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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: sexygirl10 on 04 November 2022, 02:48:44 pm
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I have been doing this for years and always enjoyed my work - the odd stupid clients that we all have.
This year however have been weird, I tried touring many times and all went wrong, every tour it’s an expense and sometimes getting nothing of it.
My civvy work experience is close to zero.
I have debit atm
Loads of it.
Don’t even have a limit on my credit card anymore which has been saving me for the few past months that I haven’t been able to turn a profit on my job.
I am seriously sad and desperate. Can anyone that has been on the same situation tell me where can I get help?
My friend told me to go to job centre, but just my tax bill monthly is £1500
How can they help?
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Ps: *if I am posting on the wrong area please fell free to move it.
** ladies this job is great and I loved it and made great money till last year, so I am not saying anything bad about it, is just that is possible my time to retire.
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Hi, I think it might help to speak to a debt advice charity /advice line and explain everything.
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Step change free debt advice. And then the job centre maybe to do some courses to get you into mainstream work and do this evenings and weekends as a top up.
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Thank you 🙏🏻
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Thank you 🙏🏻
Will check them out
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Maybe stop touring and start doing cam and phone chat x.
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I will look into it
Thank you 🙏🏻
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Good luck x.
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Maybe stop touring and start doing cam and phone chat x.
I did this last year when I wasn’t able to work for various reasons and if you can be motivated with yourself to put in the hours, it’s can be a great earner on cam. I am going through similar feelings of burnout again so doing my last tour in December for a while and will return to cam to work around new commitments. I’m not saying I’m retiring from escorting completely, just focusing on other things for a while instead of putting myself under the same pressure or headaches I get while touring and I’ll see where I’m at again in a few months.
I found the good thing about cam was that if I wasn’t mentally in the right headspace, I could switch off, do something I enjoy and come back to it. Some days are great and some not so much but at least I’m not paying to travel or for accommodation.
I think the advice from Sultress000 and GucciGang is worth noting too, having debt hanging over your head can be such a big burden and often just facing up to it and speaking to someone who can give you advice on how to help manage it can be a relief in itself.
I hope you manage to find a way through whatever you choose to do x
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Thank you 🙏🏻
I did contact someone today
And I am sleeping on it to see what I will do…
Hopefully tomorrow I will be able to find the best solution for it.
Thank you all girls 🤍