Hiya- totally new to this site, and really don't want people to think I'm over reacting or anything - I know it's not tooo uncommon for some men (less now than when I first joined AW right enough) to push for bareback right, but I've been wanting to report one guy in particular, for a good few weeks now. Also, it worries me abit that men can see this because of what I'm about to write?- anyway, I saw him twice, first time he tried once or twice to slide it in BB, he was told (nicely, maybe a bit too nicely) a firm no though. So we continued with the booking (not even sure if we even had full sex the first time, was a while ago) and he left, all fine. He then started calling me over and over again like an obsessive partner if I didn't answer the first time, followed by sweet and flattering texts. I agreed to see him again about a week later maybe, after one of his 'nice' texts and LOADS of missed calls, I don't know why I didn't just say no as I had a gut feeling, which I would normally always follow, in all aspects of my life. I told him STRAIGHT AWAY that BB was still 100% off the cards basically as soon as he was on the bed- he laughed and agreed but still kept pushing and pushing for it and worse this time, at one point even trying his hardest to push inside me while I slid up the bed away from him, squeezing my pelvic floor as hard as possible so I'd be too tight to just shove in me, "you know you want to" "I'm clean" and he just WOULDN'T let it go?! I started to get angry and abit snappy with him, to which he replied I was awfy cheeky tonight! I told him he was the cheeky one. Anyway I should've chucked him right out, I know- but I had so many different thoughts going round in my head at that moment, I admit I was a bit feared too- but I continued with the booking (as I'm seeing this in black and white now I feel totally stupid!!) we did have (COVERED) sex and then he left. Now, tbh, if that had happened to me when I briefly worked age 18, I PROBABLY would've given in just to save the fuss and get it over with, as I was sooo unassertive and not clued up then, which is very worrying for young sex workers. He did text me the next day apologising for his "over enthusiasm", so that also suggests to me he knows he was in the wrong! However... The phonecalls and texts have still never stopped at night! Not every night now, but at least weekly or twice weekly. He emailed me on AW recently to ask if he had done anything that made me want to ignore him, I didn't reply, and then tonight 3 missed calls again, hence the reason for eventually joining this site and posting! Not sure what the rules are on people's names etc so I won't post his username, and also I know this is a reply to a post re Outcalls* so apologies for that in advance while I get the hang of learning how to work this site (technophobe)
Any help n advice re using this site is appreciated. Thanks xx
*copied n pasted now to new topic