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Nia Hope

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Soft spots
« on: 09 June 2014, 01:25:43 pm »
I have one regular in particular who gets away with things that other clients wouldn't, not whilst he is with me but other stuff, for example, he wanted to book me today but I'm fully booked, he text me saying "ok I'll try tomorrow, wish I had a picture of you I could wank over, do you have a camera phone?"

Now I'm sure you girls would agree regular or not I'd block a guy for that, but for some reason I know this guy is totally harmless and he is very naive, it's not because he is the best looking man or even spends a lot of money on seeing me but he has been coming for 4 years on and off,

Do any of you girls have a client like this?
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Nia Hope

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Re: Soft spots
« Reply #1 on: 09 June 2014, 01:50:16 pm »
Just wanna add I didn't send him a picture! X
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kinkyboots

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Re: Soft spots
« Reply #2 on: 09 June 2014, 02:24:52 pm »

I've been known to bend a rule or two for a longstanding regular, like doing an out call for the price of an incall and staying 10-15 minutes later than i usually would, having a cup of tea with them afterwards etc. Regulars are our bread and butter so it's good to make them feel as though they are appreciated but i wouldn't send him pictures if he asked because i think that's a cheek (whether intending to be or not) x


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Re: Soft spots
« Reply #3 on: 09 June 2014, 02:27:17 pm »
It's up to you what you provide. I have clients I exchange the occasional message with outside of bookings, however they never impinge on my time, I reply when it's convenient and I generally dislike sending photos, feels to me like a type of intrusion - it's simply not our job to provide entertainment outside of bookings.

Very occasionally I might show a client some photos of me that aren't on my profile, or send a quick preview of one I'm about to upload, but the clients I feel most comfortable with never ask - and to me it feels more natural and fun when I want to send them!