I love the idea of sex for pleasure but it is exceedingly rare that I find one attractive enough to even contemplate doing for free.

There was one guy I struck up a friendship with but whereas I like him as a person I just do not fancy him and there has to be enough physical chemistry so it is pointless.  I am having a lonely phase at the minute as feeling a bit rundown from the hayfever season but I just don't wish to drop my standards and get involved.

As we see so many men I think my standards of physical attractiveness and hygiene are now quite high.  Even a hint of bad breath and I am totally put off since I see so many like that.  Hairy bushes down below ain't my thing either I met up with this guy but he hadn't even bothered to shave and that is a big no no for me.  Totally offputting sadly.  He had promised to shave but then didn't get round to it ....  Anyway we were only fumbling in his car so I didn't lose too much time or energy over it.

I think the job makes us even more intolerant of men if they are unattractive or smell as we get that in the job so we don't seek it outside work!!  I think the old me might have put up with some of these characteristics if I found them engaging company etc.  Now I just don't bother.  All ingredients have to be there these days and none are around who fit the bill.  It is also inordinately difficult to find one who can accept me as an escort.

Anyway I will get over the hayfever and cheer up soon but I do feel I have gone very fussy.

I still harbour hopes of finding one suitable one fine day but ain't going to just take anybody on just for the sake of a companion.

I think this recent one I would have only ended up carrying him he had too many personal problems.

Well back to thinking what an earth am I doing dealing with these for. 

  I always attract victims my friends are often telling me!

You don't have to tell them when you're just "dating".  Maybe, you're a little like me, worry about what's too far ahead as I tend to do.  If you tell random men that you escort, they think you're loaded (even if we are not) and may try to use you like your friends say, jokingly.  But I get what you mean, health problems and escorting.   If it isn't the right time, you'll know it.    xx

Bfs and escorting aint for me either. I dont trust guys i meet who say they want to date me. I think they are after free sex. I would have to meet a guy not through escorting if he was to become a bf. But i am so distrusting of men now i know that most ive seen are married x

yup see the ring and thing whyyyyy
ive had a guy whos wife was so fed up she was in the other room and just let it happen

Wow I could imagine her having a glass of wine saying fuck him lol.