Meeting the right one online is good but having to sieve through many to hit it off requires patience and is off putting thinking about it in my free time. That wasted time would rather earn. The predicament is well xy and z took up xamount of time that  became nothing and missed xamount of bookings for them. For absolutely nothing. At least escorting brings money, failed dates don't more like have lost income wasted energy.

A lot of my friends who still use okcupid use a plugin you can get on google chrome called 'OkCupid (for the Non-Mainstream User)' - it basically has a little summary at the top showing what a person is like depending on their answers to certain questions.. so it has labels like 'non-monogamous' 'LGBT' 'sex-positive' you can choose which ones you want it to show you at the top of their profile. Immediately rules out the people who aren't sex positive

Hihi how did it go on you date last weekend DocklandStacy? Did you sex him up?

The decision whether to date or not when know will lose money and if that date will lead to any thing doubt it. There is some thing that cannot jump in saying oh yeah I forgot to mention about me sucking cock for a living. And do very well at this horny thing. Nope that will not go down a treat doubt it. Complications some times it's better whoring and not dating. If out of this no secrets apart from past whoring that will be with me for eternity. Goodness me a long time.

Just wondered what were views on dating sites particularly when escorting, particularly after my recent experience.


Escort clients treat me respectfully pay and do 'what it says on the tin'. So why every so often even though I haven't got time for a relationship do I go on one of the dating sites? I need to resolve this as it's messing with my head - one day I can't see the need or use for a permanent relationship, a week later I find myself still hankering for high romance, companionship and someone to make plans with....help I think that I'm going mad.

Your not going mad !!! I relate to this..I tried dating sites and it was a  pretty depressing experience to be honest...Most of the guys are attached and looking for FWB  , or the genuine singles i just did'nt fancy the look of ( like the ones who dont smile and have a avatar that looks like a police mugshot) .  I also had quite a few clients and casual AW pervers ( who ive never met) sending me PM's along the lines of

" oh , your the escort ofgf AW!!! Can i take you out , il pay for drink n meal and can we fuck after please as i bet your a reet dirty bitch , ive always wanted to fuck an escort"  ( for free ...cheeky cheapstakes) ....Oh , such charming romance ...NOT !!!

Dont give up looking for love though...Ive got  a lovley BF now that I met local , and we were good friends for a long time before getting romantic...So dont give up hope....Im actually gradually tapering off doing "GFE" /Full sex with clients and trying to build up my Mistress/Fetish work , as Id like to get to the point where i can "save myself " sexually just for him. ...The ironic  thing is that if id of seen him on a dating site i'd of not looked twice as he is not my usual type looks wise ( he is tall , skinny n bald , lol) and i used to go for stocky guys with nice hair! ...BUt I got to know him the old fashioned "courting" way and now I think he is the sexiest man ever ...Even though he is skinny he is very well "cut" muscles and nice six pack:)  As well as being a very polite , intelligent  , respectful and all round "nice" young man. ...( big cock too  ) ha ha ha !!!  and he is a really good cook! And hes got a very sexy voice ( posh southern ---polar opposite to my not very posh broad yorkshire) ...

......AHem , I wont bore you all anymore about "loverboy" , think im a bit in love with him   but the point is

Dont give up hope !!

And beware of clients seeing you on dating sites , especially the ones with your real first name and FB pics showing , they can "tineye" search your pics and find out your real ID , so play safe.

Just recalled one sad little eejit off POF who decided he could have a go at "threatening" me into going and giving him sex , because he knew me from AW ( not a client , just a sad knacker on't dole with nowt better to do than browse escorts he will never afford all day )  ...He lives on a local council estate where I actually know some quite "naughty" lads , so im like " yes lets meet" and as predicted the coward ran off never to be seen of or heard again...Not a very mature way of dealing with the situ , but I refuse to be threatened by some no-mark like him....PLus these lads who i know wouldnt of touched him , just a little "warning " to show that im not "all alone" and vunerable, you know?

Idiots like that seem to think that all escorts must be sad lonely desperate addicts with no life ,  or friends , who are going to "roll over" and give in to threats because we've all been beaten n used by men all our lives !!...yawn .... Blah , blah ...you know the drill girls.... "that " sort of un-informed , uneducated idiot is ten a penny.

Well , i proved him wrong.

But yeah , thats one of the not so nice "dating site" experiences.

The dating sites in my experience have largely only attracted saddos and those who are just players.  If they are going to play they may as well pay me for it and by and large if a guy has the balls to do a punt then he has balls fullstop.  They seem to have much more character and depth than those on the dating sites.  Like I say it is only in my own experience but I have found the difference totally striking!

Amazing isn't it.

Agree !!!

Society looks down on punters as "saddos" and "perverts" , but the calibre IS better with punters than the dating site crowd....Ive heard that the sites you pay for , EG = E-Harmony have more genuine guys "looking for love" on them than the free ones such as POF. Tinder etc....Those sites I was disappointed with.

Saw a funny profile on tinder , a young guy had wrote " prostitutes , hookers , whatever you call yourselves these days  , STOP in-boxing me!" . Turns out theres a lot of WG looking for business on those sites.

I couldn't operate like that...Its being deceitful...Why not just stick to the established hooker sites rather than harrass men  on a dating site that might not be too open minded about hookers ?

I'd never look for business on a dating website - like others have said, it's just deceitful.

I joined a dating site after moving to London (it's a big, lonely place) and met some lovely people and 3 partners, including my current one. Similar to escorting you learn to pick out the timewasters, prats and ones just after sex very quickly. A lot of my friends use dating websites now (most of them are queer, trans, bisexual, poly) and it allows them to connect and meet other people who are okay with that rather than risk meeting someone randomly and them freaking out about it nearly everyone I know has used dating websites at some point but then they're all fairly sexually liberal and don't manipulate a person by making them wait for sex to see if they're really interested or expect a person to take them out for expensive meals and buy things for them. I slept with all my partners the first time we met because I wanted to.