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General Category => Warnings & Wasters => Topic started by: fancypants on 20 October 2015, 06:26:52 pm
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1.Client has huge amount of positive feedback on AW
2. White, English, well-spoken and over 70 years old
3. Wears glasses
4.. Avid golf player
5. Markets himself as a Master and looks for escorts who enjoy being subs
6. Very needy client, Sends over 70 emails, texts and expects constant phone communication before booking ( no exaggeration)
7. Cancels and reschedules. Blames me for lack of communication!!! and refusing to respond to dirty texts
8. Always books 2 hours when he punts
9. Complains about the other escorts he's met.
10. He lives in London but travels everywhere in the UK
11. Obsessed with feedback, kept asking why I had not confirmed our booking but he must think I'm stupid.
12. Goes on about clock watchers, hates clock watchers
On the day of the booking, he text and called to say he was at the hotel ( 40 minutes earlier than expected)
I called him 4 minutes past the scheduled time. He had his phone switched off.
After 20 minutes he arrives at my room. There is an aggressive undertone in his behavior. Booking was hideous.
Despite being clear from the start about the booking, my likes and dislikes he goes on about being disappointed that I don't do anal.
He took over 40 minutes to leave after booking was completed.
The only reason why I've put up with his behavior for so long is because he's well known in the punter circuit. I just cant deal with the negativity. The experience was just awful. I've just received a horrible email from him telling me to stop complaining about all the texts and email he sends me and that if I don't want to have this kind of relationship with him then I shouldn't be an escort.
I'm not sure if I'm allowed to put his AW name ?
Do I think he's dangerous? no, but should you have the misfortune of responding to one of his emails then your life until the booking wont feel like it's your own.
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Adultwork usernames don't identify anybody, so as you've seen from the posting rules for this section they can be posted and only identifying personal information needs to be censored. Please post both the AW name this man is currently using and also his User ID in case he changes it; this is the six or seven digit number associated with his profile. A first name he uses would help, too.
If you still have it then please also post the mobile number with no spaces and the last two digits censored (again as in the posting rules) so that other people can search for it; it's probably a throwaway but others can keep the thread up to date :).
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Thanks Amy
AW name - Civilized
UserID=1045505
Goes by the name of Paul
Contact number 079002721**
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Yep, I have spoken to him on the phone. Was very complementary and went on about how pretty I look in my pics etc.
Just came across as arrogant and sounded like a lot of trouble so hung up on him. :D
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He tried to book me but requested a service I don't offer. Lucky escape eh? He did send a couple of lengthy emails first!
He contacted me on the same number above and his aw user name was civilised.
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he also have waisted my time quite a while...
always sending long emails and expecting free endless comunication, to always cancel! total waistman!
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This guy has messaged me a good few times but I've not met him. Definitely needy!
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I had a booking with this arrogant and full of his own self importance idiot, had the nerve at the end of the booking to state he would be expecting a discount on the next booking. Kept telling me to tell him I loved him during the booking (nope), also wanting reassurance that he looks younger than he actually is (you don't) . The age he gives on AW is incorrect at his own admission, he is older than that.
Also sent me abusive emails after when I declined a second booking, told him where to go and what he could do when he got there. He went quiet then.
BTW I saw him in Victoria, incall.
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Oh my god, this guy tried to book my several times, cancelled last minute, sent me several dozen messages (via email, AW, texting), required long phone conversations and constant contact by text. After 3-4 tries at booking that led to nothing, I blocked him last year. So glad I avoided that crap! He sounds like the worst.
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Omg :o So glad I read this. This guy contacted me too and sent a series of lengthy emails saying he wanted to build a rapport before we met. After the last few essay length emails I got bored and ignored the messages. He then went on a rant asking me to "explain myself". "Hello young lady, please explain yourself - I have messaged you and can see you have read them so why have you not had the courtesy to respond. When we meet I shall be giving you several sharp slaps across your behind for being such a naughty wanton slut".
Blocked and deleted.
Thanks for the warning. Just shows that feedback and good grammar are not an indication of what to expect. (I say good grammar as it makes a change to get a well written email from someone who can actually spell ;D ;D)
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Thank fuck I found this thread.
This guy has been hassling me for YEARS. Think I'll avoid now.
Hope everyone is safe x
EDIT: Also, why would ANYONE request a discount? How rude.
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same here!
hes atitudes is disgusting!
he messed me abotu for so long
canceled 3 times or so!
i am really glad i never had to meet him!
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Something bugged me whilst rereading this just now which prompted me to have a root through my AW emails and yes, I exchanged no fewer than 15 increasingly annoying ones with this prat back in 2013.
