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Author Topic: Obsessive client turned stalker - Yorkshire ( Leeds york & Harrogate)  (Read 1961 times)

Princesslucy

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Hi girls , I know many girls report stalking and clients being weird . I’ve been holding back sharing my story due to lengths this man has gone to to ruin my business and his obsession with me. This has been going on for a while  and I have held back as I feel he May have been watching this forum as he’s that sad a man . I’ve even ignored messages on here from girls as I feel it’s him trying to fish for info about where I am staying , so he can continue to stalk and out me again .

I will keep this as brief as I can .
This man is called Graham S**** and he is in his mid 40’s adult work used name is Gs6969 over 700 feedback which he hides . His number is 07703 3999** he lives in the Y030 area of york . He’s about 5 10 , glasses with tiny little eyes and he has a nervous blink he does constantly , brown hair that may be long ish , pot belly and drives a red Astra . He lives in York but he books you in Leeds where he works and will go to other areas of Yorkshire as well.

This man was a fairly regular client of mine for about a year before covid. Just a typical client really , had normal hour bookings . He saw me a few times nothing too much but we would cam with me a lot too.
I told him I loved my food so he suggested doing dinner date meets that I advertise . He would see me once a week for 2 hours dinner for an hour hour of fun in the room. Well fun not really he’s absolutely crap at sex in all aspects so it would usually be 5 mins of doggy max then I’d wank him off and he would go. Easy !

Well this man starting getting attached to me and I told him absolutely nothing about me that was real. Apart from one which I’ll tell you later . He awanted to start going for day trips - I declined . Shopping - I declined - holiday I also
Declined . Asking questions about me and my family a lot , anything he thought I liked he latched onto desperately .
He text me a lot which is fine as I just turn my work phone off and ignore him. He hated this and it drove him mad I could tell. I have never experienced a man so desperate in my life . Then it was WhatsApp sending me messages so he would then know my phone and when it was on and off . As soon as I turned my phone on he was avidly typing even if I hadn’t replied . No issue I just ignore but this got really really bad .

Things get difficult around lockdown. I told him I didn’t like him contacting me as much as he does and basically that I don’t want to talk outside a meet . He said sorry he was being friendly he understood but this didn’t stop .
Just before the lockdown it was my birthday - he desperately latched onto this . He bought me a designer watch and I thought Christ no I need to never see him again ! But how bad does that look I felt awful so I decided I’d give it a month or so and go ghost .
Then  lockdown happened and he had paid me in advance for a longer  meet which we now couldn’t do for his birthday .So we moved online he would pay for online and telephone Gfe basically. Ask him about his day in work what’s on the tele and other crap. He loved it  for me it was like pulling teeth . He was becoming so obsessed but denied it. ‘ I’m here for you forever and always your such a good friend to me ‘ trying to be a mate . I never fell for this but played along as I felt I had to see him after lockdown and I I didn’t want to lose the money I was getting from him or I’d of lost my house . Again he was such a good friend he was helping me . Urgh I felt stuck. Sick that I had to speak to this man to keep a roof over my head I couldn’t bare him . He was  paying for a gfe but it was phone calls asking how his work day was and Skype and webcam shows . We basically moved online he sent me a monthly amount which was half my rent. I hated it but I felt like i literally had no other choice and and I’d get his birthday meet out the way. A full night wIth him just the thought I lost sleep over it.
When the day of his birthday came we are locked down and god forbid I was busy . I felt bad to and turned my phone on to send a happy birthday text and he called me back bawling like a baby. Nobody has said happy birthday  to me wah wah wah.  It was borderline laughable . I thought I hate this guy he’s a sad egotistical baby a narcissistic arse and thinks he’s grooming and controlling me and I hate this and I hate him.
I mentally went to a dark place and one time he didn’t text me for 5 days and I sadly thought ‘ maybe he’s died or had a car crash or something and he won’t ever be able to get to me ‘ awful I know .

I got sick of him and turned my phone off when I put it back on he was suddenly ‘depressed’ and he started talking about suicide and how one of his friends  had died - attention seeking lies . He told me the same story 6-7 times and I played along like I believed it .

Then we are out of lockdown and I have to see him - shit . We aren’t doing the full night just a dinner which would be taken from the money he has already paid me. 2 dinners and I’m free .
The meet ends , and then for the following few days he’s texting me again and again . I ignore it so what does he do ? Send me money without me asking .
‘ it’s not fair you’ve had to meet for free let me send you this ‘ NO! No No no :(

This wasn’t ever going to end ! He was creating a constant debt for me to repay by meeting him and disguising it as help and being a friend . It wasn’t it was so he could see me mither me and speak to me still . I couldn’t bare it .
I lost it and I said I’m sorry but this is too much you keep texting and wanting to talk you feel entitled to speak to me and I hate it. I don’t want the money but if I send it back he has my FULL name and no way in hell is he getting that .
He is all appologies I’m so sorry I’ve over stepped the mark I know I have I’m sorry I won’t do it again . So I block him on What’s app and say please leave me alone for a while and give me some space .

When he cried down the phone  that time , I knew this was a sad lonely man with nothing in his life but me . His whole day and mood would fixate around me and it was hell. My first name only slipped out once during a meet and he was DELIGHTED! One mistake I made - well it was all he needed when the penny finally dropped that I wasn’t interested and wasn’t going to see him again ever ( his nightmare it would seem )
I googled myself a good 6 months or so before I cut him off deactivated twitter , no Facebook and Insta is private and I Found him and blocked him even though I am also private can’t be too safe . I knew his fixation with me was weird and thank god he doesn’t know anything else about me that’s real.

