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LotusFlower

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I get that we provide a service, which should be consistent regardless of external factors, but working in this heat is awful. It got me thinking, should client be a little more mindful of this when booking?

I have some very uncomfortable bookings yesterday due to the heat -

A client wanted me in PVC and heavy strap on use - I put on hotpants but was still crippled after.

A second client was physically dripping in sweat, all over my face and kept hugging me close. We were stuck together, it was vile. He then wanted me to share a HOT shower with him. I said no and he was very annoyed by this.

There are just certain things that cant be given I this heat!

Rosesugar

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What a nightmare ..
The pvc in the heat is one I'm avoiding I got an e mail request from a regular for it .
Their fantasy our torture  :'(

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I'm strictly only offering 15 and 30min incalls due to the heat and only accepting dress requests if the outfit isn't too warm. Clients are also made to shower if they turn up sweaty. I feel that as an escort, you should be careful of the heat as it can lead to heat exhaustion and heat stroke. Take care of yourself and put limits on your bookings if you need to. Xx

TheQuietOneHA!

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I get that we provide a service, which should be consistent regardless of external factors, but working in this heat is awful. It got me thinking, should client be a little more mindful of this when booking?

I have some very uncomfortable bookings yesterday due to the heat -

A client wanted me in PVC and heavy strap on use - I put on hotpants but was still crippled after.

A second client was physically dripping in sweat, all over my face and kept hugging me close. We were stuck together, it was vile. He then wanted me to share a HOT shower with him. I said no and he was very annoyed by this.

There are just certain things that cant be given I this heat!

I don’t really think clients need to be mindful about the heat as such because all my bookings were fine yesterday because the clients I met were decent respectful humans and I ask all my clients to shower on arrival.

I don’t take clothing requests but if I did and someone asked me to wear PVC in 32 degree heat, he’d be getting told at the booking stage that he was being rather unreasonable.

As for the one dripping sweat on you and pulling you in to smother you in more of his sweat, he’s just gross and clearly didn’t pick up on your body language or care that you weren’t enjoying it.

And being pissed off at you because you didn’t want to do something? Nope, he’s a self entitled moron and I would clash like fuck with someone like that.

So I think you just had crappy clients yesterday rather than the heat being a problem.

I admit, it is unpleasant in the heat if your both soaked with sweat, it can’t be avoided sometimes but when they smother you in sweat and drip on your face etc, I would struggle to carry on with that professionally.

I find this only happens with clients who struggle to cum in general or who try to cum more than once in an hour and have to force the second cum out rather than just book a half hour and be happy with once and save some money while they’re at it.

I would suggest doing shorter bookings unless you know the client and know what he’s like x
« Last Edit: 26 July 2019, 05:44:57 pm by Sophia x »

Rosesugar

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I'm strictly only offering 15 and 30min incalls due to the heat and only accepting dress requests if the outfit isn't too warm. Clients are also made to shower if they turn up sweaty. I feel that as an escort, you should be careful of the heat as it can lead to heat exhaustion and heat stroke. Take care of yourself and put limits on your bookings if you need to. Xx
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CurlsnCurves

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Yes I do think they should be but some ain't and thats cos theyre assholes! No pvc for me, no way, anyone asking can sod right off!!!

Mirror

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I think it's up to us to manage it and stipulate boundaries.

saltysweet

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No I don't think they should be more mindful. They pay for a service and have preferences. That's perfectly reasonable. Some are trained and some are wild. Like Sophia says it's crappy clients, not about the weather. They'd be annoying whatever the situation.

I had an unusually sweaty man who didn't make any attempt to dry himself, soaking my new quilt. I kept my mouth shut, that's my bad. I should have told him it was upsetting me and I need him to leave. Now I tell them how to behave. If we don't guide them they won't know better. That said-I won't normally choose to have a second booking with a drippy man unless he was super fucking hot, that's my choice. I'd be drinking the sweat off his slippery ass crack if he was my type. :P

Like another members says, I make them shower first if it's it's a 'drippy man' day. I always use massive thick beach towels over the bedding and pillows normally. If he's sweaty I use two, like yesterday he was a sweater sweeter, dripper but had the good manners to dry himself off every few minutes. We girls appreciate consideration. ;) Their bodies never actually touch my bedding.

I normally tell them to bring their the shower towel into the bedroom. On hot days they can wipe drips off with it. I'll often stop and wipe them myself which they seem to like. If people take the piss, it's our responsibility to control them verbally, move or distract them. Or cut short the session.
« Last Edit: 28 July 2019, 10:27:58 pm by saltysweet »

TheQuietOneHA!

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I think it's up to us to manage it and stipulate boundaries.

Exactly 100% x

ParisB

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I only pick hotels at the moment if they have excellent aircon
Plus I take my dyson. Best thing I  bought for work it’s probably the best travelled fan ever

CelesteManchester

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Re: Do you think clients should be more mindful of us during this heat?
« Reply #10 on: 27 July 2019, 12:41:45 pm »
Oh my gosh you guys! Do miniature hand held ACs exist? If so, I will buy in bulk & send to everyone on the board.😁

I am so sorry! This has to to be brutal; it's running 90 to 100 degrees here (37 C to y'all?) & I know there's a serious heatwave across Europe.

I hope the weather breaks soon but....we're all staring at August🤢.

Sending ice but no hugs, bc that would be too hot😁❄️☃️🌊.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Re: Do you think clients should be more mindful of us during this heat?
« Reply #11 on: 27 July 2019, 01:03:14 pm »
If it's disgustingly hot, I just don't work.
If it's hot, I say no to requests for tights and anything else uncomfortable to wear.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

LotusFlower

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Re: Do you think clients should be more mindful of us during this heat?
« Reply #12 on: 28 July 2019, 10:23:19 pm »
Yes, definitely in hindsight I should have just taken the day off but it was one of the only days I had to work and didnt realise how torturous it was going to be!! Definitely no clothing requests on days like that. It was just all the sweating from that one client that made me extremely pissed off - he made no effort to wipe himself even when I brought him a towel and kept passing him cold wet wipes.

I don't like close cuddly cuddling at the best of times never mind when they are literally covered in their own sweat. Eeek.

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Re: Do you think clients should be more mindful of us during this heat?
« Reply #13 on: 05 August 2019, 02:53:45 pm »
I have an air con unit in my room. £300 and worth every penny. If it’s too hot I can’t work at all. Now I work in a nice cold room. Clients find this good as well.

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Re: Do you think clients should be more mindful of us during this heat?
« Reply #14 on: 06 August 2019, 08:06:33 am »
I have an air con unit in my room. £300 and worth every penny. If it’s too hot I can’t work at all. Now I work in a nice cold room. Clients find this good as well.

Can you actually buy these and travel with them? I assumed air con had to be installed.
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