It never resulted in a booking because he never once suggested an actual time and day in amongst the needy, florid waffle and eventually I wrote him off as too much like hard work - looking at them now I'm sincerely glad that I never had to deal with him in person.
More importantly, the AW nick is 'civilised' - that's with no capital and the UK spelling, not the US one given above. The phone number I have from then is the same as above.
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I did have a similar one on AW, some months ago. I flatly refused to deal with his lengthy demanding messages. I remember other escorts, who had seen him. Hat's off to them. He booked twice. I believe he had forgotten he booked me before. He is a TWs with numerous fbs.
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I did have a similar one on AW, some months ago. I flatly refused to deal with his lengthy demanding messages. I remember other escorts, who had seen him. Hat's off to them. He booked twice. I believe he had forgotten he booked me before. He is a TWs with numerous fbs.
Lucie, do you mean you think this man has two AW accounts? If so, can you please post the nickname and User ID as the site didn't show me any aliases for him when I looked back at the emails I had?
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Lucie, do you mean you think this man has two AW accounts? If so, can you please post the nickname and User ID as the site didn't show me any aliases for him when I looked back at the emails I had?
Amy, I will try to have a look. I normally keep my old booking forms to look back on though I started to clear old ones because the booking page getting too long. There was another TW punter (Mirror knows about) who had multiple profiles without "aliases".
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Yes, I know about that one but he's nowhere near London/Hampshire and nothing to do with this thread.
If the man you're talking about is the same person as this one then it would be very helpful to know, since I daresay there's quite few of us who don't want to run into him :).
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Oh my goodness, I know exactly who this idiot is, he doesn't live in London and sometimes goes by the name of David, needy is not the word for this moron, I wouldn't even know where to start but to cut a long story short, quite a long time ago when my Son was little due to circumstances I ended up a single parent,blah blah blah, I decided to work as an escort to get some extra cash, I didn't even know about being an independent back then so I went to work for an agency, it worked out well for me and I was able to get a mortgage (back then you could get a self cert one just by putting a deposit down, no questions asked) like I said to cut a long one short this guy turns up and the owner of the agency was, you have to be extra nice to him as he is known to write reports on everyone he sees, so in he comes starts bossing me around bending me all over the sodding place, constantly asking me, "do you love me darling? tell me you love me, would you ask me out if I saw you on a night out? would you love me darling, do you think I'm the right height? and so on!! I put up with it a few times even though I couldn't stand him! until he came to see me once when I was tired and in a bad mood so I tried but wasn't a good enough actress that time, so he goes on his numerous amount of fucking forums (yeah the internet was around then) and put's the worst stuff up about me, you can imagine, obviously I got sacked from the agency and because I wasn't clued up on things back then I thought this meant I couldn't go and work for another agency as I would be blacklisted, I stopped escorting and couldn't pay my mortgage, didn't want to confide in anyone, felt really stupid and lost the little house that I had worked so hard for, because of this timewasting disgusting nasty man. A couple of years ago after Id got back to it I was working in a rented apartment, he calls and booked, I thought I knew his voice but didn't quite know who this voice reminded me of, so he turned up, I was on the third floor, I saw red and punched him in the face (I'm not usually a violent person) and pushed him down the stairs, sorry for the longish post and probably the wrong place to post it (still getting my head around this forum) but please ladies avoid the man at all costs, he is a c**t. >:(
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Who would have thought (based on his initial e-mail)? Not me, but I still declined to meet him anyway. Whenever someone points me to feedback, I say buh-bye.
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What a pleasure to read such a literate, intelligent, self aware, sassy but practical profile. One of the most enticing and best put together on here!
I am the kind of discerning, intelligent, experienced, mature 'gentleman' you profess to like. I am also highly tactile and sensual, and sensitively dominant. I will not regurgitate my profile; it is open and honest and the product of some care. My feedback speaks for itself I trust. I am retired and live in Central London
I believe we would be highly compatible, even without centring on words like subservient, bum and trimmed, all of which I find greatly arousing!
For my occasional outcalls with the part timers I much prefer I tend to use the Holiday Inn near Gloucester Road tube on the A4..
Please get back to me.
Paul xx"
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Even after so long this guy is still operating and I am having the same problems with him. I?m glad I found this thread and will now block.
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Just had a long email from him. Stopped reading after the first 2 sentences. By reading his profile he sound like as proper wanker. Thank you for warning I am surprised he's got over 120 feedbacks.
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same as amy prompted me to check my emails and in 2012 he sent me over 40 emails to Arrange then constantly cancel :FF