Not young, slim, or blonde?

Well, join the club!

Despite the stereotypes which are forced upon us by society, men really do find all sorts of woman attractive and the pretty young things (PYTs) do not own the escorting market. Variety is the key and if you are attracted to the idea of being paid to entertain men in the bedroom but are worried that you may not be attractive enough because you are too old, too curvy, too goth or too anything else that is not PYT, then think again.

I have seen many a forum post and received a few emails from larger ladies wanting to get into the business but they are worried they will not get any work because of how they look. Well, as an established BBW myself I can categorically tell you that a good living can be made with the right attitude. Plenty of men want curves in the bedroom (even if they can't quite feel brave enough to admit that to their mates or date/marry a bigger girl) and if you are fun, sexy, confident and take a pride in your appearance and value customer service, you will do good business.

The same applies to older ladies who are much sought after and even those of us who are both fat and old, lol! Basically there is a potential market for everyone. The job is not rocket science but nor is it easy money. If you put the effort in, you will be rewarded well in return.

The trick for us more niche escorts is to advertise on the main sites like and and supplement that with advertising on niche sites such as which is specifically aimed at BBWs. There is more about advertising on SAAFE's "Where to Advertise" page. Decide what your Unique Selling Point (USP) is, what will make you stand out from the rest and get to work on promoting it &en; don't try to be all things to all men, none of us are.

Take a look at these sites from established ladies who continue to make a great living and are different from the stereotypes: