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Dani

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Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« on: 17 June 2010, 06:40:14 pm »
0778**75844 not sure of name as my duo partner took the booking.

This guy looks and acts very strange. He wont allow you to touch him and in the duo he apparently just wanted a girlie show. Fair enough we thought until he started acting a bit strange and just staring but not in a nice way and giving orders quite abruptly and rudely. We were half way through the booking when he started to clench his fists in a very threatening manner and I was about to call an end to the meet when he suddenly leapt on my partner from behind and tried forcing himself inside her. We pushed him off and told him to leave as we dont do bareback and he was already informed of this.
His reply was and I quote " I thought I would as you suck cock so it makes no difference".

If there was not two of us there this would have gone alot further as he became very angry and we only managed to get him out by one of us calling our security guys so he left quickly. He is white about 5' 7 at a guess 30 - 40 and 18 - 19 n half stone.
Please girls be aware this situation was actually alot worse than it sounds when I write it and would definately have had a totally different ending had there only been one of us.
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #1 on: 04 August 2010, 12:33:52 am »
omg i hope you girls are ok

i am touring cardiff very soon i will look out for this guy
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #2 on: 08 February 2011, 06:29:20 am »
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« Last Edit: 13 February 2011, 11:24:00 pm by harriet »
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #3 on: 09 February 2011, 03:57:32 am »
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« Last Edit: 13 February 2011, 11:24:33 pm by harriet »
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #4 on: 09 February 2011, 01:33:25 pm »
Harriet, are you going to post any useful details for other ladies in the area to look out for? I'm sorry, but I don't see the reason for your post otherwise?

If you have mobile numbers for this man, please post them here with no spaces and the last two digits censored, ie: 012345678**

Any first name(s) he is using, and a brief physical description (approximate age, height/build, race, any distinguishing marks), as well as anything else distinctive (local or other regional accent, vehicle description and so on).

If this man is still operating in the same area which he evidently is, the ladies working there need as much help as they can to identify him in the event that he contacts them, so if you have any of this information please add it to the thread.
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strawberry

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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #5 on: 09 February 2011, 02:06:34 pm »
If he is the same guy Danielle has already given a description, or am I missing something?
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amy

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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #6 on: 09 February 2011, 02:22:07 pm »
Sorry, I should have been clearer - I meant confirm the description and that it still applies (since the previous warning is a few months old), add to it any other useful information (first name used etc) and post the phone number Harriet apparently has that he is using at the moment so that other ladies can check for it.

Any updates on old warnings are useful since offenders can continue their activities for long periods of time and just change mobile numbers and so on, but posts do need to contain some information or they don't help us protect ourselves.
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #7 on: 12 February 2011, 04:37:24 am »
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« Last Edit: 13 February 2011, 11:28:09 pm by harriet »
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #8 on: 12 February 2011, 06:51:04 am »
Quote from: harriet on 12 February 2011, 04:37:24 am
[...] with a reponse like that prehaps in future i'll  continue to just directly text the girls i have regular contact with when there are clients who pose a risk to individuals safety !

Harriet, please don't be like that. I believe Amy was referring more to your first post (which was quite vague and implied a lot more than it said - which is fair enough in itself, because you weren't sure of the details at that point, I think? But it's true that this section of the forum is for facts only) than your second; we've had one or two issues about this section of the forum being used to make false accusations and/or unsubstantiated claims against certain people/businesses and we can't afford for SAAFE to get shut down should the subject of a rant get wind of it and decide we're libelling him, or something.

Now of course that's an extreme example, but it's the reason why we need to make sure posts that make any accusations here have a few facts in them (albeit "blurred" like the phone numbers with two digits missing) - otherwise the overall usefulness and reliability of this area goes down, too.

Also, people do need information to go on, rather than "eek you may still be in danger!" without any further details. I don't know if I'm so used to Amy's matter-of-factness now that I don't even see anything in her posts that could be offensive (she literally framed her possibly-contentious statement as a question, which is a very common way, both online and in real life, that people soften their opinions because they do not want to offend the other person) but I think it would be downright silly to decide not to share important warnings with a wider audience just because of it, anyway. I'm sure you're a much better person than that. :)
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #9 on: 12 February 2011, 01:34:45 pm »
What Emily said. Harriet, if you want to get a strop on that's entirely up to you, but your first post was a ramble stating basically that this sounded like it could be a bloke your mate (not you personally) might have had problems with at some indeterminate point in the past, and this is really not enough information to constitute a helpful post in this section. You did imply that you had more than one phone number for this individual:

Quote from: harriet on 08 February 2011, 06:29:20 am
.ive got all numbers from the 2 and a half years stored on my phone

but didn't post any of them, which was what I couldn't understand, nor did you confirm the description is still relevant even though the thread starter is now eight months old. We still don't know the first name this man is using.

Third party warnings, particularly anonymous ones can be and have been extremely problematic here, and the section is the one and only place on the forum where it is crucial that posts are accurate, timely, credible and concise, but still with as much useful information as possible so they do not add unnecessary clutter, and people needing the information can find it quickly without having to wade through pages of 'I think this bloke might have rang me the other week'.

It is vitally important to connect with other workers around you locally, and also to report incidents to the police, but this warnings section is read by a large number of people too and anything that distributes this information as widely as possible is always helpful. Whether you choose to make any further contribution to the site is your call, but please don't get nippy because you were asked to post according to the guidelines.
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Re: Weird guy tries to force bareback CARDIFF BAY
« Reply #10 on: 12 February 2011, 03:14:53 pm »
I'll just add my experience here. A while back I ran a search on a regional forum, for someone who didn't feel qute right. Their number came up in the midst of a thread warning about another guy. The poster was saying she was thinking it might be the same one, but no-one verified this. I even contacted the poster directly, but she could n't remember if there was a problem since it was some time ago. Asked on the post too and the response I got was along the lines of "he's been mentioned so it must be him". Actually the post didn't say it was, just she wondered if it was him.

So completely inconclusive and I wasn't about to attach false facts like that. I never met the person, in fact that was why I was checking it out in the first place - because of the 'way' in which it just didn't happen. I still don't know if that person is a danger or TW to this day!!!!

That's why people need to be very clear so the information is useable.
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