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jjj

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This guy was a complete pain - booked for a night, I drove a long way to see him.  After some initial getting to know each other including an orgasm for him he did a runner, and didn't pay.

I'm a relative newbie, and usually quite cautious, including making sure of a meeting before booking an overnight  - I also usually trust my own instincts, and should most definitely have done this time.  Somehow though, I managed to convince myself he really was just a bit nervous or something, and was genuine in saying he'd been let down before...Though reading here I can see all the signs - persistent texts and calls, being elusive.  I should also have kept to my own rule and insisted on payment up front, but he seemed like a nice enough guy at first.  Hindsight is great!

A live and learn and feeling completely ripped off experience, but also glad it wasn't worse.  I'm also pretty sure he uses this scam a lot...and also also have a real and very worrying sense it could have turned nasty if I had been younger and more vulnerable. I'm sure he was trying to get personal information from me, and also that I was watched by a different guy in a car who followed me as I went in. May have been coincidence but I suspect not.  Still feeling a bit unnerved and uneasy about it, and mainly trying to find a way to let other girls know so you don't get ripped off,  and more importantly in case he is as dangerous as I think he may be.

He's dark skinned, very short hair - probably asian/arab/mixed race origin, early 30's, says he is involved in housing ...also says he never has full sex with an escort but likes oral, massage, rimming.  Goes by the name of Ahmad - rayman1979 on AW, phone no is 079315550** email is rayman**an007@hotmail.co.uk

MaddieMoo

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Re: Birmingham time waster/non payer - potentially dangerous?
« Reply #1 on: 06 June 2013, 02:31:38 pm »
I'm in Manchester and have had this guy contact me. I can't add anymore details to this as I blocked him since he set my spidey senses off and don't have the emails but perhaps he spends time in Manchester too.

Sorry this happened to you JJJ xxx
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MaddieMoo

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Re: Birmingham time waster/non payer - potentially dangerous?
« Reply #2 on: 06 June 2013, 02:32:37 pm »
Also, he's not very bright - you can google his username and find out everything about him...
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Dexi Delite

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Re: Birmingham time waster/non payer - potentially dangerous?
« Reply #3 on: 06 June 2013, 03:39:57 pm »
This guy has also contacted me via email on AW.  I don't have his contact phone number though as he never rang.  Obviously he's doing the rounds.

Sorry this has happened to you, but as you say at least it wasn't any worse. 
Hope you'll be ok.
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