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strawberry

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Meeting safety
« on: 22 May 2009, 07:05:59 am »
Hi

Just wondered what the other Escorts on here thought of the following requests;

1. A guy wants an outcall to his house, sends a lot of text, doesn't want to phone because he too shy - then says he's a student and his housemate may be in when I visit so be discreet i.e. act like a friend coming over. Has given me an address but no landline yet (I've also told him he needs to call before I can accept a booking from him).

2. Another guy says he is travelling to the ferry next week in his motor home. Will I meet him in a layby near the M6, says it's really nice inside with 2 double beds etc. Doesn't want to come to mine since he says he has a lot of valuable equipment in the van (my parking is at a church but in a nice area, that's very safe, discrete, well light etc).

These came through before I decided to go back to only seeing regular clients, I've had guys ask to meet me at services before (usually truckers) or to properties where there may be more than one male - always said "no".

What does everyone else do?

Trafford

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #1 on: 22 May 2009, 08:31:09 am »
No and No  :)

Shy boy may well be a house sharing student but I'm not about to walk into that set up. As for agoraphobic M6 motorhome man, forget it.   

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #2 on: 22 May 2009, 09:50:56 am »
I've been to see clients where housemates may be present, but I still wouldn't see #1 because he sounds like a timewaster. If I was going to have any further communication, I'd tell him to stop texting and arrange an incall.

Meeting in a truck... sounds dodgy, but I always take security on home visits, so I could probably work something out if I was convinced that he was actually there.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #3 on: 22 May 2009, 10:02:22 am »
sends a lot of text, doesn't want to phone because he too shy

lies. The exact same lies I've dealt with someone recently. He's not shy, he's hiding something. run

brandy@saafe

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #4 on: 22 May 2009, 06:04:56 pm »

What does everyone else do?

Say no. For the reasons Trafford stated above. No ifs ands, buts or maybes.

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #5 on: 22 May 2009, 09:01:11 pm »
I'd tell both to bog off: to Shy Boy because I think he's got no intention of making a booking, and to motorhome man because I wouldn't feel safe in that set-up.

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #6 on: 22 May 2009, 09:14:12 pm »
Texting because hes too shy to speak to me? Id say timewaster if it were me. If somebody cant summon the courage to talk to me, how on earth will he work up the nerve to shag me?!!!!
As for the other one Mr Lay-by man. Im not sure, but if in doubt I do nowt...
Im not surprised you just want to see regulars, me too!
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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #7 on: 23 May 2009, 11:30:26 am »
Im not surprised you just want to see regulars, me too!

Not to get to off-topic, but I'm also finding that literally 100% of the possible new clients who've contacted me over the last month or so have had something either a bit funny with them or something totally wrong (like trying to pressure me into BB). They've almost all been quite odd with emotional issues that just come gushing out all over the place. Out of the three that I've actually met, I had to cut short 2 of the meetings because I just had a Very Bad Feeling after talking to them for a little while. :-\ Is there a place to advertise for only men who are reasonably sane, comfortable and happy with visiting WGs?! Thank god for "boring" ol' regulars.

More on-topic: From my experiences, no, I don't recommend seeing shy boy or truck man!
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strawberry

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #8 on: 23 May 2009, 03:43:52 pm »
Thanks, sometimes guys act as if I'm being unreasonable. They just don't get it or see anything wrong in their requests.

I bet they wouldn't order Pizza by text or from a mobile home to a layby!

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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #9 on: 24 May 2009, 12:09:08 am »
No, no and a thousand times no - all sound dodgy to me.

And I have to agree with Cindy, there seem to be a lot of wierdos on the prowl again.

Ruth you are not being unreasonable, we are women working mostly on our own and putting ourselves in vulnerable position at best of times and while many of these men are nice and harmless, how the hell are we supposed to know that if we have never seen them before. If they are halfway intelligent, they should understand our need to safeguard ourselves as best we can.
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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #10 on: 24 May 2009, 11:14:15 am »
I think it must have something to do with a lack of attention in other aspects of thier lives. This could be why certain clients act like spoiled children wanting thier own way.
I try to remember that they are being demanding with me due to the fact that every other WG he has contacted has refused to accept his BS! I certainly wouldnt pander to my kids in this manner!
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Re: Meeting safety
« Reply #11 on: 27 May 2009, 12:25:04 am »
P.S.
I think Shy-Boy was texting me this evening! (Im in the same part of the country as Strawberry)
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