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Fallingstar

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Can you ever win???
« on: 21 July 2009, 08:24:55 am »
Had a client in for an incall yesterday who had gotton my details off Adultwork.

At the end of the booking he mentioned that he hadn't been sure if i would actually be the girl in my photographs when he turned up! i asked him why and he told me that my photos were almost too nice and too professional looking and he had thought they might be fake!

So instead of thinking 'there is a fairly attractive girl who has taken the time to find a good photographer to take some nice photos' his first thought was 'they must be false pics'

Honestly,you cant do right for doing wrong in this job sometimes can you? If i had amateur pics on i would no doubt be getting comments about needing to get some proper ones taken and when i have nice ones on people think they aren't me!

Clients really are a paranoid bunch sometimes aren't they? i had another a few days ago begging for me to send a picture to his phone because the 10 or so photographs i have on my website weren't quite enough to convince him that i was a size 8 and not an 18 (his words not mine,no offence intended) In the end i cancelled his booking cos he seemed like such an irritating person i couldnt stand the thought of spending time with him.

Anyone Else's find clients saying things like this? hopefully it isn't just me :-\

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #1 on: 21 July 2009, 08:34:12 am »
Ah...ha...ha...Haaaaaaaaaaaaa

You know what Colette, me and you have alot in common LOL. I was just thinking about this myself! I have used super-professional photos and still get the 'are those your photos' and then I've used crappy ones and gotten the, "you need better photos".

So I was thinking, what may be the solution for this is to use professional and ameutur ones in the same profile. It neednt be with a camera phone, but something good with a webcam or self-taken one. I have found using a bit of ameteur photos to work just as good, sometimes even better than professional ones. Especially cause you look better in person than a camera phone would!

I've also seen ads using a mixture of the 2, and now I can see why it was done.

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« Reply #2 on: 21 July 2009, 11:33:44 am »
I can sympathise with the clients in this case. A lot of people do lift pictures from magazines and porn sites, and even when professional pictures show the real person, the way they're shot and edited can be quite deceptive. My solution is what Joey says; I keep a mix of professional and amateur pictures on my site.

If you're using adultwork though, why not just upload a verification picture?

brandy@saafe

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #3 on: 21 July 2009, 12:12:24 pm »
i had another a few days ago begging for me to send a picture to his phone because the 10 or so photographs i have on my website weren't quite enough to convince him that i was a size 8 and not an 18 (his words not mine,no offence intended) In the end i cancelled his booking cos he seemed like such an irritating person i couldnt stand the thought of spending time with him.


That's just a ploy to get you to send more pictures of yourself. What would the difference be between the pics on your site and what you would've sent?
I reckon he had no intention of booking you. He's a pic collector.
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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #4 on: 21 July 2009, 03:41:16 pm »
I hire an amateur photographer but have the photos taken in a studio, and mention this on my site.  The balance is just about right!  That said, the type of client who accuses you of using fake pictures is not a client you want anyway.  These people want to be disappointed and will always find something.  There is a great deal of information out there on how to spot fake pictures and if a potential client is REALLY worried about that sort of thing then he'll make sure to educate himself accordingly. 

UrbaneAspects

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« Reply #5 on: 21 July 2009, 09:33:21 pm »
Yet, from the photos I'm using at the moment, most of them said it doesn't do me justice..so what can I do?

Do clients say the same thing or what? Someone told me that when I first started and I was kinda offended, but I think a more appropiate answer would be "well it suits me just fine, the photos made YOU hire me didnt you"  ::)  I agree with Brandy too about photo collectors. Why are these men so occupied with what quality photos we have as if they are our personal escorting assistant? Seems like some just want to have your good photos to look at on a daily basis.

Although I'd still go with a combination approach; its not mandatory and any client who feels the need to critique our photos should be told off especially if they liked them enough to hire in the 1st place

Violette

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #6 on: 22 July 2009, 09:44:55 am »
I love my professional pics, but everyone here already knows this. For me professional pics are an investment in myself and my line of work. It is in a way like wearing a nice suite to the office. It shows you are serious and not just some fly-by-night money grabbing hustler. Of course you will get the odd idiot client making stupid comments, but at the end of the day, it is the first impression you are making on the client. I too have tried the amateur pics v/ pro pics. When I had amateur pics up, the amount of guys who would ask for a discount was greater than when I had my pro pics up! So when I work in the UK and advertise in the Sport, I have a website for my little French student Lola, and the pics are the amateur ones. And of course Violette the International Elite Escort/Courtesan has the pro pics and higher prices! Oh and wait, I am about to get another set done for my latest personality.....Jacqueline, who is even more Elite than Violette.  Oh lala! :P

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #7 on: 22 July 2009, 10:40:23 am »
Oh and wait, I am about to get another set done for my latest personality.....Jacqueline, who is even more Elite than Violette.  Oh lala! :P

I can never get enough of Violette's posts...they just crack me up, yet inspire me all at once  :D

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #8 on: 22 July 2009, 11:43:55 am »
It is in a way like wearing a nice suite to the office.

Yes you're right, you can't beat a good sofa suit and armchair hat combo for letting people know you mean business. ;D

brandy@saafe

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #9 on: 22 July 2009, 04:05:55 pm »
Yet, from the photos I'm using at the moment, most of them said it doesn't do me justice..so what can I do?


I would prefer to be told that my pictures don't do me justice and have the client pleasantly suprised that I'm even more gorgeous in the flesh :), than have my pics misrepresent me in some way that the client has such high expectations of me and is therefore disappointed when I walk through the door. I've even been told that I look younger than my pictures, which I can't figure out as I don't show my face. Maybe that's it in itself. Maybe the text part of the site shows a level of maturity that also reflects in the rest of my site. I dunno, I'm just guessing.

Photographs are only a 1 dimensional impression of you. Remember it's the site itself and what you put on it that also leaves an indelible impression of you.


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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #10 on: 22 July 2009, 06:21:24 pm »
It is in a way like wearing a nice suite to the office.

Yes you're right, you can't beat a good sofa suit and armchair hat combo for letting people know you mean business. ;D
Wait till you see the cushions I accessorize with, to die for honey.  :P

UrbaneAspects

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« Reply #11 on: 22 July 2009, 08:54:11 pm »
I would prefer to be told that my pictures don't do me justice and have the client pleasantly suprised that I'm even more gorgeous in the flesh :),

thats very true...And with professional photos although it represents the person closer than an ameteur one; I love the "He's drop dead gorgeous and looks better than those photos!" look on guys. It looks like this  :o

brandy@saafe

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« Reply #12 on: 22 July 2009, 09:49:29 pm »

thats very true...And with professional photos although it represents the person closer than an ameteur one; I love the "He's drop dead gorgeous and looks better than those photos!" look on guys. It looks like this  :o

Pmsl... :D

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #13 on: 23 July 2009, 01:57:04 am »
So when I work in the UK and advertise in the Sport, I have a website for my little French student Lola, and the pics are the amateur ones. And of course Violette the International Elite Escort/Courtesan has the pro pics and higher prices! Oh and wait, I am about to get another set done for my latest personality.....Jacqueline, who is even more Elite than Violette.  Oh lala! :P

I Heart you, I really do  ;D 

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Re: Can you ever win???
« Reply #14 on: 23 July 2009, 11:59:37 am »
Jacqueline, who is even more Elite than Violette.

As every male my age knows, there is nothing higher than Elite.

Mind you, I never got higher than Mostly Harmless...