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fancypants

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Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« on: 20 October 2015, 06:26:52 pm »

1.Client has huge amount of positive feedback on AW
2. White, English, well-spoken and over 70 years old
3. Wears glasses
4.. Avid golf player
5. Markets himself as a Master and looks for escorts who enjoy being subs
6. Very needy client, Sends over 70 emails, texts and expects constant phone communication before booking ( no exaggeration)
7. Cancels and reschedules. Blames me for lack of communication!!! and refusing to respond to dirty texts
8. Always books 2 hours when he punts
9. Complains about the other escorts he's met.
10. He lives in London but travels everywhere in the UK
11. Obsessed with feedback, kept asking why I had not confirmed our booking but he must think I'm stupid.
12. Goes on about clock watchers, hates clock watchers

On the day of the booking, he text and called to say he was at the hotel ( 40 minutes earlier than expected)
I called him 4 minutes past the scheduled time. He had his phone switched off.
After 20 minutes he arrives at my room. There is an aggressive undertone in his behavior. Booking was hideous.
Despite being clear from the start about the booking, my likes and dislikes he goes on about being disappointed that I don't do anal.

He took over 40 minutes to leave after booking was completed.

The only reason why I've put up with his behavior for so long is because he's well known in the punter circuit. I just cant deal with the negativity. The experience was just awful. I've just received a horrible email from him telling me to stop complaining about all the texts and email he sends me and that if I don't want to have this kind of relationship with him then I shouldn't be an escort.

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to put his AW name ?

Do I think he's dangerous? no, but should you have the misfortune of  responding to one of his emails then your life until the booking wont  feel like it's your own.



" Some will; Some won't; So what? Next!"

amy

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #1 on: 20 October 2015, 06:58:49 pm »
Adultwork usernames don't identify anybody, so as you've seen from the posting rules for this section they can be posted and only identifying personal information needs to be censored. Please post both the AW name this man is currently using and also his User ID in case he changes it; this is the six or seven digit number associated with his profile. A first name he uses would help, too.

If you still have it then please also post the mobile number with no spaces and the last two digits censored (again as in the posting rules) so that other people can search for it; it's probably a throwaway but others can keep the thread up to date :).

fancypants

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #2 on: 20 October 2015, 07:12:05 pm »

Thanks Amy

AW name - Civilized

UserID=1045505

Goes by the name of Paul

Contact number 079002721**
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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #3 on: 23 October 2015, 07:35:17 pm »
Yep, I have spoken to him on the phone. Was very complementary and went on about how pretty I look in my pics etc.
Just came across as arrogant   and sounded like a lot of trouble so hung up on him.  :D

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #4 on: 25 October 2015, 09:29:41 pm »
He tried to book me but requested a service I don't offer.  Lucky escape eh?  He did send a couple of lengthy emails first!
He contacted me on the same number above and his aw user name was civilised.
« Last Edit: 29 October 2015, 11:01:24 pm by lacey666 »

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #5 on: 04 July 2016, 06:58:52 pm »
he also have waisted my time quite a while...
always sending long emails and expecting free endless comunication, to always cancel! total waistman!

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #6 on: 29 August 2016, 06:59:38 pm »
This guy has messaged me a good few times but I've not met him. Definitely needy!
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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #7 on: 30 August 2016, 09:33:13 am »
I had a booking with this arrogant and full of his own self importance idiot, had the nerve at the end of the booking to state he would be expecting a discount on the next booking. Kept telling me to tell him I loved him during the booking (nope), also wanting reassurance that he looks younger than he actually is (you don't) . The age he gives on AW is incorrect at his own admission, he is older than that.
Also sent me abusive emails after when I declined a second booking, told him where to go and what he could do when he got there. He went quiet then.
BTW I saw him in Victoria, incall.
« Last Edit: 30 August 2016, 09:37:55 am by You only live once »

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #8 on: 11 September 2016, 05:18:56 pm »
Oh my god, this guy tried to book my several times, cancelled last minute, sent me several dozen messages (via email, AW, texting), required long phone conversations and constant contact by text. After 3-4 tries at booking that led to nothing, I blocked him last year. So glad I avoided that crap! He sounds like the worst.

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #9 on: 17 September 2016, 08:52:13 pm »
Omg :o  So glad I read this.  This guy contacted me too and sent a series of lengthy emails saying he wanted to build a rapport before we met.  After the last few essay length emails I got bored and ignored the messages.  He then went on a rant asking me to "explain myself".  "Hello young lady, please explain yourself - I have messaged you and can see you have read them so why have you not had the courtesy to respond.  When  we meet I shall be giving you several sharp slaps across your behind for being such a naughty wanton slut". 

Blocked and deleted.

Thanks for the warning.  Just shows that feedback and good grammar are not an indication of what to expect.  (I say good grammar as it makes a change to get a well written email from someone who can actually spell  ;D ;D)

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #10 on: 13 October 2016, 09:47:02 pm »
Thank fuck I found this thread.

This guy has been hassling me for YEARS. Think I'll avoid now.

Hope everyone is safe x

EDIT: Also, why would ANYONE request a discount? How rude.
« Last Edit: 13 October 2016, 09:50:40 pm by french-girl »

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #11 on: 13 October 2016, 10:18:57 pm »
same here!
hes atitudes is disgusting!
he messed me abotu for so long
canceled 3 times or so!
i am really glad  i never had to meet him!

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #12 on: 13 October 2016, 10:40:35 pm »
Something bugged me whilst rereading this just now which prompted me to have a root through my AW emails and yes, I exchanged no fewer than 15 increasingly annoying ones with this prat back in 2013.

It never resulted in a booking because he never once suggested an actual time and day in amongst the needy, florid waffle and eventually I wrote him off as too much like hard work - looking at them now I'm sincerely glad that I never had to deal with him in person.

More importantly, the AW nick is 'civilised' - that's with no capital and the UK spelling, not the US one given above. The phone number I have from then is the same as above.

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #13 on: 15 October 2016, 11:15:23 pm »
I did have a similar one on AW, some months ago.  I flatly refused to deal with his lengthy demanding messages. I remember other escorts, who had seen him.  Hat's off to them.   He booked twice.  I believe he had forgotten he booked me before.  He is a TWs with numerous fbs.

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Re: Rude, aggressive, needy client - Hampshire
« Reply #14 on: 16 October 2016, 01:46:41 am »
I did have a similar one on AW, some months ago.  I flatly refused to deal with his lengthy demanding messages. I remember other escorts, who had seen him.  Hat's off to them.   He booked twice.  I believe he had forgotten he booked me before.  He is a TWs with numerous fbs.

Lucie, do you mean you think this man has two AW accounts? If so, can you please post the nickname and User ID as the site didn't show me any aliases for him when I looked back at the emails I had?