The first week of Decemeber I received a call from a guy calling himself Tom said he was from Darlington and was looking for an Out Call, we chatted for a while and agreed a date and I asked him to call me on the day to confirm. He then called me back within 10 minutes 'to have a chat' this went on and on, my own fault I shouldnt have kept answering. Despite constantly asking him not to ring, he would keep on and on, if I didn't answer he would leave voicemails, 18 in one afternoon!

So I started accepting the call but not speaking and then cutting him off, but to no avail he still kept on and on, finally I told him that if he called again I would ring the police and report him for harassment, and he had given me his landling number and home address they would come around and visit him.

That seemed to do the trick and I haven't had a call for a couple of weeks, I thought I had got rid of him.................... but it must have been my unlucky day yesterday because he reared his ugly head again.

I was out to lunch with a girlfriend so had my phone on silent for a couple of hours, when I out it back on there were a couple of missed calls, he has changed his number so I didn't realise it was him calling so I answered and he didn't speak.

I then played back my 5 messages they were all from him, 4 times saying hello it's Tom and the 5th time saying he was Steven!!!

So when he rang again I told him the same as last time I spoke to him, if he calls again I will call the police etc, unfortunately it doesn't seem to have worked as well as last time and I am still getting calls, although I have managed to intercept most of them, thus not allowing him to leave a message or to listen to my voice on the voice mail - I have been advised to not to speak to him or let him here my voice at all, hence that's why I am intercepting the calls so he doesn't get off on hearing my voice on the voice mail - also I am dead tight and it t's me off that I am paying to accessing my voice mail just to hear a load of cr*p from him.

This is his new number Ladies - 078276231**.
This is his old number 075970346**

If you would like any further details or information please email me or PM me

Amelia x


[Edited to remove full name and numbers. Sorry, but you can only use private messages to pass on full details. - Anika]

Police, police, police. I've had this twat too and recognised the story straight away - he sounded really nice when he first rang. I agree you can't live like this - they take this stuff very seriously and will help you. It's illegal to harass people like this - prossie or no prossie, the key legal words are 'intent to cause alarm and distress', even if it didn't really affect you much; if someone is causing this, get the f*cker nailed (and on my behalf too. Prick).

Hi Amelia,

Can you change your number? I had one of these nut jobs and just threw out the SIM card and got a new one (ASDA are very cheap)

Alternatively you can get mobiles that will block certain numbers. My Samsung I-style phone has this facility which is invaluable.

You shouldn't have to put up with his nonsense, lose the nutter!

Oh and report to the police as well, you'll be doing us all a favour

Best of luck
Lilly xxx

surely changing the number wont help.  If he found her website etc before he will just go there again to get her new number.

I hope you went to the police about this one, he clearly just does the rounds to annoy WGs.