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Gloucester client to avoid
« on: 27 April 2012, 02:58:41 pm »
Hi ladies,

I'm new to this and my first client was this guy in Gloucester, Richard, bit of a fantasist, give up this life and be my girlfriend, we'll go on holiday to dubai etcetc. It was outcall, I did all my security checks and he checked out. The first meet was ok, during intimate time he asked for bareback and anal, both of which I don't do and said no to which he accepted, but kept asking in a joking manner. Not great but ok and at the time had nothing to judge it on but the second time . . .

I had a gut feeling about it before I even met with him the second time. Met in a pub, did buddy call in pub and again when I got to his house. He paid upfront and we went back to his place and got busy.

He once again wanted bareback, I said no, he wanted anal, i said no, he played for time and went over, not by mistake and as I didn't stupidly have a watch on me I couldn't tell. He got quite aggressive during the intimate section, not just pulling my hair, but pulling it so I couldn't move my head, at one point he also grabbed my breasts so hard I had bruises the next morning and I pushed him off me telling him to behave himself. He also wanted me to deep throat, again I don't do this, I can't do it without throwing up and told him so but that didn't stop him from shoving his member in me several times whilst pulling my hair so I didn't have much choice but to gag lots. Luckily he is very slight, and although I wasn't happy I didn't feel in danger at any point and at the time just put it down to trying to finish the job and get out of there. In hindsight I think if I was more experienced I would have packed up as soon as he got too heavy handed. He also asked me if I was on the pill, and asked for my real name on several occassions (which I didn't give him).

Don't think he's dangerous but I certainly wouldn't return. Not sure if he is perfectly reasonable and a normal client, but I've had about 6 others and they are all perfect gentlemen, not to say they don't get a bit carried away but they don't cause me pain.

I know he has been blacklisted by elite courtesans for being a time waster and a bit of a pain so just thought I'd pop it on here. Hope that's ok and if anyone wants more details let me know.


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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #1 on: 27 April 2012, 03:20:12 pm »
Don't think he's dangerous but I certainly wouldn't return. Not sure if he is perfectly reasonable and a normal client, but I've had about 6 others and they are all perfect gentlemen, not to say they don't get a bit carried away but they don't cause me pain.

I know he has been blacklisted by elite courtesans for being a time waster and a bit of a pain so just thought I'd pop it on here. Hope that's ok and if anyone wants more details let me know.

Hi Taylor - thank you for posting the warning. :)

If you could post any phone numbers for him (format: 012345678** - last two digits replaced with *s) or an email address or home address (again, obscure one or two digits from each part of any address with *s so that, while they are still recognisable to anyone else who's been contacted by him, they could not be used by anyone to actually track him down as per the Data Protection Act rules) - that would be great.

Also, just a quick note to say that he's certainly not normal and he certainly IS dangerous. Experienced escorts like myself and others on this forum usually have a general rule that if a client asks for services that we don't provide during the booking (i.e. not before the booking just to check, but during the booking because he knows full well that you don't offer them but he wants to try to pressure/trick you) then we consider him a bad client and do not see him more than once. We may even cut the booking short and leave immediately for our own safety.

There are plenty of kind, decent men out there who wouldn't DREAM of hurting you or trying to get you to do unsafe sex, or even of asking you to meet them in a pub. (Meeting clients in public is generally best avoided because they could easily hide and just film you without your knowledge or permission. At best they keep the footage as personal wank fodder, at worst they show it to their friends or even upload it to YouTube under the heading "i booked a prossie look at her she can't find me loloolololol"). So you can make plenty of money - and keep your sanity! - even if you point-blank refuse to see anyone unpleasant. I certainly have.

I'm glad to hear you have a safety buddy. :) It does take time to learn how to screen strictly, but every bad experience accelerates that process so as long as you avoid carefully anyone who does anything in the same way this guy does from now on, you should be able to avoid plenty of weirdos and horrible clients in future!
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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #2 on: 08 May 2012, 04:38:53 pm »
his number was 07970848**, I've got his full name and address if anyone wants it. Please email me as I don't log on here too often.

Thanks for your response, made me feel a lot better as part of me just thought I was being over sensitive. Must admit all my other clients fit your bill of politeness and respect and this incident has made me listen much more to my gut instinct.


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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2012, 07:49:45 pm »
Hi,

I seen him a few times. He was a regular, seen him 3 or 4 times but then he tries his luck and asking for bareback and anal and constantly texts you and tries to arrange visits and then cancels them last minute!

I banned him as he started spooking me out with "text me when you get home safe" and "why don't you be my girlfriend" and sending nasty texts when I didn't respond.