So after I confronted him and just said look I can’t keep having this he apologised and gave me space . For 2 weeks ! I replied and said I had had a great time not being mithered by him in all honesty . He said he was sorry let’s leave the texts from now on ( what id been asking for months ) and we can just meet whenever I feel comfortable.

Ok so I didn’t arrange a meet with him , he appologied by sending me more money for food and a treat that he didn’t want back or anything in return . Ok thanks now leave me alone for a few weeks at least PLEASE.
48 hours go by texts ‘ I hope
You’re ok thinking of you you’re such a good friend . I’m always here let me know we can go out for the day instead do you want to do this and that ?

AAAAh! No! I totally lost it I said that’s it you’re an absolute sad delusional crank I told you repeatedly to stop texting me and I don’t want you saying good morning or asking me out I’ve said no no and no again ? It’s crazy .

I said I’m done I can’t meet . You scare
Me you make me feel sick I don’t care what I owe I won’t meet if you don’t leave me alone I will report you to the police just stop !
He is all apologies ‘ sorry I think we should not text from now on I just really care about you’ he doesn’t he’s sad and beyond the point of help .
I cut him off and I’m done .
A month later I get a text as he’s blocked on what’s app saying can we meet for coffee he doesn’t understand what he has done wrong he’s only ever tried to be a friend and he’s never been so low he would never hurt me ‘ begging me , dear lord .
I ignore this and this is the last direct contact from him ( august last year )

But is he over it ? NO! He’s stalking me now online and offline .
I thought around Christmas time he would crack and attempt contact again which I would obviously ignore . I even had the balls to do a short tour of york where he is from and had no issues .
Or so I thought.
I have a great few months of being able to work again and not speak to this sad arse . I was getting back to myself .

2022 first day back at work and BAM! Was I wrong .
This man had been calling various hotels in December and reporting me to them . I checked in a hotel early jan and when I got to my room the managing director of the hotel chain was at my door .
Basically he said someone ( wouldn’t say who for data protection how Rich ) had Been calling that hotel and the sister hotel I also work out of saying I was escorting which is the truth. this person mentioned me by name and also had my adult work up . They had numerous calls throughout December threatening to go to the media which is why they are confronting me . They also had a call the day before I checked in saying ‘ she’s there tomorrow ‘ hence the ambush .
I was sickened , humiliated I had to cancel all my appointments and I had a full day and I was 3 hours from home .
I denied it at the hotel but said I wanted a full refund and I will leave. They said they would only tell me who called if I went to the police. 
I had a panic attack in the room before I left . I bolted it home and once I’d got over the shock i realised there’s only one person who knows my first name , has my aw and is sad enough to do this - Graham .
But how did he know where I was and when ? His stalking of me . This was done on fake alias accounts - but before
Xmas i Hadn’t cammed so how did he know where I was ? Fake numbers maybe or physically stalking me as he knows the hotels I work or used to work from.
In January I cammed at new year - I told one maybe 2 people on cam I recall I’d be an X hotel and nobody else bar my regulars would
Of known where I was . So I am sure he used a fake alias to get this info ( northyorksman86) .
To do this over an extended period shows a personal and bitter vindictive grudge . It’s him there is nobody else it could be .
I have also has hack attempts on my adult work twice - both locations where near Bradford very early in the morning ( he works near there ) . Seems fishy he’s luckily failed hacking me .

I haven’t contacted him this is what he wants . He wants me to shout at him as any attention is attention from me to him or he Wants me to reach out for ‘help’.
This was early jan it’s now early March - will this be the end ? I hope so . But I also wouldn’t be surprised if he is still plotting and obsessing .

So that’s my story . Please be aware of him he will be looking for a new victim soon and probably already has . Don’t give him the time of day he’s mentally unstable , a narcissistic delusional sad man who lives with this mum and dad still . He’s also a compulsive liar , says he drives a Porsche but I have never seen it , says he’s got a high level job I don’t believe that either certainly never dressed well , he has addiction issues as well and is on medication for depression and anxiety although this could of been one of his many lies .

However , this guy was silly enough to tell me his full name , his mums name , his dads name where he works and his reg . I have all the information you need if you’re unlucky enough to come across this man .

Please be aware and feel free to share any experiences with him. Thanks
For reading x






   

amy

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Lucy, could you maybe post a summary for the people who won't be able to read the above? Just actual events/description and whatnot :)

Princesslucy

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Lucy, could you maybe post a summary for the people who won't be able to read the above? Just actual events/description and whatnot :)

I can’t summarise anymore than I already have Amy this is the short version of the hell this man has put me through . ‘Actual events ‘ have you read my post ?
Thanks for the lovely inbox from concerned women not asking ‘ what actually happened ‘ wow .

amy

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I can’t summarise anymore than I already have Amy this is the short version of the hell this man has put me through . ‘Actual events ‘ have you read my post ?
Thanks for the lovely inbox from concerned women not asking ‘ what actually happened ‘ wow .

Most of it, yes. All I meant was some brief salient facts without the supposition, speculation, insults and comments about his sexual performance and so on. I appreciate that it feels good to get it out of your system, but not everybody here's first language is English (and even some of those for whom it is might have trouble unpicking the above). But you do as you like :).