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General Category => Warnings & Wasters => Topic started by: MissMillie on 22 December 2009, 09:43:03 pm
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I wasn't going to mention this online, but after a weekend to reflect on the events of Thursday night I figured I should post something about it.
I went to an outcall after doing all my checks ect, everything seemed fine until the punter/client/whatever went off on one about anal sex (i don't offer the service) and proceeded to hold me down and force me into non consentual anal sex. I was left bloody, ill and scared. I've spent the weekend away from my area of work and am now too scared to leave my place on my own.
Sorry guys... :(
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Millie really sorry to hear of your awful experience.
Is it possible to give us more details, name, area, contact number for him? Just so that other ladies can be safe.
I hope that you have a good support network around you and that you are recovering.
Take care
Hugs
Penny x x
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Just posting en route to France as I had broken down yesterday with the gearbox shattered but sending you my love and support. As Millie was not registered with other sites I placed a warning on her behalf with details on the Guild and Punterlink in the meantime too.
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Millie I'm sending you all my love, if you have any further information we'd all love to get it... Be well and be safe and all our support xxx
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Just wanted to add a bit more love and concern, MissMillie, I'm thinking of you and hoping that you are doing okay. As Penny said, sorry to repeat, but do you have someone near you at the moment who you can trust with the truth and rely on at this time? If you need anything at all, please remember you can always ask here!
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Thank you for the support, it means alot to me, I'm on my own with my animals at the moment but if I'm completely honest, thats how I like it when times are hard
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Hi Miss Millie,
Im really sorry to hear that this has happened! in my rule book no should always be no and remain no..........
hope you are doing okay, take it easy and take as much time as you need to recover if thats what you need!
Hope you have lots of support and i wish you well in your recovery..........animals soundsvery therapeutic.
When I was coerced into stuff, i threw myself straight back into work.......but then maybe I am just weird and emotionally cold ........shmmmmmmmmmmm
Sending lots of love and hugs your way
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Are there any name, address, information available on this person? I know you must not want to think about it at all... But anything that the rest of us could be aware of to help stay safe... Have you thought about contacting the police?
Take care xx Stay well.
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Hello Miss Millie,
I am so sorry that you experienced that. If you are looking for some impartial and non judgemental advice, then definitely think about contacting Havens in London:
http://www.thehavens.co.uk/
They are wonderful. Thinking of you, take care xx
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Oh you poor thing, I hope you are recovering from that ordeal. I know the issues that prevent you from doing it, but did you cosider reporting him to the police? It was after all rape.
And please Millie you really should give the relevant info to the ladies in your area to prevent this happening to them too, it would be the one positive thing that could come from your ordeal.
hugs
Cassie xx
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Sorry I haven't seen around much lovelys, my personal life has been more than a little crazy, but firstly I wanted to thank you all for your support during this horrendous time in my life.
Secondly, this vile crime has been reported to the police, I have given my statement and been examined. Hopefully I'll hear more soon
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Just adding to what the others have said.
Good for you for reporting it and don't let the git drag you down.
Feel better soon Millie, in all areas that are looking slightly shitty right now.
You have our support.
x
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I second that. I hope he gets locked up and the keys thrown away.
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hopes they catch this freak so other girls will be safe and Millie i am so sorry hon -hugs you tenderly-
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please keep us upto date on this Millie, did the police have much look finding this thug?
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not such look :( sorry guys
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Hey all
Just to let you know this evil sh*t has been identified and caught. I can't say too much right now due to legal proceedings, but just so you know, hes no longer out there xx
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Massive hugs, MissMillie! I hope you're still doing okay. You've been through so much awful stuff. :(
I'm glad this guy has been caught. How are you feeling about it?
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Thats great news Millie. Hopefully this will make you feel a whole lot better.
Hope he gets his comeuppance. x
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Thanks for the messages of support, to be honest im still more than a little shaken by it all, but putting a smile on my face