He also rings you and asks for you to pick him up from the pub late at night.He seems to have always had a few drinks

I wouldn't class him as a dangerous punter but just a timewaster! As I said girls he behaves himself for a few times and then his mask slips and he behaves like a complete idiot.

He's now been added to my permanent banned list.

Got his contact details & number if anyone needs them.





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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #4 on: 17 May 2012, 07:50:29 pm »
could I have the full phone number please?

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #5 on: 17 May 2012, 08:03:10 pm »
Jessi, can you please send these requests by PM rather than clutter up the warnings section with them? If you're not sure of how to post here, please read the Rules thread which is stickied near the top of the board.

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #6 on: 10 August 2012, 08:00:05 pm »
I have also seen Richard but I have a different number for him, he has rung me from 079708408**, first meet seems fine but he does like a drink, sends a few texts and then booked again. Wanted a little more on the second visit but no problem really, then will you be my girl friend, I used to go out with an escort, all the same stuff as already posted.

I don?t think he is dangerous, just an idiot, I wont see him again but if girls just want to see him once I think he would be ok just never go back.

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #7 on: 11 August 2012, 11:59:50 pm »
I have also seen Richard but I have a different number for him, he has rung me from 079708408**, first meet seems fine but he does like a drink, sends a few texts and then booked again. Wanted a little more on the second visit but no problem really, then will you be my girl friend, I used to go out with an escort, all the same stuff as already posted.

I don?t think he is dangerous, just an idiot, I wont see him again but if girls just want to see him once I think he would be ok just never go back.

I have this number for him too. I blocked him in the end, he gets wayyy too clingy xx

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #8 on: 10 May 2013, 04:36:00 pm »
Well he's texting me again. Wants me to turn up naked at the door! Haven't seen him in over a year and half or maybe longer!

He kept cancelling on me all the time and turned into a real timewaster - so i told him this!

I told no way am I coming out to see you as you just mess me around. I know a chetenham agency has just banned him.

I think he's running out of girls to book as he is blacklisted with a few!

I am now getting the "I'm gutted" texts and "please see me". I'm just ignoring them.

So girls he may be doing the rounds again.



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Re: Gloucester client to avoid - stalking me at my hotel
« Reply #9 on: 03 May 2015, 11:01:50 pm »
Well hes at it again now. Practically stalking me today at my hotel.

I had him banned, but rang on a new number and as I hadn't seen him for like 2 years or longer didnt reconize his voice -  this was 6 months ago.

6 months ago ....

Turned up at hotel room   now he was fine sober (normally had a drink and a bit of a dick) so done a service (rushed shit one so he wouldnt come back!). Then he said ok if I come back later, I'm a member at this hotel gym etc. I said sorry busy, so manged to get moved to another hotel room.

New number 078704762**


Yesterday .....

Get a txt off him (have him saved as richard banned gloucester) - I see your in Gloucester today can I book. I told hm sorry fully booked. He then asked if I was at same hotel as last time (I didnt reply).So get to hotel and check in. Pop out to car to get suitcase etc and guess whos hanging around the front of hotel & bar area. Richard!

So ignore and dont make contact.

Today.....

He's hanging around again. I went into car and drove to supermarket (as dont eat in hotel). Then get a txt saying I look cute in my pink tracksuit (which i was wearing) nice car etc.Hes obviously hanging around watching me.

So when I get back I stay in my hotel room all day and just see clients, not too bothered as he doesnt have my room number.

Now I am leaving hotel late to drive home (last day) and hes hanging around downstairs at bar, sees me and makes a beeline for at the doors trying to chat me up, do you want a drink etc. I tell him sorry boyfriend waiting for me.

Hes a prat, obvioulsy at the hotel sat & sun, a little bit spooked by him to be honest.

« Last Edit: 06 May 2015, 11:36:58 pm by saturnspirit »

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #10 on: 29 September 2015, 10:28:33 pm »
Hi there,
Thank you for alerting us to him.
He's been calling me last couple of weeks, keeps changing his mind and asking questions.
The other day he called me from a bowling alley and asked if I'd pick him up then go to his place in Longlevens. I told him I'm not a taxi.
I've put him off twice and so glad I did now thank you.

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #11 on: 06 October 2015, 02:19:26 pm »
Hi can you PM me the full number please so I can block him as I'm here for a few days.

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #12 on: 21 March 2016, 08:50:13 pm »
I've seen his a couple of times all normal he did ask for bareback the first time but I said that would be crazy wouldn't it and he's been normal ever since tho he does like to have a drink in the morning

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Re: Gloucester client to avoid
« Reply #13 on: 11 December 2016, 05:47:25 pm »
Hiya! Can somebody please let me know this guys email address as I don't take bookings via the phone and am pretty sure he has contacted me? Thankyou. xxx