Just wondered what were views on dating sites particularly when escorting, particularly after my recent experience.
Escort clients treat me respectfully pay and do 'what it says on the tin'. So why every so often even though I haven't got time for a relationship do I go on one of the dating sites? I need to resolve this as it's messing with my head - one day I can't see the need or use for a permanent relationship, a week later I find myself still hankering for high romance, companionship and someone to make plans with....help I think that I'm going mad.
Your not going mad !!! I relate to this..I tried dating sites and it was a pretty depressing experience to be honest...Most of the guys are attached and looking for FWB , or the genuine singles i just did'nt fancy the look of ( like the ones who dont smile and have a avatar that looks like a police mugshot) . I also had quite a few clients and casual AW pervers ( who ive never met) sending me PM's along the lines of
" oh , your the escort ofgf AW!!! Can i take you out , il pay for drink n meal and can we fuck after please as i bet your a reet dirty bitch , ive always wanted to fuck an escort" ( for free ...cheeky cheapstakes) ....Oh , such charming romance ...NOT !!!
Dont give up looking for love though...Ive got a lovley BF now that I met local , and we were good friends for a long time before getting romantic...So dont give up hope....Im actually gradually tapering off doing "GFE" /Full sex with clients and trying to build up my Mistress/Fetish work , as Id like to get to the point where i can "save myself " sexually just for him. ...The ironic thing is that if id of seen him on a dating site i'd of not looked twice as he is not my usual type looks wise ( he is tall , skinny n bald , lol) and i used to go for stocky guys with nice hair! ...BUt I got to know him the old fashioned "courting" way and now I think he is the sexiest man ever ...Even though he is skinny he is very well "cut" muscles and nice six pack:) As well as being a very polite , intelligent , respectful and all round "nice" young man. ...( big cock too
) ha ha ha !!! and he is a really good cook! And hes got a very sexy voice ( posh southern ---polar opposite to my not very posh broad yorkshire) ...
......AHem , I wont bore you all anymore about "loverboy" , think im a bit in love with him
but the point is
Dont give up hope !!
And beware of clients seeing you on dating sites , especially the ones with your real first name and FB pics showing , they can "tineye" search your pics and find out your real ID , so play safe.