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Carla

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Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« on: 23 March 2009, 11:25:37 pm »
Not sure if this should be in the warnings and wasters, maybe it can be moved if admin see fit? Had an email from a bloke claiming to be disabled which isn't a problem for me, and I do genuinely believe he is, as I can't imagine someone bothering to go into this much detail (or indeed managing to lie still and fake paralysis should he eventually shack up with someone).

The thing which made my blood boil was the "I'm disabled so pity me" card. And things like "I will compensate you if you comply" etc which made me think he was trying to pull a fast one. I said a resounding NO and heard nothing back, which kind of makes it feel like he was talking a load of crap anyway. But I was interested to hear if he's emailed anyone else???

I'm also keen to know your thoughts- anyone reckon this a legitimate request, (as I've not had much experience of paralyzed clients), and I'm being a suspicious, cynical, non-disabled-friendly cow, or was he simply looking for someone dumb enough to BB?

Part of his email:
I don't want to assume anything, so I do need to address one thing.
Because of being partially paralyzed, I have some diminished feeling in my lower body. Because of this, I can still reach an Org, but with a latex/lamb barrier, it does not provide me with the feeling of a complete experience and true Big-Org.
That's why I need One and Only One girl to see for the next 8 to 12 months that I can be bareb**k with everything. I will not see multiple partners. I won't do that. I had a full physical and complete blood workup completed and can show you my documentation stating that I'm completely free of everything. If you would agree to see me, I would assume you would have been tested in the last 6 months as well.
I know this type of special request is not for just anyone. The bottom line is, I do require bare**k-/-no condom. I'm fortunate to be able to afford your rates, so I?d be willing to compensate you above your normal rate if you're willing to spend time with me and fulfill my special type of request.


Anyone else received it? Bollocks or not?

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #1 on: 23 March 2009, 11:48:40 pm »
He emailed me a month ago. My instinct is that he's for real, but I don't know if you're in the same area as me. If he said he'd be staying somewhere other than the Brighton area then it's bollocks.

I replied politely and suggested that if he didn't find any takers I might be able to give him the right kind of stimulation with a HJ. He said it wouldn't work and asked if I'd do OWO. I said no and he didn't reply to that.

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #2 on: 24 March 2009, 01:17:52 am »
Ok we sussed it then, load of bollocks. He said London to me. And I also said I'd be happy to try stimulation with hands and mouth and heard nothing back after the OWO question!!

Banished to warnings and wasters.

Even attached a photo, the dickhead!

Should I repost it there or will the magic admin faries be able to wave their technological wands and do it so it's not posted twice?

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #3 on: 24 March 2009, 02:23:48 am »
Like I said, its not worth the risk. Any psycho could be willing to cough up papers only to be lying to multiple prostitutes infecting each one. I'd suck a dick without a condom, but nothings going in my ass without a condom, and vice versa. He sounds so charming.

In addition, most men are content with oral or hand stimulation even if you have to use a condom at first for real sex. Dont have his kids!

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #4 on: 24 March 2009, 05:19:17 am »
Dear Lord, It is totally amazing some of the silly things these guys will try.  ??? I mean did he really think this would work?

brandy@saafe

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #5 on: 24 March 2009, 07:21:33 am »
Yup, had that about a month ago too. Letter for letter. Got the webcam pic too. For me the area was Surrey, I guess as I live in Croydon. I wrote back and said that I'd be happy to do everything else but the bareback, but he never replied back. I did say he'd be hard-pressed finding a lady worth her salt to engage in bareback services with him and wished him luck.

I got the same impression you did Carla. Dangling a carrot in front of me with long and regular bookings. And I did say to a couple of other colleagues that I thought he played the disabled card to the hilt as well.

I thought he was for real. Obviously not.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #6 on: 24 March 2009, 07:33:41 am »
On my tour I had a guy call private, in which I told him to either call back listed or email me. It was about doing bareback and how much he loved it. Im not sure whether to call those guys timewasters but since I've never had someone who likes to NOT wear protection on a booking I usually dismiss them as such.

Back in my early days I have barebacked once or twice on a booking but I rather not take the risk again, or put them at risk. Dang, I was wild!

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #7 on: 26 March 2009, 04:56:44 pm »
I regard anyone who wants bareback as a timewaster.  My experience with disabled clients is that they want to be treated exactly like everyone else.  That's actually part of their fantasy.  I've offered extra time to disabled clients and absolutely none of them will take it. 

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #8 on: 19 October 2009, 04:10:15 pm »
i recently put a warning on punterlink about a disabled client i saw whom believe is making up the extent of his disability and asked for bb. could be the same guy?

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #9 on: 25 October 2009, 08:18:28 am »
Alarm bells ring loud and clear when anyone emails 'I want to book you for regular long bookings' etc, when they haven't even met you yet. Disabled or not, that is the in the 'Top 5  TW Tactics' for me.

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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #10 on: 27 October 2009, 04:48:22 am »
I feel genuine sympathy for people with disabilties. Not just a line I use, im close to somebody who has "problems" but honey, its not worth your life!
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Re: Am I ignorant or is he genuinely disabled?
« Reply #11 on: 04 November 2009, 07:17:49 pm »
The same thing is happening to me at the moment!  Im so pleased Im not going bonkers!   A guy by the name of Ryan25 on Aw is emailing constantly asking loads of questions and asking if I will give him discount!  Makes me feel terrible but he is really probing about my personal life.  I have replied saying that the whole point of a booking is to talk then and Im not prepared to answer his questions.

Hope Ive done the right thing and seeing this makes me think I have!

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