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blondie heidi

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Non-Payer in Central London
« on: 19 November 2012, 04:56:05 pm »
This guy came to me Saturday evening.  He was probably about in his late twenties.  He was from Morocco or some similar look to that, with olive skin and short dark hair.  He was somewhat muscular.  You can tell he works out.  He was wearing a blue bubble body warmer.  He called each time from a blocked number and I took the appointment anyway since I usually don't have problems.  He came by for a FBSM.  I massaged him for an hour, finished him, then he got dressed and I waited for him by the door.  He told me he wasn't going to pay me because he didn't like the massage.  I told him he should have stopped me then from massing the full hour.  He continued to refuse to pay saying that I'm not good at what I do and should do something else and also that it wasn't a tantric massage.  I said I never said that I do tantric massage and that he needed to pay me for my time.  Anyway, it continued to go back and forth for a while and basically he refused to pay and I told him to get out of my flat and he told me not to talk to him like that so I had to push him out.  My boyfriend hurried home when I told him what had happened and just missed the guy but saw him getting into a blue work van. 

I believe this maybe the same guy who came to see me last year in Central London as well.  I was staying at a different location then and he came by and tried to touch and grab me immediately.  I had a bad feeling so I asked for the money upfront that time and he changed the subject and started asking me if I do tantric massage.  I said no I don't do tantric massage.  And he kept saying I should know what tantric is if I do massage.  I said well I don't and had him leave because instead of showing any money he kept insisting I should know what tantric is. 

blondie heidi

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Re: Non-Payer in Central London
« Reply #1 on: 19 November 2012, 08:09:44 pm »
Sorry, I don't have his number guys because he called me each time from a blocked number.  He didn't give me his name either.  :(
I don't believe he was native.  He had a non-native accent. 

Sorry if i seem dim, but is it not like escorting - money upfront?

Sorry to hear he was being awkward though, not nice when it happens  >:(

Yea, this has happened to me only once before in two years of doing FBSM.  It's far less than 1 percent that there are problems like this so I usually don't ask for money up front.  Also because I think it's less likely they will tip if I do, although tips are uncommon (although they are a little more common in the States where I normally live). I think from now on if it's a younger guy or (forgive me if this is racist) a guy from the Middle-East I will ask for it up front.