Them wanting to rub their cocks on me is a huge warning sign as I know what's coming next .
They think by doing it gradually we will just accept one day .
Nope .

One today I was in two minds if to do him or not as he looked weird in his profile photo plus made booking on aw without asking me , as I only had undesirables messaging most of the morning I thought I see him , He arrived and I got bad vibes off him straightaway, he booked a hour seemed like a eternity the first 10 mins , he ignored some of my chat during massage just silence , I couldn’t relate to him like other punters there was no connection fuckall , he fumbling around like a teen would first time  they had a pussy in front of them , he had round 1 finished quick and decided not stay the hour was pissed at lose some of dosh but glad to get him fucked off out my yard ,

Just because he finished quickly and decided not to stay doesn't automatically entitle him to any of his cash back.
Did you take the money for the hour booking before getting down to business Jadine?

Yes I did ,
I am going try stop being a soft touch I gave it back a few times to them not had it for ages only the last two weeks.
He thinks I’m going to leave fb he can fuck off
What’s there to say any good about him? Except he put me on edge , He was weird , boring and strange , seemed desperate for his fb asked few times,  as he not got any I haven’t filled the fb in as I do not want him leaving me a shit one if I do him first .

It was his decision to leave, you didn't kick him out early so in that position I wouldn't have given him money back, it's a business after all.
Maybe put something on your profile to the effect that if they decide to leave early there is no refund?
Likewise with feedback, you are not obliged to leave any and as you say, you can't think of anything positive to say about him so no point in lying and potentially putting other escorts through an excrutiating time with him by implying he's a good client.
Maybe he is so desperate for feedback because others have picked up on the same weird vibe you got from him initially and he struggles to get bookings accepted.
You can delete his booking from your bookings page and that way it will just show as non confirmed "feedback only" if he does leave any for you and not positive or negative if you are worried about that.

I had one earlier turn up, walk straight past me into my (carpeted) bedroom before I could ask him to remove his shoes, had no idea what my fees or services were or that you need to ask for anal when booking if you want it (which I always thought anybody with a basic grasp of biology would be able to figure out even they couldn't be arsed to read an ad), told me it was a shame I didn't do reverse oral as he was 'really good at it' and shoved his fingers so roughly into my vagina I asked him if he thought he was going to find a Cadillac in there if he dug deep enough.

Then we had intrusive personal questions, more hacking and battering away at my bits until I was pretty much numb from the waist down and a request to 'come' as if it was a matter of just switching something on, like a bedside lamp. The whole thing completely threw me because I get this stuff so incredibly rarely - the bloke was perfectly amenable but absolutely without a clue (although it was telling that he couldn't get his head around the idea that Adultwork isn't the centre of the universe and had no idea there were a zillion or so other places to advertise). The reason it threw me has just clicked; I relocated a couple of hundred miles to get away from bookings like this but before I did they were pretty much a daily thing, and up until today I hadn't realised how successful that move was in doing just that .

Well the freak
Who I mentioned wanting his dosh back after not want a hour with me and hounding me for fb , the cheeky cunt only had been to someone else the same day and paid her more she charge more than my prices , I left him on his fb  said I wasn’t leaving him a good fb as he cheeky want some cash back then go elsewhere , god in heaven knows what the fuck went on in her head she left him a good one , I know I’m not shit as I have good fb so I don’t know who the fuck he thinks he is .

There's a potential thread in this (I moved 200 miles in the reverse direction), but could be a bit inflammatory!

I know. I can't believe I accepted that crap as normal barely two years ago (although it was rare I had to ask people to take off their shoes before walking into a carpeted bedroom; this one was obviously just a pig). I didn't even mention everything, like the bellowing my flat number out loud as he walked into the building and ignoring my directions when I told him which floor to go to.

There was the thoroughly nasty undertone beneath the nice-as-pie-on-the-surface act - no care or respect whatsoever for me, my flat, my terms or anything else. Hopefully that was it for another eighteen months .

Well-spoken, cute, 30 year old, suited and booted, pecked me on both cheeks. He jizzed on my boobs for 10 minutes then left. He texted me his thanks, so polite.

Had guy book for 1/2 hour. (Oral only). He walked in my front room, threw the money on the table, presented me with his pathetic todger and told me to suck him.
Every time I 'came up for air' he told me to keep sucking. 29 minutes into the affray he CIM. I have bloody lock jaw.  Not the nicest of bookings.

Feel for you Tina.This is why I don't do oral-only gigs.
He was rude and abusive from the start. Personally I would have kicked him out, but rent comes first sometimes, I understand.