I have been doing this for years and always enjoyed my work - the odd stupid clients that we all have.
This year however have been weird, I tried touring many times and all went wrong, every tour it’s an expense and sometimes getting nothing of it.
My civvy work experience is close to zero.
I have debit atm
Loads of it.
Don’t even have a limit on my credit card anymore which has been saving me for the few past months that I haven’t been able to turn a profit on my job.
I am seriously sad and desperate. Can anyone that has been on the same situation tell me where can I get help?
My friend told me to go to job centre, but just my tax bill monthly is £1500
How can they help?
🥺😢😭
Ps: *if I am posting on the wrong area please fell free to move it.
** ladies this job is great and I loved it and made great money till last year, so I am not saying anything bad about it, is just that is possible my time to retire.

Step change free debt advice. And then the job centre maybe to do some courses to get you into mainstream work and do this evenings and weekends as a top up.

Thank you 🙏🏻
Will check them out

I will look into it
Thank you 🙏🏻

Maybe stop touring and start doing cam and phone chat x.

I did this last year when I wasn’t able to work for various reasons and if you can be motivated with yourself to put in the hours, it’s can be a great earner on cam. I am going through similar feelings of burnout again so doing my last tour in December for a while and will return to cam to work around new commitments. I’m not saying I’m retiring from escorting completely, just focusing on other things for a while instead of putting myself under the same pressure or headaches I get while touring and I’ll see where I’m at again in a few months.

I found the good thing about cam was that if I wasn’t mentally in the right headspace, I could switch off, do something I enjoy and come back to it. Some days are great and some not so much but at least I’m not paying to travel or for accommodation.

I think the advice from Sultress000 and GucciGang is worth noting too, having debt hanging over your head can be such a big burden and often just facing up to it and speaking to someone who can give you advice on how to help manage it can be a relief in itself.

I hope you manage to find a way through whatever you choose to do x