancelled on the day. So maybe something similar happened with you x

Also, you mention you are with an agency, so if this was an agency job there's a chance you may have not been his first choice. If he wanted a size 8 blonde/brunette (whichever you aren't) and there weren't any available they may have done a good sales patter about you so he decided to go and see you anyway. So, that means you're already a little bit doomed before he arrives. Just thought I'd put it out there, as I'd later learned some of my negative feedback whilst with an agency were when they'd wanted to see very different ladies to my specification! I had a friend who had a scathing review on a website, and he stated in it he wanted to see xxx who was a very tall, slender, large enhanced boobed blonde and PSE, yet my friend was 5ft, brunette and small natural boobs and very girl next door type - of course he wasn't going to be happy! He also mentioned that he'd had the meeting planned a week prior and that xxx had cancelled on the day. So maybe something similar happened with you x

Very good point  x

When you've had an eating disorder anything can kick those thoughts off, and I'd guess it isn't specfically the size more the stress of something you perceive to be a negative commrnt, or criticism. EDs tend to be about control or dealing with emotions-which is where the influence of slim models argument falls down.

Be happy if you don't like your body you can change it, but don't do it because someone else has an 'opinion'. It's your body to do with it how you like(obviously whilst also taking responsibility for your own health). I had guys recommending skipping meals when I was overweight, I know that doesn't work for me not one bit!

I know what website you're on about.
I LOATHE that site. I have one review on there and by the time I had finished reading it I was cringing no end. The guy wrote an extended essay on every little detail and that filled it with erotic novelist style bullsh*t that never even happened!
I often read the other girls reviews too and my god it annoys me. One sticks in my mind that he knocked a percentage off because he didn't like the music in the cd player (that she didn't even play!?). They're just nit picking. Unfortunately some clients forget we are normal humans with actual feelings.
 I had a client yesterday that I knew prior to the booking that he may be reviewing me on that site and in the end he couldn't finish and I am so paranoid that he is going to write a bad review because of it (he was really lovely but who knows once he's behind a computer screen writing an anon review...).
 Sites like that really annoy me because they tend to write about WGs like they're a product not a person, and yet to be treated like a soulless object the opportunity other service providers/sellers such as restaurants or electricals get to actually respond to the poor reviews and explain or contradict the opinion of the "buyer" so-to-speak is not there.
 I am sure there are many WGs out there with poor reviews that would love to reply back and say what is what. But then again that would probably deter business even more.
 
 You're gorgeous from what I have seen anyway and as they say f*ck the haters!
xxx

I think the trick with feedback is to disempower it from the start although I can appreciate you can't do this with agencies.  My attitude is simple, I don't value feedback, don't care about it and make it perfectly clear that I think its just for men to publicly talk about their sexual prowess and to use it as a way to force a power imbalance between wg and client.

Has not hindered business at all and if a client gets the hump about lack of feedback, I don't see them.

 They are not my client. 

I recently had a comment written about me on that site in the Scottish section saying that I was  a 4/10, fat, made out I worked from some sort of crack den, unprofessional. I am a size 10, even carrying a few extra pounds, I have never gone over that dress size and I have boobs and a bum so I am curvy. I work from a duplex, modern, spotlessly clean, high spec penthouse apartment but the person who wrote the comment resented me for how I dealt with him originally.

He booked me for 3 hours and didn't turn up YET I stupidly gave him another chance as he apologised and sent me a polite and well written email so I thought he was ok then the second time he booked again for 3 hours then at the last minute said he wanted me to spend the duration of the booking doing "costume changes" (his words) I don't take clothing requests nevermind spend 3 hours doing costume changes, I mean WTF?? So at this point he'd pissed me about TWICE for long bookings so I told him to fuck off, that he was a time waster, yada, yada, yada. Some punters need to realise escort or not we're only human so its natural to be pissed off at things like this when your times being wasted like that.

So the a couple of weeks later, he books me and I didn't recognise the number so I gave him an appointment, this time it was just the hour. He turns up and all is well, I treat him like I do every other client, I was polite, friendly, bubbly, welcoming and gave him a good service TWICE in the time he booked me. There was no rush, I thought he was a little shy so was chatty to try and make him feel comfortable but the damage was already done as he resented me from the original contact we had.

Rather than join the site and try to tell my side of the story as escorts don't come off too well on there when they try to defend themselves, I emailed him on AW to ask why he was so nasty and that despite the fact we got off to a bad start (his fault) that when we met, I didn't know who he was and was nothing but nice to him and his emails to me in response were far more upsetting than anything he ever wrote about me on the forum. He said I was the worst punt in Glasgow, that every punter has a horror story of a punt and that I was his horror story. He said that perhaps he thought I was fat because I was short (so now I am a midget) but I am 5ft3 WITHOUT HEELS as it says on my profile and I think that's pretty average height for a British woman?? He literally slagged off every part of me then I had to block him.

He was in his mid-late twenty's, was fairly new to punting at the time I met him but has met with several other escorts since me who offer more services than me so he cant really compare my vanilla service to a lady who offers more but he did anyway.

The guy just didn't like me so decided to go on a public forum to slag me off as a punishment for his resentment but believe you me, his cock was telling a different story when he was with me as he popped his load rather quickly, TWICE! But whats more upsetting is that the other punters reading it would take his story as pure gospel truth. LUCKILY for me another client who I have met wrote a comment underneath his and he completely disagreed with everything he said about me.

So far that's the only bad thing I've ever seen written about me on public forums/reviews or whatever but I do need to try and remind myself that 1 angry, resentful little boys comment means nothing and that I should concentrate more on the HUNDREDS of good comments/reviews I have written about how I look and my service.

I mean one of my reviews even says I look like something from "The Saturdays" so how can that be yet this moron thinks I am fat, short, 4/10 horror story?? I spend ages on my appearance so I look nice for my clients, I offer everything that is advertised on my profile, I am reliable with good communication and treated him to the best of my ability as I do with all my clients who are pleasant (he was pleasant in person)

Problem being is anyone reading his comment will think what he's saying is true and the forum has a lot of visitors, they cant all be bad. I know for a fact there are many decent men on there. I agree that most of the posters on there seem resentful towards escorts for whatever reason but they aren't all bad.

xx

Aha, well I am sure others reading it will know what I am talking about!

Yeah I agree that reviews are a good thing Amy either way whether you've had a good experience or not. I have had good and bad experiences in hotels, restaurants or whatever else and thought of writing a review but never get round to it but the difference between an escort and a restaurant is that we have feelings, a restaurant doesn't as I am sure you know.

Its hurtful when you read such upsetting things about yourself, I read reviews of other girls and feel sad for them.

Don't get me wrong if someone is a fake, a scam artist, bait & switch or has a terrible attitude whilst with a client (at no fault of the client) then I completely agree and understand a neg review but when a malicious review is written because the client is a complete moron then its not very nice if the girl was indeed the girl advertised, services advertised were provided, she was clean, not a clock watcher, all information advertised was accurate, had a good attitude and offered the service to the best of her ability then a neg comment/review is just so unfair on every level IMO.

xx

I sure used the word "happy" a lot in my post!