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Dexi Delite

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Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« on: 28 October 2011, 06:44:10 am »
I recently decided to throw an upcoming bukkake party with another girl ( you may have seen the thread). My profile states on AW I only offer owo at discretion which won't work with a bukkake (I thought a lot about this before going ahead with the party). 
I have been subsequently contacted by a man calling himself Steve on Aw to ask if the party involved owo, which I told him yes.
I then received an email from a previous client who goes by the name Plain Pete on AW, who said
 
"I saw your aw profile last night and you are offering a bukkake party. So I got my mate Steve to email you via the AW system.
I asked him to ask you if there is OWO and he got the answer back
"there will be owo"
Please can you inform me why 10 guys in a line can get OWO and yet I had to have condom over my old chap?
I know that my old chap was clean as I washed it before I came out of the toilet.
So is there one rule for me and another rule for 10 guys in a line?
Peter.
And dont give me that load of old cobblers abut it being discretionary as discression goes out the windows with a group of blokes."
 

To this I replied that I had only been thinking about this party for a week or so and had decided to take the plunge and that it was just purely a timing issue between me last seeing him and the decision to do the party. I also mentioned that if I didn't like it then my profile will stay the same and I will continue to only oral with. I informed him that ultimately that any decision regarding how I conduct myself and my business is down to me alone.
To which I got the reply
"Ok, did I not look clean or does it look as if I've got something wrong? So why was I not offered the option to freshen up? From what I can remember you commented on how nice I smelled.
I took what you said on face value expecting the same rule to be applied to everyone. It makes you feel really good when you find out that the rule goes out the window big style. You've just hit on the one thing that really pisses me off........... Duplicity. I get it at work, I got it from my first wife. There's always one rule for me and another for everyone else and I always get the shitty end of the stick.
How do I know when I see you again I won't get the excuses, like I've forgotten something etc?"
 

I sent him a further email reiterating what I had already said.  He then called.  Although he sounded nice and contrite he did let slip that he has been Googling me and not only found a radio show interview I did (womens hour), about 4 years ago, but has somehow found out my full real name which he has already considered putting on another forum.   
Although the conversation seemed polite, I couldn't help thinking he was acting in a passive aggressive manner, and that he has put me on a pedestal and clearly seems to be having some issues since his wife left him.
I have now sent him an email cancelling our future booking, as I felt unnerved by his comments and actions.  I may hear from him again, but thought I should let you girls know just incase he decides to contact any of you.

His number is 01494 2796** and 075976533** And I have even got his real name.

Please pm for full details.  ( I won't be near a computer for the next couple of days, but will email everyone on the 31st)

Dexi
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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #1 on: 30 October 2011, 09:24:32 am »
Hi Dexi,

Thanks for posting this warning.

Does he spell his name "Plane" Pete?
If so, he was the first booking I ever had on aw ( still only had about 3 from there  :-\ )

You are right about him - his behaviour quickly becomes innapropriate ( though he behaves impeccably throughout the booking- is extremely complimentary, affectionate, gift-bearing etc, etc..)

He asked for a private email and began to email me through there ( regret this now as he is very IT competant through his job and probably has abilityto access  private details etc..)

He googled me also and started to phone at any time he wished, never asking if it was ok to call etc..
 I ignored an email as he wanted a sexy scenario set for our next booking and I couldn't be bothered sex-mailing.
He also booked a Hotel without even asking me - day, date time etc! ( not an aw request - just called me to inform me! ) I then flat refused to see him.

I got a similar angry response to you in reply. It was very bitter and accusing.
He tried a final time by getting " a pal" ( this Steve?) to email me through aw, basically telling me I was a fool to " let him go". Along with *this friends* email was an aw warning that it was linked to several other accounts - one belonging to *Plane Pete* ;D
I never let him know this as I wanted other girls to be able to identify him the same way.

I didn't post a warning at the time as I never felt threatened by him - just saw him as a baby spitting his dummy out.. :-\
 I have replied to this publicly for other girls to see how the pattern develops..

Definately a serial stalker type though and best avoided..
« Last Edit: 30 October 2011, 09:30:04 am by kimba »

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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #2 on: 31 October 2011, 03:00:08 pm »
OMG!  That's just freeky.  So glad I sent him a polite email telling him I no longer wanted to see him.
During our initial meeting he told me that he had never seen an escort before, so clearly this is a game he likes to play.
Since I sent him my email, I have received 2 calls and 2 emails in the last 2 days.  Hopefully, he'll get the message sooner rather than later and that will be the end of it.

Please be careful girls.  Although this guy lives in High Wycombe, I'm based in Manchester, so he is happy to travel the distance if a girl takes his fancy.

Dexi
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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #3 on: 31 October 2011, 05:53:08 pm »
I've had emails from this guy and I'm in London... Can't remember why nothing was arranged - if he was travelling it may have been a short notice thing as I generally can't commit to a booking on a whim.

Good to know this is the case. Thanks for the info. And yes, he clearly does travel a fair bit!

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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #4 on: 31 October 2011, 09:52:50 pm »
Oh, the " I've been thinking about this for years..searching..waiting until I found the right girl..and so glad I waited for you!" line?  ;D - and yes, he will definately travel the length and breadth of the nation for any girl, write stunning ( unrequested ) reviews on sites I had never even heard of ( very knowledgeable of the circuit for a first time punter .. )  want to meet with you for coffee to " help you out with a tiny website issue " and become quite nasty when you refuse.
( Note to self:- no such thing as a free coffee! ::) )
Also, for someone who is supposedly southern based he was forever in the North West and when I told him I was unavailable on the Monday he suggested every other day for the following two weeks until he got the message.. :-\

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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #5 on: 02 November 2011, 10:28:39 pm »
Hello lovelies-very strange indeed and quite worrying...

Protection from Harrasment Act 1997

Any 3  or combination of any 3 of these

* calls

* texts

* visists by said person or their agent

* letters

Is enought to get the police to take action-they will then issue a harrasment warning and if that is breeched by doing any 1 more action-the person can be arrested. If you need any advice-Im here to help

Shelly

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Re: Stalker- in -Waiting? High Wycombe
« Reply #6 on: 03 November 2011, 09:38:15 am »
Thanks Shelly.

He hasn't emailed or phoned in the last couple of days, so fingers crossed thats the end of it.  I've kept his emails just in case though.

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