DEFINITELY dangerous
Also had the misfortune of meeting this awful man this week and will be following it up with NUM.
I saw his very limited AW feedback when he emailed me, which clearly suggests he's a boundary pusher, he doesn't even go out of his way to deny it in his response.
So, based on that I didn't open his email.
Later on, I then got a Gmail from his personal account, containing his real name, and I took the booking 🙈 (obviously, not realising it was the same person) BIG MISTAKE.
Pretty much everything mentioned here happened to me too, and more- he pretended he couldn't speak English well, and I believed him! (my friend has since told me he's fluent with a local accent!)
At one point, I even said "do you understand what I'm saying?", because he wasn't listening to a word I was saying (shouting even, at some points as it progressed) - everything I was repeatedly saying NOT to do!
I don't offer submissive services at all, so I was really taken aback at some of the stuff he was doing /trying to do to me, and I *was* scared of him.
Very rough, abusive, doesn't take "no" or "stop" for an answer- he also contacted me on another number, and after the booking, he continued calling and texting.. For another booking!!
My friend had seen him in the past, and he'd been rough and boundary-pushing with her too, but not to this extent.
Another pal googled his name for me, and a newspaper article reports that when he was 16, he sexually assaulted 2 women in leith, Edinburgh in 2010, by grabbing ones bum, and flashing them both.
This is clearly an escalation of behaviours over time, and it's extremely worrying - I'm an assertive person, especially if someone tries to do something I don't like or allow, but he overpowered me, and ignored every boundary I have..
Proceed with caution in Edinburgh and especially the leith area xx