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saltysweet

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #2640 on: 23 May 2021, 11:12:33 am »
Booking to go to a swingers club.
He was rubbish, meanwhile I was totally in the “swing” of things. Tempted to put a warning that if they want to book me for these they have to be sure they can keep up.
Don’t think he’ll be booking again despite me encouragement.
Not my fault he stood there like a lemon.

Glad you had fun.
He brought you to the gig then you were the star :) Did he get a steak streak of jealousy?
« Last Edit: 24 May 2021, 11:34:12 pm by saltysweet »

fallen angel

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« Reply #2641 on: 23 May 2021, 12:14:34 pm »
Exactly Fallen Angel, I told him I havent had sex for myself in 2 years now as this is work to me, he also said can I call you **** now, I said absolutely not! Again, this is work! Well he won’t be calling me anything as I won’t be seeing him again for his lack of politeness and for mocking my shyness.

Pleased to hear you've blocked his rude ass.
I think his behaviour also stemmed from jealousy thinking that any guy you decided to meet on there would be getting your lovely company for free and he is having to pay for it. He clearly didn't like the fact that it points to him not being on your radar if he isn't handing over cash, crushing to his ego.
As someone else said, if and when you give it another go, and why shouldn't you, best not to use your real name or a nickname connected to your work life. Also don't use any pics that appear on your work profile either.
Always best to keep all aspects of your personal life separate, as this nasty incident proved.

SamLilly

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« Reply #2642 on: 23 May 2021, 01:41:34 pm »
Glad you had fun.
He brought you to the gig then you were the star :) Did he get a steak of jealousy?

Had another couple approach me after to swap numbers. I think he just felt awkward and didn’t know how to engage. My first time too but at least I dived in literally.

Then again think it’s easier for women. He felt like the woman in channel 4 documentary about the swingers club down south. Teddy out because no one wanted to play. Meanwhile I’m going hold my towel . .

Maz

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« Reply #2643 on: 23 May 2021, 08:53:18 pm »
Had another couple approach me after to swap numbers. I think he just felt awkward and didn’t know how to engage. My first time too but at least I dived in literally.

You're making me jealous :( my local has recently shut down. I need to pay a visit somewhere but will be client free  ;D

SamLilly

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« Reply #2644 on: 23 May 2021, 09:23:41 pm »
You're making me jealous :( my local has recently shut down. I need to pay a visit somewhere but will be client free  ;D

You so need to as you are just down the M1 from me. Give me a shout if you want more info.

Ended up telling fella and he was howling that someone paid to take me. Think we are back on Friday and I’ve just emailed to get on the guest list. Couples only but can be 2 x FF

fallen angel

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« Reply #2645 on: 23 May 2021, 09:27:35 pm »
You're making me jealous :( my local has recently shut down. I need to pay a visit somewhere but will be client free  ;D

What!? You mean your working life doesn't totally fulfill you sexually!??  Shock horror!   ;D
It so pisses me off that clients can't see the difference between servicing them ( that's work)  and interacting with men we actually fancy and want to fuck.

Maz

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« Reply #2646 on: 24 May 2021, 08:26:55 am »
What!? You mean your working life doesn't totally fulfill you sexually!??  Shock horror!   ;D
It so pisses me off that clients can't see the difference between servicing them ( that's work)  and interacting with men we actually fancy and want to fuck.

I know, a lot of them can't get that it's just smoke and mirrors most of the time.  ::)

Maz

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« Reply #2647 on: 24 May 2021, 03:43:59 pm »
Had one today whose BO was so awful I had to open the windows wide afterwards and sprayed half a can of deodorant.

This guy wants to take me to a restaurant and fuck in the car after. How much would you charge? He says as it's Michelin star it would cost £200 for the restaurant and asks if that's enough
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SamLilly

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« Reply #2648 on: 24 May 2021, 06:34:37 pm »
Had one today whose BO was so awful I had to open the windows wide afterwards and sprayed half a can of deodorant.

This guy wants to take me to a restaurant and fuck in the car after. How much would you charge? He says as it's Michelin star it would cost £200 for the restaurant and asks if that's enough

Posh restaurant then fuck in the car. What a gent!

Maz

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« Reply #2649 on: 24 May 2021, 06:41:23 pm »
Posh restaurant then fuck in the car. What a gent!

 ;D I know. Wondering why I'm even considering it

saltysweet

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« Reply #2650 on: 24 May 2021, 07:29:24 pm »
Meanwhile I’m going hold my towel . .

 ;D

This guy wants to take me to a restaurant and fuck in the car after. How much would you charge? He says as it's Michelin star it would cost £200 for the restaurant and asks if that's enough
The cost of dinner's none of your business, they can be paying £500 per chip. Not my problem. I'd still charge my outcall fee per hr from start to finish. He doesn't sound that serious with that attitude I think.


« Last Edit: 24 May 2021, 07:39:44 pm by saltysweet »

English Green

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« Reply #2651 on: 24 May 2021, 07:32:22 pm »
;D I know. Wondering why I'm even considering it

If his BO was that bad resulting in Windows open and most of the air freshner used up i would prefer not to accept the booking as would be embarrassed. Plus restaurants seem to be taking full name and addresses of anyone going in. Discretion might be a problem.

fallen angel

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #2652 on: 24 May 2021, 09:52:38 pm »
;D I know. Wondering why I'm even considering it

SS is right, whatever he is paying for the meal has no impact on your fee so whatever your usual rate for an outcall for however many hours is what you should charge him.
Sounds a bit of a cheapskate wanting to fuck in the car afterwards, the meal will probably be on expenses anyway for all you know.

fallen angel

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« Reply #2653 on: 24 May 2021, 10:07:37 pm »
If his BO was that bad resulting in Windows open and most of the air freshner used up i would prefer not to accept the booking as would be embarrassed. Plus restaurants seem to be taking full name and addresses of anyone going in. Discretion might be a problem.

I don't think restaurants are actually checking IDs of customers. Some I've visited just give a slip of paper and ask you to fill it in or most are happy for you to use the NHS app on your phone to scan thier QR code. It's just to cover their their backs really to prove they are sticking to track and trace guidelines, they don't really care who you are.

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« Reply #2654 on: 25 May 2021, 04:42:34 am »
I needed to come on here for a rant  :FF

Just finished a booking with someone who Iv previously seen 3 times and half way through the booking with literally his whole penis in my mouth he said ‘wellll guess who I found on bumble(dating site) the other day?’ ‘Hello **** (insert real name)’ it was a slight moment of madness for me which I removed myself from the site after 2 days as it’s not really for me. But I just thought, what a jerk!! Could you not of kept it to yourself? Or mentioned it at the end of the booking if you really couldn’t help yourself? I was clearly uncomfortable too so I kept giving him a BJ trying to ignore it and he said ‘awww why are you going red’ whilst sniggering.. well durr?! I’m clearly uncomfortable by you calling me by my real name and a little embarrassed so can we just ignore it and finish the booking.

I couldn’t get him out quick enough, some men are so clueless and have no people skills whatsoever, well that has taught me not to try dating sites anyway as you never know who is on the other side of the screen

That's horrible and that is one of the things that worries me about Internet dating.
I just have pictures of myself not my friends or kids, and I don't use any pics that could identify me elsewhere like on social media, not that I use social media much, but still I am very cautious about Internet dating sites for this reason.

If I were in that situation I think my anxiety would go through the roof.


Posh restaurant then fuck in the car. What a gent!

That's basically marriage material right there.