Thanks for all your advise ,yes ive given 1 months notice but i can change my mind ,i wont be taking any belongings with me i dont want the expence of storage or moving items ,as i dont drive i have my separate home so its enough financially to keep the wolf from the door at home ,pets ,bills ,every day living ,so im going to try to remain positive and fingers crossed for all us ladys in our tough times xxx And thankyou all