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General Category => Warnings & Wasters => Topic started by: FoxxyClara on 31 March 2022, 10:12:11 pm

Title: Stalking and Harassment- Ilkeston, Derby
Post by: FoxxyClara on 31 March 2022, 10:12:11 pm

AdultWork Username: Chrishulk
AdultWork Acc: 6512280
Mobile: 075019968**
Location: Ilkeston

Saw this individual three times between Christmas and end of January at his home in Ilkeston, Derby.

On third meet he told me he had feelings for me. Demanded I stop escorting immediately so I could date him. He became verbally aggressive and controlling when I declined and told him I was uncomfortable and needed to leave. I left without the money

He then sent me a torrent of messages begging to forgive him. I made it clear in my response I wouldn’t see him again and blocked him… I also changed my number as I felt he would be persistent.

I thought that was the end of it. I was wrong.

I gave him a fake name and phone number and doesn’t have my home location, (I don’t use social media)… yet somehow he’s found my home address and was waiting for me outside my home tonight.

He told me he wants to give me a car as an apology?! I said I don’t want a car. I want you to respect my privacy! I asked him how he’d found my address and he refused to tell me so god only knows… I’m so private this is a massive shock.

Told him to leave immediately or I’d phone the police. I’ve obviously done this anyway now and obtained a police report so that any further contact attempts can be handled properly.

Has left me shaken.
Title: Re: Stalking and Harassment- Ilkeston, Derby
Post by: Missyblue on 01 April 2022, 10:21:19 am
What race/nationality is he ? How old is he ?
Title: Re: Stalking and Harassment- Ilkeston, Derby
Post by: FoxxyClara on 01 April 2022, 11:07:55 am
He’s white-British.

Age mid 50’s

About 6ft2

He has very large body builder type build, fully shaved head, a scar on his lip and he wears tinted glasses.