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Sam- Elite Dates- Complete Scammer!!!! London
« on: 22 August 2012, 01:43:09 pm »
Has anybody dealt with a guy Sam from Elite Dates in London?

After several phone calls and emails he finally convinced me to give escorting a try- he said he could get a lot more for me cos I am attractive- he offered ?3200 and I finally caved.
I made him answer all questions, had many phone calls with him, and naively trusted this man I had not met, and went on my booking, and was promised payment in cash the following day from their offices in Regent Street at 3pm.

It was an awful night in a dirty small apartment in Arsenal, but I kept me head high, and did what I was supposed to do- 3 times! Made my excuses and left the following morning.
I called the agency number from 3pm every 30min, first there was no answer, so I sent an email. Then I put my number on blocked and he answered, recognized my voice and hung up.
I then called from a different number and put on an accent, he answered again and tried to talk to me but then said the line was breaking up and hung up and didnt answer again.
I have sent threatening emails, saying I have semen from the condom, credit cards details and business card from the guy I was with, but he hasnt replied and I'm wondering if I can even go to the police with this as it is now ilegal to trace people's phone numbers to an address...

I dont know if I met with an actual client who paid, or if this guy just does this to have sex with stupid girls like me...
Either way, is there anything that can be done??? I know I was a complete idiot, and should have taken better measures, but it was my first time... Also, can anybody give me a TRUSTWORTHY agency in London so this doesnt happen to me again!

Here is his number ladies, in case you get duped by him too- SAM 020312968** and email is s**@elitedates.tv
« Last Edit: 22 August 2012, 01:47:32 pm by amy »

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Re: Sam- Elite Dates- Complete Scammer!!!! London
« Reply #1 on: 22 August 2012, 03:54:30 pm »
My bet is that it's just him preying on the new.

He's committed a criminal offence, but unlike those holding dud cheques, it's going to be hard to interest the police and the civil courts are no good either - they won't enforce sex based contracts, even if you could demonstrate that this was meant to be play for pay.

You have had your best revenge by posting about it - it may make it harder for him to find more victims.
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Re: Sam- Elite Dates- Complete Scammer!!!! London
« Reply #2 on: 23 August 2012, 08:42:07 pm »
Also, please read the articles on the main site (http://www.saafe.info) for more information on how to find decent agencies (although none of them are great because they're all pimps/criminals so be sure to have your own security sorted) and learn about other important security and safety concerns. We do not publicly recommend any agencies on this forum as we do not promote illegal operations, but it's easy enough to research them via punter sites. Read the main site for the bulk of savvy escort info, then use the search box here on the forum (at the top) to do even more research on any specific topics you're not sure about.

If you have further questions after all that research, go ahead and post them in the main Questions & Answers section of the forum.

Also, there are sex work outreach projects and health centres where there are people you can chat to should you feel (understandably) horrified over the scam that was pulled on you by that indescribably foul individual. It's always good to have a contact at a health centre/safe space for times when you need advice from a professional person - internet strangers aren't always the best audience for everything, although we do try our best here. :) It's just generally a good idea to have a bit of a support network when working in the sex industry as it's easy to become isolated and therefore a somewhat vulnerable target to all sorts of nasties. It could happen to anyone, but the best defence is having others you can turn to in odd situations to say, "Help!" or "What do you think of this guy's offer?! Weird, right?" or "Can I call you when I get there to let you know if I'm okay?" etc.

(hugs) Stay safe.
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Re: Sam- Elite Dates- Complete Scammer!!!! London
« Reply #3 on: 03 November 2012, 06:27:26 pm »
 >:(  :(

I had the exact same experience. The guy seemed very helpful and said that I could pick up my money from the regent street offices. He said that it would be open from 1pm-1 am. The apartment was dirty and was also in arsenal and I'm assuming the guy was black as well. I feel like such a fool.  :FF Because I know it was the same guy.

He always contacted me saying I'd make 2400 pounds if I stayed overnight. Now I'm going to the hospital to get anti retrovirus because  I do not believe this guy is clean. He made everything seem so professional, he got all my details and explained everything to me.

Whenever I try to call it says that the number is no longer in service but yesterday it was working just fine, and when I text the number he gave me he never replies.
The money aspect caught me but I will never ever ever be doing anything like that again. I'm so sorry you went through that, and I wish that I read your post so I wouldn't have gone through what I went through last night :(

I just take this as a learning lesson.