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MISS RUBY

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effect of timewasters on escorts
« on: 06 February 2012, 06:26:47 pm »
I am very stressed and low every call today has been from a waste of space male who cancelled within hours of their booking. can some of you ladies let me know what is going wrong ! please check out my aw profile if you have time and feedback welcome. SECRET MISS RUBY  .
hope thinks improve by Tuesday...
Ruby x
« Last Edit: 06 February 2012, 06:49:46 pm by Miss Ruby »

ladyofthemansion

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Re: effect of time of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #1 on: 06 February 2012, 06:45:06 pm »
You are not doing anything wrong. It happens to me too and I tend to get them all on the same day as well unfortunately.

The minute I get two in one day I ditch the appointment system completely and just tell them all to come. x
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #2 on: 06 February 2012, 08:05:58 pm »
Don't panic Ruby.  February for escorts is notoriously known as the worst month of the year so just bear with it and once we are thru february things will start taking off again.

I agree with what LOTM says too. 
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It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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strawberry

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #3 on: 06 February 2012, 08:12:59 pm »
Always make sure you have something constructive lined up to do should any bookings fall through. I find it really helps.

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #4 on: 06 February 2012, 08:24:37 pm »
I think the best thing to do is to make a conscious choice to NOT give them any of your energy. They are not worth it, hard as it may be sometimes to let it go - I try to think to myself 'well it says much more about them than it does about me'. I get days like that too, and like LOTM says if I am struggling financially (ie paid out on a room) then I will also ditch the appointment system so I'll at least then get a booking to cover costs.

I second the above advice about having something nice lined up to do after work, even just something small you enjoy x
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #5 on: 06 February 2012, 08:42:52 pm »
Amazing how my takings go up when I ditch the appointment system and do a first come first served. x

If things got really bad I would go as far as double or treble booking. x
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Taylor

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #6 on: 06 February 2012, 09:45:19 pm »
I used to accept telephone bookings but nearly every one was a time waster or turnt up and they were proper foul.

So now i only accept bookings from members of adultwork with regular positive feedback and i am not short of work.
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #7 on: 25 May 2012, 03:22:53 pm »
Had my first no show today so fuck it. I am double booking, even treble booking from now on. I am never turning away customers for those idiots again.

I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

TeenKylie

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #8 on: 25 May 2012, 06:05:28 pm »
Had my first no show today so fuck it. I am double booking, even treble booking from now on. I am never turning away customers for those idiots again.
But what if two genuine clients book you and show up and you have double booked them?

orchidperfume

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #9 on: 25 May 2012, 06:27:04 pm »
I just put the mobile number on the profile and often can tell quite quickly these days who is a tw or not.
sadly the block list on the phone is getting longer.
If after 4 bookings have not turned up i just quit for the day as i  can become irritable and dispondant!
O xx

ParisB

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #10 on: 25 May 2012, 07:17:31 pm »
 with every phone call i say im not sure if im availble at the moment ( for the time that they want ) and i ask them to call back in say 10 mins as i will know by then if i am going to be free
 the genuine clients will call back those that are going to mess you about wont
also i dont take bookings hours in advance  not more than 1hr  generally  unless it a regular client that i know well
 its not 100 percent fool proof  but i dont get loads of timewaster and in ireland for the past two weeks i  had no more than 6 nowshows which for ireland is like getting 100 percent in alevel maths as its notorious for timewasters         
 

TeenKylie

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #11 on: 25 May 2012, 08:46:01 pm »
Well I've said it before and I'll say it again. Make them book online. I hardly ever get a Timewaster actually book me online. Had a guy ring up yesterday 'when are you avalible please' I said either 3.30 or 7.30 but you need to book online for me to take the booking seriously. 'No problem, yes I'll do it now' 30mins later and no booking and I know I have saved myself from another timewasting prick! Yay!

LOTM- I know you get pissed of with no shows but I really don't think it's fair to double let alone triple book them! If they are genuine then it's not fair on the client at all. Can't you find another way?
« Last Edit: 25 May 2012, 08:47:40 pm by MissKylie »

danae

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #12 on: 25 May 2012, 08:55:16 pm »
Well I've said it before and I'll say it again. Make them book online. I hardly ever get a Timewaster actually book me online. Had a guy ring up yesterday 'when are you avalible please' I said either 3.30 or 7.30 but you need to book online for me to take the booking seriously. 'No problem, yes I'll do it now' 30mins later and no booking and I know I have saved myself from another timewasting prick! Yay!


Ok what would be your tip for girls who don?t live by AW?  :)
« Last Edit: 25 May 2012, 08:56:56 pm by Danae »

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #13 on: 25 May 2012, 08:56:05 pm »
with every phone call i say im not sure if im availble at the moment ( for the time that they want ) and i ask them to call back in say 10 mins as i will know by then if i am going to be free
 the genuine clients will call back those that are going to mess you about wont


I think that?s a really good tip Paris. My TW senses are normally spot on but occasionally one or two still get through the net. I?m going to try it!

ladyofthemansion

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Re: effect of timewasters on escorts
« Reply #14 on: 25 May 2012, 09:47:10 pm »
I had checked in at 2. Guy booked 230. I got ready. He didn't show. After 2 hours of no calls I asked hotel if I could leave as wasn't well and their air con wasn't working. The heat got to me a bit as well and I sat outside for a bit really depressed that I could spend a day making nothing rather than spend with my gorgeus grandson.

I wouldn't double book. I just said it because I was angry.  I keep thinking of doing it though.x
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.