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lauralashes

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Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« on: 18 August 2009, 11:01:31 am »
Reading stories of clients you've bumped into in the real world whilst out with their partner/family and them also visiting us with their wedding ring still on, do you ever wonder if you can trust a man in the real world?

Most of my clients are married or in a relationship and a couple have told me about their kids and family life which, every time I hear I think "why are you here when you can be with your wife?"

I'm single at the moment but I would probably find it difficult to start a relationship knowing what I know now i.e. most guys are selfish individuals, that want every woman to satisfy there one need and will, no doubt, cheat given have the chance!
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #1 on: 18 August 2009, 12:06:39 pm »
Hmm, you could look at the various 'My partner doesn't know' posts here and say the same thing about women :)

Honesty in a relationship does not necessarily mean monogamy.
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #2 on: 18 August 2009, 12:45:18 pm »
Well yes he could be with his wife. However she has to put up with him for 30 years whereas an escort only has to for an hour! Just separate it from real life. There are plenty of great guys out there, just avoid guys under 30 and you will be ok!
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #3 on: 18 August 2009, 02:51:47 pm »
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #4 on: 19 August 2009, 12:17:51 am »
No
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BurlesqueHoney

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #5 on: 19 August 2009, 12:42:17 am »
Maybe, maybe not but I can have a close, meaningful and loving relationship with his wallet in the meantime....   ;D
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #6 on: 19 August 2009, 08:53:29 am »
Quote from: BurlesqueHoney on 19 August 2009, 12:42:17 am
Maybe, maybe not but I can have a close, meaningful and loving relationship with his wallet in the meantime....   ;D

sweet. Victory.   ;)

I also side with Cindy on it. And for a moment it made me think, wow 30 years is a long time. I know this is a bit of tangent, but I think too many gay men just lack the brain cell which straight men posess to stick with one woman for longer than a couple of weeks, or months. And then when one guy tries to withold sex, they get irritable and angry. And then when the guy does get the sex, they disappear. And with 2 gay guys, its hard enough to say no to sex. Its so frustrating. I may have to result to wanking off before each and every date until after a few months has passed. That way I wont be tempted to have sex no matter what LOL.

Escorting is fun, but for crying out loud, I want to have sex with men Im crazy about too. It makes it worse when the town I live in lacks the type of men Im into.
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #7 on: 22 August 2009, 02:44:33 pm »
Its difficult but there are good people out there

frog and princes etc etc

Took me over 30 years to find a good one!!!!
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Violette

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #8 on: 23 August 2009, 06:14:17 pm »
No basically you can't trust them, this is the voice of a woman who has 2 BFs talking. Not to mention what I have to put up with at work on a daily basis, I figured out it isn't because their wives don't have sex with them, she does, that my clients are seeing escorts, one reason is because when we are with them, they are the center of the universe. Once the wife has kids, the husbands needs just aren't that damn important, and some men have a hard time adjusting to this lose.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #9 on: 23 August 2009, 10:06:26 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 23 August 2009, 06:14:17 pm
No basically you can't trust them, this is the voice of a woman who has 2 BFs talking.

Neither of which know about the other. Which just means we as women can't be trusted either. That's just human nature.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #10 on: 23 August 2009, 10:37:33 pm »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 23 August 2009, 10:06:26 pm
Neither of which know about the other. Which just means we as women can't be trusted either. That's just human nature.

Whew, that was a snappy comment LOL. But it is true, men nor women can be trusted. Escorts cant be trusted either just like clients. However, I think i'd trust a client more than an escort LOL. This is just a dark, shiesty world we live in. Its been said to 'not put your trust in men'...

I dont find myself wanting or not wanting a relationship any less than before I escorted. I dated cheaters and liars before I escorted, I still end up with them on practically every date. Fuck that, When the time comes, or the right guy comes along...he will be too into you to cheat on a regular basis. Theres also the 'open relationship' or 'swingers' option, which seems to work for many.
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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #11 on: 23 August 2009, 10:48:02 pm »
Quote from: JoeyR on 23 August 2009, 10:37:33 pm

Whew, that was a snappy comment LOL. But it is true, men nor women can be trusted. Escorts cant be trusted either just like clients. However, I think i'd trust a client more than an escort LOL. This is just a dark, shiesty world we live in. Its been said to 'not put your trust in men'...

I dont find myself wanting or not wanting a relationship any less than before I escorted. I dated cheaters and liars before I escorted, I still end up with them on practically every date. Fuck that, When the time comes, or the right guy comes along...he will be too into you to cheat on a regular basis. Theres also the 'open relationship' or 'swingers' option, which seems to work for many.

I wasn't having a pop at Violette, honestly. I just found it ironic that to prove a point that men can't be trusted she mentions her two boyfriends, which, from reading past posts, do know nothing about each other.

It is human nature. We're as bad as each other. No one gender can claim the moral high ground. Do you know how many escorts out there who do this job behind their husband's/partner's backs? They may do it for altruistic reasons, thinking it's going to devastate them if they find out, but by the pure actions they take in hiding this job from them, proves how devious we as women can, or have to be.

I hear all the reasons why men cheat on their wives/partners with escorts. And yes, it has made me cynical that they're all liars and cheats. But in doing this job and hiding it from our husbands, so are we. It's just a different side of the coin.
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Violette

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #12 on: 23 August 2009, 11:27:04 pm »
The original question was can men be trusted, it should have been can people in general be trusted, and the answer is no, neither women nor men can be trusted, we are all human, and with that as the pedigree under which we fly, we are  ALL selfish, cliquish, clanish and tribal! And will always strive to get the advantage either for ourselves, offspring, family or community. It is how we are. But hey, I am ok with that.  ;)
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #13 on: 23 August 2009, 11:58:10 pm »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 23 August 2009, 10:48:02 pm
But in doing this job and hiding it from our husbands, so are we. It's just a different side of the coin.

I thought your husband knew  ???
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Can you really trust a man in the real world?
« Reply #14 on: 24 August 2009, 07:02:51 am »
Quote from: JoeyR on 23 August 2009, 11:58:10 pm
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 23 August 2009, 10:48:02 pm
But in doing this job and hiding it from our husbands, so are we. It's just a different side of the coin.

I thought your husband knew  ???

Yes, he does. I was generalising, with a little bit of empathy thrown in.
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