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sexygirl10

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I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« on: 04 November 2022, 02:48:44 pm »
I have been doing this for years and always enjoyed my work - the odd stupid clients that we all have.
This year however have been weird, I tried touring many times and all went wrong, every tour it’s an expense and sometimes getting nothing of it.
My civvy work experience is close to zero.
I have debit atm
Loads of it.
Don’t even have a limit on my credit card anymore which has been saving me for the few past months that I haven’t been able to turn a profit on my job.
I am seriously sad and desperate. Can anyone that has been on the same situation tell me where can I get help?
My friend told me to go to job centre, but just my tax bill monthly is £1500
How can they help?
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Ps: *if I am posting on the wrong area please fell free to move it.
** ladies this job is great and I loved it and made great money till last year, so I am not saying anything bad about it, is just that is possible my time to retire.

sultress000

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #1 on: 04 November 2022, 06:22:54 pm »
Hi, I think it might help to  speak to a debt advice charity /advice line and explain everything.

GucciGang

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #2 on: 04 November 2022, 06:37:23 pm »
Step change free debt advice. And then the job centre maybe to do some courses to get you into mainstream work and do this evenings and weekends as a top up.

sexygirl10

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #3 on: 04 November 2022, 06:58:02 pm »
Thank you 🙏🏻

sexygirl10

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #4 on: 04 November 2022, 06:58:41 pm »
Thank you 🙏🏻
Will check them out

lillybliss

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #5 on: 05 November 2022, 08:04:23 am »
Maybe stop touring and start doing cam and phone chat x.

sexygirl10

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #6 on: 06 November 2022, 08:13:39 am »
I will look into it
Thank you 🙏🏻

lillybliss

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #7 on: 06 November 2022, 04:00:14 pm »
Good luck x.

Rosie13

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #8 on: 07 November 2022, 08:13:17 am »
Maybe stop touring and start doing cam and phone chat x.

I did this last year when I wasn’t able to work for various reasons and if you can be motivated with yourself to put in the hours, it’s can be a great earner on cam. I am going through similar feelings of burnout again so doing my last tour in December for a while and will return to cam to work around new commitments. I’m not saying I’m retiring from escorting completely, just focusing on other things for a while instead of putting myself under the same pressure or headaches I get while touring and I’ll see where I’m at again in a few months.

I found the good thing about cam was that if I wasn’t mentally in the right headspace, I could switch off, do something I enjoy and come back to it. Some days are great and some not so much but at least I’m not paying to travel or for accommodation.

I think the advice from Sultress000 and GucciGang is worth noting too, having debt hanging over your head can be such a big burden and often just facing up to it and speaking to someone who can give you advice on how to help manage it can be a relief in itself.

I hope you manage to find a way through whatever you choose to do x

sexygirl10

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Re: I am burnout and I need a way out - help
« Reply #9 on: 07 November 2022, 11:56:57 pm »
Thank you 🙏🏻
I did contact someone today
And I am sleeping on it to see what I will do…

Hopefully tomorrow I will be able to find the best solution for it.

Thank you all girls 🤍