Some people have a 'I can't get enough' work persona, of course, and anyone who has done swinging knows that some women are very into anonymous sex.

Anyone offering GFE is selling an illusion to some extent, so why be surprised that some people fall for it?

Quote from: KayHerts on 06 January 2016, 11:05:25 pm

Just speaking for myself, I don't find it all bizarre that a client would expect a prostitute to enjoy sex - it's hardly a line of work someone who didn't would take up, surely? You might not enjoy sex with them, or indeed every client, but I don't think it's delusional to think that we might have higher than normal sex drives. I do. If I was a vegetarian, I wouldn't go and work in a butcher's!

I didn't take up this job to enjoy sex. All I was thinking about at the start was the money. I still do now. And no, I know of women who would rather read a book and fall asleep than have sex and they are still prostitutes.  Saying that, if i was vegetarian I would still go work in the butchers. I am not working there to go eat meat just to make money. You have to do what you have to do. It's not delusional to think we have higher than normal sex drives but it's delusional to think that we all enjoy it with them specifically (which would mean being aroused by them) when the majority of us don't. I have a high sex drive in my normal life (which is slowly decreasing due to this job) but when in work mode I zone out and for that time I'm with them my mind is in mars. But I take them saying "oh you are really horny blah blah blah) as a complement as it just means I am a superb actress.

Quote from: Jessica201 on 07 January 2016, 02:28:27 am

Quote from: KayHerts on 06 January 2016, 11:05:25 pm

Just speaking for myself, I don't find it all bizarre that a client would expect a prostitute to enjoy sex - it's hardly a line of work someone who didn't would take up, surely? You might not enjoy sex with them, or indeed every client, but I don't think it's delusional to think that we might have higher than normal sex drives. I do. If I was a vegetarian, I wouldn't go and work in a butcher's!

I didn't take up this job to enjoy sex. All I was thinking about at the start was the money. I still do now. And no, I know of women who would rather read a book and fall asleep than have sex and they are still prostitutes.  Saying that, if i was vegetarian I would still go work in the butchers. I am not working there to go eat meat just to make money. You have to do what you have to do. It's not delusional to think we have higher than normal sex drives but it's delusional to think that we all enjoy it with them specifically (which would mean being aroused by them) when the majority of us don't. I have a high sex drive in my normal life (which is slowly decreasing due to this job) but when in work mode I zone out and for that time I'm with them my mind is in mars. But I take them saying "oh you are really horny blah blah blah) as a complement as it just means I am a superb actress.

But true vegetarians wouldn't work in a Butchers since they wouldn't agree with the killing or consuming of animals, any vegetarian that works in a Butchers can't be a true one in my eyes.

Personally I could never ever do a job I don't enjoy no matter how much money, it would impact on my life and would depress me, I had a job in retail before I escorted and I hated it and ended up leaving because I got depressed working all those long hours and being practically shat on for such shit pay. I'm sure there are women out there who can do jobs they don't enjoy and make it look as though they enjoy it but personally I couldn't and I'm amazed at others who can do it.

Escorting for me is a job yes but it's also fun with a bonus of extra pay for me. If escorting is impacting on your normal sex life I would say you probably need a long break.

I think that's a pretty loaded way of putting it - there's a big difference between 'enjoying yourself' (or even enjoying sex) and getting actual physical or sexual gratification from it. As far as I'm concerned the latter isn't going to happen just because Joe Punter and his penis have had a bath and turned up on time, but that doesn't mean I won't thoroughly enjoy their company for an hour or whatever.

I don't think most punters are dumb enough to think that we're all reduced to a damp knickered mess at the thought of a shag, at least not in my experience. That doesn't mean they want to have sex with somebody who's hating every second because that isn't the same thing either and to be honest, even if their chosen prossie is hating every second (even if it's just because she's got a headache or is hungry or needs a poo) then provided their paid experience isn't affected by it that - along with whatever else is going on inside her head - is none of their business. Handing over cash doesn't give anybody the right to control what we think or how we feel.

But some of them sure do think it does! How about the guys who almost demand that you enjoy yourself or spend ages trying to give an orgasm?

Quote from: xw5 on 07 January 2016, 12:39:18 pm

Quote from: Nova on 07 January 2016, 11:33:40 am

But some of them sure do think it does! How about the guys who almost demand that you enjoy yourself or spend ages trying to give an orgasm?

If it's possible it will happen, guidance as to how to do that.

If it's not, either lying and eventually faking it, or distraction 'I want to suck your cock'-style.

For my part, I just gently tell them that I take so long that we'd waste an entire booking on me, and then refocus the entire thing on them again.

DW, vegetarianism or veganism concerns what somebody eats (and to some extent wears), not their personal beliefs or what they do for a living; some people just don't like meat. I know one vegan chef and I've worked in food retail with several vegetarians, including at one butchers; what you're talking about (and the part which relates to this) are people who can't or don't want to separate work from their personal feelings. As the old sayng goes, principles are great if you can afford them .

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Why people think we're any different is a mystery to me too, and whilst nodding politely is part of my job I've pointed out to a few punters (usually when it's assumed that if I'm busy or unavailable it's because I'm having sex with somebody else rather than at the cinema or doing my shopping, or whatever) that I'm as ordinary as anybody else.